Help me please, past brides or people with wedding knowledge.
Without trauma dumping, my surname isn’t my birth name, it was changed when I was a child to a man’s who was my abuser and I cannot wait to get married and take my FHs name.
My question is, in a civil ceremony performed at a licensed venue, do they have to say our full names or can I ask them to say only our first names?
ie ‘Do you Rory take Amelia to be your wife?’ Instead of ‘Do you Rory Williams take Amelia Pond to be your wife?’
I just feel like hearing it on my wedding day will be upsetting. I have considered changing my name by deed poll before then but it’s expensive to change my passport and drivers licence to only do it again in 2 years. TIA
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