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40 minutes between church and reception?

A-free-elf, 24 April, 2016 at 21:11 Posted on Planning 0 8

Hi all,

I know there are a few posts on this already but I wanted some up-to-date opinions!

My fiance and I have chosen to be married in my family church. It is where my whole family have been married, christened and buried and so it is very important to us. We have fallen in love with a reception venue but it is 40 minutes away from the church. We plan to put on a bus between venues and back to the original venue again at night. I thought we had decided but I read some of the other threads and I've started to wobble! Then again, some of the threads had people saying 20 minutes was too far and some saying they were put out that transport was not provided for 15-20 minute journeys which I found quite odd! I'm now so unsure. I've traveled hours to people's weddings and it doesn't bother me at all so I don't think I'm the best judge! What do people think?

Many thanks x

8 replies

Latest activity by Ash953, 26 April, 2016 at 13:14
  • Paula @ Ollievision
    Paula @ Ollievision ·
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    As a wedding photographer I've seen most travel distances and options! I think 40 min is about the max you'd want, but it's certainly doable if you're putting on a classic bus.

    The guests won't mind at all and the journey flys by as they chat to each other. Consider putting a photographer on the bus. When I have weddings with long journeys I usually drive my car and put my assistant photographer on the bus to cover the journey.

    The other good thing about this is the buses go slowly so it gives you and hubby time to stop off somewhere scenic on the way to take some photos with your photographer.

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    Beginner August 2016
    Mrs-Riley ·
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    I think it is a bit cheeky for people to complain about the travel distance if they are not paying for the transport themselves- you're working with the distance and providing the transport, so I shouldn't worry.

    As previously mentioned, people will be chatting for most of the journey so they won't notice- it will provide a great opportunity for you and your husband to have some time alone together (and with the photographer). We're making a big deal of having a period of time between the wedding and the reception to catch our breath.

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  • NorthernLights
    Beginner November 2017
    NorthernLights ·
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    I wouldn't mind the 40 mins journey even if we had to drive there ourselves so its lovely that you're providing buses there AND back! ?

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    Beginner November 2016
    StarCRM ·
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    Forty minutes is fine. I've been to a wedding before where the travel time was nearer to an hour which felt a bit long but was still okay. I'm going to a wedding later this year where the travel time will probably be about forty minutes from church to venue and none of the guests have a problem with it, to my knowledge.

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  • Jayne E
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    40 mins would be no problem for me and I would probably drive and not get on the bus just incase for whatever reason we wanted to leave before the return, bus. So might be worth finding out how many want the transport so you're not paying for something bigger than you need.

    I agree with Paula as well.... You can leave before everyone else boards the bus and stop somewhere scenic on route for more pics. Then arrive just after your guests.

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    Beginner July 2017
    Future Mrs Watson ·
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    My sister in law and brother are doing the exact same thing and i don't mind at all. Its their wedding, so i am happy for them wherever they have it.

    I am personally driving to the church, then after the ceremony driving up to the venue, as we are staying in a local hotel, so it really doesn't bother me at all.

    Its your wedding and if you love the venue then just do it :-)

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    Beginner August 2016
    Chale ·
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    We went to a wedding where the reception venue was a 50-minute drive (about 25 miles) from the church. It was fine - the bride and groom had arranged plenty of time for people to get between them, and set out a clear timeline for the day so people wouldn't rush.

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  • laurafish
    Beginner July 2016
    laurafish ·
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    Ours is between 40 minutes and an hour depending on which route the sat nav chooses and how traffic is that day. We chose our church for the same reasons you have.

    Our guests are driving themselves from the church. Our reception venue doesn't have accommodation, so we are staying in a nearby hotel. For everyone who is staying with us, they will drive to the hotel, drop their bags off and then we are putting on a coach from the hotel to the reception, and another one back to the hotel at the end of the night, so they don't have to worry about drinking. For the others, unfortunately they will have to sort themselves. We would love to cater to everyone but budgets and the various locations everyone would want taking back to mean that just isn't possible. We like to think we've done the best we can in helping people get back to the hotel where the majority of people are staying.

    If you were right to wobble, I should have toppled over by now! Try not to worry Smiley smile

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    Beginner March 2015
    Ash953 ·
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    We did this except we hired a coach (more comfortable and there's a loo), and the guests were on a tour for an hour. Same concept though. We had the second photographer on the bus whilst we went for photos with the main photographer. Our guests thought it was awesome.

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