Photographer not delivered…

Yes all very odd I have to say. If It were me then I would be reaching out to inform my couples but I suppose it depends on how bad the accident was. You say that her communication was poor before the wedding and it seems that has not improved.

There was a post a while back and the poster was also struggling with communication before the wedding, it dose look like a warning sign that if they are bad before then they probably will also be after - even worse when you are trying to access your photos.

So you have not seen any photos from your wedding at all ?

Is she active on social media.

I suggest contacting her again and asking if they have been uploaded yet.

It's understandable to want your wedding photos in a timely manner after the big day. Given the photographer's accident, a bit more flexibility may be warranted. A gentle nudge via text expressing concern over delays while also wishing them a speedy recovery could help. Request a new estimated delivery date in writing to avoid future confusion. If needed, check state laws on small claims limits in case the situation remains unresolved. For now, benefit of doubt seems fair. Open communication in a spirit of understanding all around may lead to the best outcome. Wishing you those lovely photos soon!