Wedding guests cancelling on the day of wedding - very upset

I've only just seen your post - I hope you are feeling better about this now.

It sounds as if the cancellations you were upset about were the ones from the people who had colds. While it's upsetting that your friends weren't at your wedding, I actually think they were being very considerate by not coming. At most weddings, there are likely to be at least a couple of people who are in poor health/elderly/immunocompromised, and even a cold can be serious for someone who is frail. (Also, unless they have Covid tests to hand, they wouldn't know if it were more than a cold). I'd be gutted to miss a friend's wedding if I went down with a respiratory infection the day before, but at the same time, if I felt well enough to go and just turned up anyway, I'd feel really guilty about potentially making someone else really ill.

If you are mostly upset because they texted instead of called, remember that again, this might have been them trying to be helpful. They may have assumed that you would be very busy and not wanted to take up your time with a phone call.

Either way, it's not worth letting their absence spoil either your friendships or the memories of your wedding day. Focus on the good memories from your friendships and the good memories from your wedding. In time, the disappointment will fade.

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