So I am married now..

It is quite common to get post wedding blues. I properly best to find a new project to focus your attention on like DIY or holidays, like your honeymoon

Yep, perfectly normal. We went on honeymoon straight away so it wasn't too bad but I did get the post wedding blues when we got back from honeymoon. Looking at the TOG pics, deciding on wedding albums, picking thank you card designs etc helped a bit but eventually, you'll find yourself thinking about the come-down less and less. Getting back into your normal everyday routine will help also.

It's not pathetic, it's understandable! How are you feeling now?

I got married on Sept 20th but am doing OK so far as there's been loads going on. We also went on holiday 9 days after the wedding. I've just had the professional pics & our video is due soon too. I'm expecting a bit of a crash once I've printed the pics & seen the video & it's all fully over.

You must be on your honeymoon now so that's hopefully cheered you up!

Looking at the iwedplanner site , deciding on wedding albums, picking thank you card designs etc helped a bit but eventually, you'll find yourself thinking about the come-down less and less. Getting back into your normal everyday routine will help also

You've got your honeymoon to look forward to now.

I didn't feel any different at first but now my mind is just a pile of mush as I was such a stress head before the wedding.

I'm focusing on the wedding photos (we are having a couple of photo box albums done as Christmas present for people) and also buying Christmas presents.

We haven't got as far as planning a honeymoon yet so that may be next on the list - we got married abroad and had friends and family there for the full two weeks so we didn't get any alone time…certainly not something I would do again!

Lots of people go through it apparently…you've had the happiest day of your life, other days seem boringly average…

Get your holiday clothes out and focus on what you'll be wearing (or not ?)

xx

I do not know either.maybe it is a tradition.

I got married in September and felt a bit deflated afterwards, I think that's normal, it's such a huge build up that takes up so much of your time and your head.

You have the honeymoon to look forward to and the photos and your first Xmas together. It'll settle down soon but I'm pretty certain every bride goes through this.