Hi guys, I hope you can help me!
I’m curious to know how you all approached the subject of who pays for what?!
We are due to get married in Ibiza May 2023.
We have 4 bridesmaids and 4 groomsmen. Originally we said we would pay for their outfits but after a huge drama with bridesmaid dresses after I chose them a dress and paid for them, some of them weren’t keen and are now saying to look at more expensive dresses and they would “contribute” to them. I said I would only pay the amount I paid for the original dress towards a new one. I’m now totally regretting saying we’d even pay in the first place! I know we are expecting them to fly out to Ibiza so there is already expense in that, but am I being too cheeky to ask them to pay towards their outfits now too?
We haven’t even started looking for groomsmen attires so how can I approach the subject of them paying for their own? And is it fair to do this? HELP ME!!!