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17 September, 2011

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Vintage earrings help please!
ajdown of Planning, 23 August, 2011 at 08:59

Looking at buying a few small gifts for those involved in our wedding in a small way (doing readings, etc), and one of them we thought it would be nice to get some earrings. She's mid/late 20's, likes...

ajdown, wednesday 24-Aug-11 7 855
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How far should you go in buying gifts for people?
ajdown of Planning, 23 August, 2011 at 20:51

So we've bought something for the bridesmaids as a thankyou, and something for the ushers. Also something for family members (although all they're basically doing is turning up on the day). But how...

jen_84, wednesday 24-Aug-11 14 1,891
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Anyone have a fish tank?
ajdown of Off Topic Posts, 21 August, 2011 at 19:05

Just wondered if anyone wanted to talk about fishies. We have a 60 litre coldwater tank with 4 fish and a clam in it.

stripeyrache, monday 22-Aug-11 22 976
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Operation WhiteCake - the world's shortest engagement?
ajdown of Planning, 16 August, 2011 at 18:36

Found this video which I thought was interesting, about a groom that spent a year planning a wedding in secret, and everything and everyone was organised but kept quiet from the bride. She thought she...

MandM90, thursday 18-Aug-11 30 3,153
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What are you doing for confetti?
ajdown of Planning, 15 August, 2011 at 13:22

I know it's the guests responsibility to bring confetti to a wedding but we thought we ought to supply some, just in case people don't remember or don't grasp they need to bring some. We have the...

Chidders, wednesday 17-Aug-11 48 4,061
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So one of my friends is getting married...
ajdown of Planning, 14 August, 2011 at 08:47

Was browsing Facebook this morning and noticed that one of my long-term friends in the US, who was actually the one that encouraged me to make 'first contact' which resulted in me being here, got...

Rod, sunday 14-Aug-11 7 1,148
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Strange advertising
ajdown of Off Topic Posts, 11 August, 2011 at 21:50

Is it just me seeing Zoosk adverts at the top of the Hitched page occasionally, with details of loads of local singles just waiting to meet me? I can't help but wonder if it's not quite hitting its...

ajdown, friday 12-Aug-11 8 403
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London check-in thread
ajdown of Off Topic Posts, 8 August, 2011 at 08:16

No doubt most of you will be aware of the troubles in Tottenham following a police shooting on Thursday which has spread throughout London over the weekend. As it seems to be affecting more and more...

Pompey, thursday 11-Aug-11 133 9,651
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Pssst.... vikmast, Lauraks, natw0603, gsijane, Gabs, gigglerm, knitting_vixen, Abigiggle1...
ajdown of Planning, 6 August, 2011 at 17:22

Did you realise it was six weeks today? Do I hear a collective "squeeeeee" there? How's your planning going? Anything big left to do? We've been out today to get some small plastic bags and spent the...

gsijane, monday 8-Aug-11 3 736
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Fifty days...
ajdown of Planning, 29 July, 2011 at 11:36

Where's the time going??? It's fifty days today till our big day. Not much still to do, thankfully, except paying bills... but in 50 days and about 2 hours time I'll have a Mrs

*Mini*, saturday 30-Jul-11 21 1,112
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Including lost loved ones in your big day
ajdown of Planning, 27 July, 2011 at 09:16

Just curious really what - if anything - people are doing to remember or honour lost friends or relatives during their big day. I'll be using a quote from my grandfather's memoirs about his wedding...

*Nursey*, friday 29-Jul-11 38 3,151
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Haircut dilemma
ajdown of Planning, 28 July, 2011 at 08:32

Sigh... what would you do? Obviously, I'm going to need to get a haircut a couple of weeks before the wedding. Nothing fancy, straightforward trim and tidy up as always. However, I have two options....

Knees, thursday 28-Jul-11 29 1,690
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A productive afternoon's favour making *flash*
ajdown of Planning, 18 July, 2011 at 16:31

Well, we planned some months ago that, on our holiday this week, we'd sort out putting the favours together. Just as well, as it's been a dreadful few days of weather and it doesn't look like it's...

bec84, saturday 23-Jul-11 56 2,599
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Question re wedding photos of separated parents
ajdown of Planning, 21 July, 2011 at 16:04

Stuck with a little dilemma I thought I'd throw out to the collective wisdom. Quick background, my parents separated about 15 years ago. My father remarried about 10 years ago, my mother however has...

Kooks, friday 22-Jul-11 8 576
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Financial gifts in advance made out to Mr & Mrs... help!
ajdown of Planning, 13 July, 2011 at 13:08

We've just received our first wedding gift, a cheque from someone who is unable to come, written out to "Mr and Mrs". Obviously we can't set up a joint account yet because "Mrs" does not yet exist,...

VikingPrincess, wednesday 13-Jul-11 22 7,849
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Typing mitsakes
ajdown of Off Topic Posts, 6 July, 2011 at 20:59

Anyone notice the "Ends staurday" on the Berketex advert that comes up at the top of the screen? It always makes me smile when I see things like that in what should be professionally produced...

Flowmojo, friday 8-Jul-11 18 977
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Question re who to sit where at the wedding breakfast
ajdown of Planning, 2 July, 2011 at 17:22

Ok, so we've got the top table sorted, but now have five tables seating up to 12 people for the wedding breakfast. It's not a formal sit down meal, but a barbecue served in the garden so we don't know...

SuperSpud, monday 4-Jul-11 19 1,936
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Wedding smells for men
ajdown of Planning, 22 June, 2011 at 08:39

Any suggestions or recommendations? It seems many of you ladies are splashing out on special fragrances for your big day so I wondered if any of the guys were getting anything special, or just using...

ajdown, saturday 25-Jun-11 32 3,447
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Do you ever feel guilty about people you haven't invited?
ajdown of Planning, 23 June, 2011 at 13:17

We've both invited some people from work, those that we feel we get on with and work with on a regular basis, but there's a few people we just didn't invite because partly we didn't think they'd want...

*Nursey*, friday 24-Jun-11 30 1,331
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LED uplighting hire - New Forest
ajdown of Planning, 23 June, 2011 at 09:57

This is our room, and it'll be set mostly like this. I was thinking it might be nice, particularly as the day goes on, to have a couple of green LED uplighters for the plain walls between the doors...

ajdown, thursday 23-Jun-11 9 1,053
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Recommendations for Print Your Own photo books
ajdown of Planning, 21 June, 2011 at 08:49

You know, the sort of site where you upload your pictures, arrange them, pay for it then a few days later a printed book arrives in the post? Just looking for something to experiment with as we're...

ajdown, tuesday 21-Jun-11 5 516
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Sweet buffet options
ajdown of Planning, 15 June, 2011 at 14:19

We were thinking of having a 'help yourself' sweet buffet but having now discovered that the M&M shop has opened in London and doing some digging on the site, I notice that you can get a 1.5kg bag...

bls14, thursday 16-Jun-11 69 4,293
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Attn 17th September brides/groom twins...
ajdown of Planning, 9 June, 2011 at 13:31

I don't know if you realised but it's ONE HUNDRED DAYS TODAY THAT WE GET MARRIED! Squeeeeee! Tomorrow we're down to double figures. Not quite as scary a prospect as I thought. At this exact time in...

caweena, thursday 9-Jun-11 14 890
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*flash* aisle decoration
ajdown of Planning, 22 May, 2011 at 14:26

We popped into Ikea yesterday to get a mirror for our 'table plan' and came across "Smycka" (500.999.99) dried bouquet - well a sort of grassy stuff really - that we both thought would look perfect...

LeeLee :), sunday 22-May-11 8 702
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Veil disaster - can anyone help?
ajdown of Planning, 20 May, 2011 at 22:01

Bit of a long shot but worth a try. My b2b needs her veil as she's got a hair trial next Friday. Originally she was going to use her mum's veil, which her sister used when she got married last year,...

ajdown, saturday 21-May-11 15 1,638
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Four months today...
ajdown of Planning, 17 May, 2011 at 15:02

... we'll have been married about an hour and having our photographs taken. Please tell me these last four months go by slower than the last 10... Pointless post really but posted because I can. Are...

vikmast, tuesday 17-May-11 20 1,397
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I have been practising for married life.... *flash*
ajdown of Planning, 9 May, 2011 at 19:59

I put a shelf up this evening! Don't mind Roland...

SaSaSi, monday 9-May-11 13 777
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Seating ideas
ajdown of Planning, 30 April, 2011 at 10:54

We've been thinking about who to sit where during the wedding breakfast and have lots of ideas so we thought we'd throw it open to the collective wisdom of Hitched to see what you thought. Basically...

kerrylou89, sunday 1-May-11 21 2,434
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IE 9 problems
ajdown of Feedback to Hitched, 15 April, 2011 at 20:52

Upgraded to IE9 now I can't post anywhere. Posting this message from Firefox. I type a reply as normal then hit "Post" and the message disappears, with a red * appearing above where the message where...

Adam @ Hitched, tuesday 26-Apr-11 5 1,580
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How long should speeches be?
ajdown of Planning, 6 April, 2011 at 19:09

Just wondered if there was any sort of 'standard timings' for what the speeches should be, so we can make sure we leave enough time in our programme for them. We will be having father of the bride,...

ajdown, wednesday 6-Apr-11 18 758
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Speeches
ajdown of Planning, 4 April, 2011 at 18:08

Starting to think about my (grooms) speech today, as I know it's going to take some time to get right being something I'm not used to doing. Is there any etiquette about who should look over my speech...

Houdini, monday 4-Apr-11 4 503
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vikmast, Lauraks, natw0603, gsijane, Gabs, gigglerm, knitting_vixen... date twins over here please!
ajdown of Planning, 7 March, 2011 at 19:17

Didn't realise there were 8 of us getting done on the same day. Fill me in on your plans, where you are in your planning etc just out of curiousity really. Our plans? 1.30pm service in a hotel in the...

ajdown, friday 1-Apr-11 10 702

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