He Called Off The Wedding...?

My fiance's aunt is a tyrant, to say the least. If there's gossip, she's the root of it. If there's rumors, she's starting them, and lying to add to them. If something can be even remotely interpreted as unfair, she'll blow it out of proportion. Her daughter and her together are the gruesome twosome. Her daughter is an even bigger liar than her mother, and when they get together, drama and s***-talking is abundant.

So, the daughter (my fiance's cousin) has, her whole life, always tried to make everything about herself. To a degree that is so ridiculous that it is nearly pointless to elaborate on it here, because some of it is so weird that it's almost hard to believe. Let's just say, she calls herself "The Princess", and even made my fiance and I change the date of our first date because it happened to fall on her birthday--and that's HER day. haha. Now you kinda know what I'm dealing with here.

So anyways, a lot of terrible, extremely hurtful lies have been flying around about me lately from my fiance's aunt and cousin, because his cousin is not in our wedding. Of course, "The Princess" feels that she should be running the show--not sitting on the sidelines. The lies escalated to a fever pitch. I have lost 10 pounds in less than 2 weeks because of stress. The drama is constant, and cruel, and I have been taking prescription medication to control the nausea caused by the stress they're causing. I can't sleep, I can't focus, or eat. My fiance asked that I stay silent while this all went on, and asked me to ignore it. But it got to a point where I couldn't anymore, when the lies were cutting too deep, and I had become totally unexcited for our wedding, because they were trying to make that all about "The Princess", and how unfair it is that she's not in it, and "If she's not in the wedding, then we're not going to it" kind of crap.

I finally had enough today. I got 3 hours of sleep, because I kept waking up from bad dreams about his aunt and cousin all night. I was exhausted. I was crying all morning, and through the day every time I'd think about them, the lies, the torment, the non-stop drama. Finally, I told my fiance that if they can't treat me with respect, and if nobody's going to stand up for me, then his aunt and cousin are not welcome at the wedding, nor in our lives. This may sound rash to those on the outside, looking in...which I can understand. But trust me, they're koo-koo. Big time.

My fiance and I began to argue over this. We have been arguing for weeks and weeks because the drama and b.s. is causing so much tension between us. I had enough of it and made my decision. Well, of course he couldn't see why I would want to toss these two out of our lives, because he is a man and thinks more with his head...I am a woman and think more with feelings.

Anyways, over a fricken TEXT message later, he called off the wedding, saying I have anger issues because of how mad I am over this situation. He told me that he has already told his mother and father that the wedding is off (our wedding is supposed to be June 30th of this year!). Later, I found out that this wasn't even true--he never told them this.

I don't know why he's lying to me, or what games he's playing, but honestly, I am so sick of this crap at this point! I have no idea how to handle this situation at all. It has gotten so out of hand that the only thing I was looking forward to at my wedding was just getting it overwith so the drama would finally stop. What on earth should I do?? Please, don't be rude...