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Registrar and when to book
Tianya, 2 of February of 2024 at 15:31

Hello, i am getting married in September 2026. I was just wondering when would i need to book the registrar and how much they are . Any help would be appreciated

Charis, 16 minutes ago 10 147
Divorce decree absolute
Sarah, 26 of February of 2024 at 16:16

My fiance needs his divorce decree to be provided to the registrar, he has a copy of this decree absolute in digital/pdf format. Will this be acceptable that we simply print it or does it need to come...

Sarah, yesterday at 22:50 7 39
Wedding Ideas
Kyra, 21 of February of 2024 at 22:12

Hello!! Need some advice… Me and my partner are hoping to get married next year ideally May 2025. We’re from Newcastle and don’t want to travel too far. We need a venue which will be fairly reasonable...

Hackbart, yesterday at 20:41 1 15
Wedding venue issue - Stressed out bride to be.
Colette, 27 of February of 2024 at 11:23

Hi Newbie here and i'm really stressing over my venue. We get married 25th July 2024, just a little under 5 months. We got engaged December 2020. We finally found our dream venue, it's perfect and...

T S, yesterday at 18:12 1 35
momai, 22 of February of 2024 at 10:28

Photographers - how do you know that they are good and that your not going to get ripped off with a rubbish one?

Olivia, yesterday at 14:10 5 79
Barcelona Hen Party - Places to Stay
MoorWedding, 14 of November of 2014 at 13:10

Hello I am planning my hen party for the end of July (2015) in Barcelona. There will be 15 of us, and I was wondering if anybody has any recommendations for places to stay. Looking for somewhere close...

David, yesterday at 13:53 8 3,196
Me and my boyfriend
Alice, 27 of February of 2024 at 23:21

Me and my boyfriend are getting married but we want a different wedding, what do we need?

RomanticGreenStation, yesterday at 13:44 1 21
Wedding Gift from Bride to Groom and vice versa
ebarton24, 24 of June of 2013 at 12:17

Is anybody buying a gift for their future other half? I was planning on doing so and told my other half this the other night and he was shocked and didn’t know about this... Some friends did and some...

Caitlyn, yesterday at 11:55 29 50,041
Wedding Website rsvp
Summer, 11 of January of 2024 at 16:47

Hi All, I would love to know if it is possible to change the order of the RSVP on the website as mine currently says, Evening, Breakfast, Starter Main Dessert Ceremony. ideally i would like it to be:...

Debbie, yesterday at 09:58 1 12
Wedding cake
Amy, 23 of February of 2024 at 18:59

What flavour wedding cake are you all going for? We are having a small wedding and it's going to be served as the desert at the wedding breakfast so it can't be different flavoured tiers because the...

Ivana, tuesday 27-Feb-24 4 41
Politely not inviting family members
Olive, 23 of February of 2024 at 03:30

Hi, I'm getting married in April 2025 and even though I'd always said to my mother that I didn't want family there (apart from her, my dad and brother) she has disregarded this and taken it upon...

RomanticGreenStation, monday 26-Feb-24 1 39
Bridal shop suggestions
Nadia, 26 of February of 2024 at 21:15

Hi all We're planning on getting married in Sep 2025 and I've just had a quick look online to get a feel of what wedding dresses I like and I think I found some designers I'd really like to try at...

Nadia, monday 26-Feb-24 20
Last minute panic about church service
Stephanie, 25 of February of 2024 at 16:52

Hey! I'm getting married 6th april 24. We've got a church service followed by reception in nearby golf club. All going to plan, however the church doesn't have a middle aisle. It has two aisles which...

RomanticGreenStation, monday 26-Feb-24 2 46
Wedding invitations
Kristina, 2 of February of 2024 at 17:32

Good evening everyone I noticed a lot of people are doing online invites etc . But I find it so confusing! And i think I am a bit old school ! Paper invites still a thing or online is the way forward...

Amy, monday 26-Feb-24 8 107
Did anyone get their male fiancé an engagement gift/ring?
I-go-by-many-names, 7 of August of 2014 at 16:55

My OH and I are feminists. I often feel guilty therefore by the fact we didn't do away with the engagement ring tradition. We just went along with the 'man buys woman diamond' thing without even...

Jessica, monday 26-Feb-24 18 57,693
Period due on wedding day - help needed!
Christie, 25 of February of 2024 at 18:50

Hi all! I'm very regular and according to my period tracker, I will start my period on my wedding day! Obviously I want to avoid this as much as possible! White dress, logistics, pain etc!! I am...

Christie, sunday 25-Feb-24 11
Decorations !
Antonia, 25 of February of 2024 at 08:37

If you’re like me and doing things on a small budget that I highly suggest Temu for all your decorations, table favours etc! It’s all the same products as Amazon but comes directly from the supplier...

Antonia, sunday 25-Feb-24 9
Make up artist isn't responding!
Lauren, 3 of February of 2024 at 14:48

Anyone know actually any reliable make up artist for a wedding? South Yorkshire. Always constantly taking my deposit which im now fetting fed up of paying for and ignoring my messages 🙄 I just want a...

Lizzie, saturday 24-Feb-24 3 76
Website Help - Additional rsvp Info
Stuart, 24 of February of 2024 at 12:19

I want to use our website to have guests RSVP. We are putting on a coach service to our venue for all day guests, and want people to RSVP if they want to use this so we know the numbers to tell the...

Stuart, saturday 24-Feb-24 7
Wedding venue
Jamie, 20 of February of 2024 at 13:29

Hi all, We’re looking for a wedding venue with accommodation. A nice house with a marquee? Bridal group stay the night before, wedding guests can stay the night and we stay the last night. We want to...

Stephen, saturday 24-Feb-24 2 36
Hen Do Ideas
Amy, 19 of February of 2024 at 15:56

My hen do will probably be myself and my mum, maybe 3 other female friends. My daughter is my bridesmaid but she is only little so too small for a hen do. Any ideas, we live in a very rural area which...

Amy, friday 23-Feb-24 5 80
Dad refusing to come to my wedding - help!!
Jasmine, 15 of February of 2024 at 22:53

So for a bit of backstory… I have a Dad and a Stepdad. My Dad has never really been close with me, as a child I’d see him every 2 weeks. Now as an adult I see him maybe 3/4 times a year, despite him...

Jess, friday 23-Feb-24 4 97
Stacey, 20 of February of 2024 at 18:10

Hi, Can anyone at all tell me any venues you know of around the NG16 & NG17 postal area to look at! We are finding it so hard to find anywhere or are we being to picky! 😂

Stacey, thursday 22-Feb-24 8 85 1
Order of the day - timings
Samantha, 19 of February of 2024 at 22:13

Hiya, we have a had a breakdown of timings from out venue and think wedding breakfast is really late given evening reception from 7pm. What are your schedules like on the day I’m thinking sit down...

Samantha, thursday 22-Feb-24 5 116
Dry hire venue bar and drinks
Sarah, 22 of February of 2024 at 17:46

Hi all! We've just got engaged and are at the very early planning stages. We're looking at a few venues that are dry-hire e.g. a marquee in a field and a marquee next to a village hall and I'd love to...

Sarah, thursday 22-Feb-24 8
First dance song opinions
Louise, 22 of February of 2024 at 11:21

I want to keep our first dance song a secret so need advice. I love 'biblical' by Biffy clyro. It's so dramatic and we want something a bit faster paced. But the lyrics are really about a marriage...

Louise, thursday 22-Feb-24 11
Feeling very emotional and overwhelmed
Shay, 16 of February of 2024 at 22:25

We have started the process of handing out our invitations. I don’t know what I expected but the responses have been beautiful! I have friends already with their outfits. My work friend bawled her...

Shay, wednesday 21-Feb-24 4 77 1
Panic - lost the whole guest list - is the site glitching this evening???
Tracey, 21 of February of 2024 at 20:17

One of teh guests did not have an option to decline, only cancel, so I pressed cancel, it warned me I would lose table information for that guest, which is correct, but it then wiped the whole...

Tracey, wednesday 21-Feb-24 5
How did you know your venue was “the One”
2026Bridetobe, 5 of February of 2024 at 11:36

Hey everyone, Just after some advice as not sure if I’m just over thinking and over worrying about venue choice… My question is - How did you know your venue was “the one” to go for? It feels like...

Miss, wednesday 21-Feb-24 22 390 1
Wedding budgets
Kay, 18 of February of 2024 at 16:11

Hi, just looking to see what peoples weddings budgets are? We are getting married in June 2024, and looking to spend about £10,000. We are doing a DIY wedding, registry office in the morning and party...

Kay, wednesday 21-Feb-24 13 402
Ethical. Venues & fox hunting
S J, 20 of February of 2024 at 19:28

Hi all! My partner and I got engaged on Valentines day at I'm at the beginning of my journey planning, very excited. We've found the most amazing venue in Mid Wales called Plas DInam but I've been...

RomanticGreenStation, wednesday 21-Feb-24 1 56
Registry / gift list
Abi, 18 of February of 2024 at 19:30

Has anybody managed to add a page in their website for a registry or gift list? I remember reading somewhere that you could do that with Hitched, but now can’t find where to add it.

Laurie, tuesday 20-Feb-24 1 11

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