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hollyhollytree
Asking guests not to post on social media?
hollyhollytree, 10 January, 2016 at 20:42

Hey everyone! It's been so long since I've posted on here, been in the wedding planning "calm" phase as it's eight months away and most things are done! Hope you're all well I've been dwelling on this...

Fast, friday 6-Nov-26 27 27,231
*MM3*
Mother of the bride gifts..
*MM3*, 28 July, 2013 at 19:50

Just wondering what everyones getting their mums as a gift? We'll be getting both Mums a big bouquet of flowers from florist, but I'm very close to my mum & she's helped us a lot with the wedding...

Adexnan, friday 6-Nov-26 19 10,508
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Street food
Kelly, 29 July, 2023 at 16:07

Hi, we are looking at having street food vans for our food at the reception. Does anyone have experience of this, like what works/doesn’t? Do I need more than one van? Do I need ‘inside’ food as well?...

Suman, friday 6-Nov-26 43 453
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Rotisserie Chicken
Tink1810, 29 March, 2015 at 13:34

Help!! We want a feast for our wedding... no fancy three course thingamajig, just a good old fashioned feast - each table will have one or two whole chickens and then other dishes as well - salads,...

George, friday 6-Nov-26 7 1,818
Sian
Photo Albums
Sian, 16 April, 2025 at 18:42

Just a quick one! We're currently about to book our photographer, between two of the offered packages. They're £600 different and the only change is a physical print album. Has anyone else decided...

Franck, friday 6-Nov-26 64 888
Sarah
Chat to Hitched Editor about your wedding planning
Sarah, 18 January, 2021 at 14:21

Hi everyone! I'm looking to chat to a handful of brides and grooms who are currently in the midsts of wedding planning for some content ideas on Hitched. Please let me know if you'd be up for a very...

Tamanna, friday 6-Nov-26 26 527
zoface
Strapless, backless, DD+ cup bra help
zoface, 16 February, 2016 at 13:30

Hi My dress has a low back lace and lace shoulders meaning I can't have bra straps as they will be seen I need a DD+ bra solution to solve this. Tried stick on bras - feels like its falling off in...

Craig, friday 6-Nov-26 9 2,188
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Drinks!
Amy, 17 March, 2024 at 13:51

Hey everyone, We are getting married in July 2024, at the receptions we are having cans of beer and pimms! Both myself and my partner really dislike wine so we are trying to think of other options for...

Aristotle, friday 6-Nov-26 7 478
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'Best Man' is proving to be a bit useless
Mrs-Riley, 17 June, 2016 at 09:22

I'm so frustrated with my H2B's best man ☹️ Bit of background - me & H2B don't really have many friends and if anything we just have our work friends, who we haven't known that long. We're both...

Voocccie, thursday 5-Nov-26 11 4,253
Patricia
New to this
Patricia, 20 November, 2025 at 08:56

Planning our wedding.

Jimi, thursday 5-Nov-26 9 61
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How important is a dance floor?
Evon, 29 August, 2023 at 23:58

We are recently engaged and have 2 venues that we are looking to select as our wedding reception venue. We are planning to have a small, intimate wedding, with around 30 guests. Both the venues are...

Jerry Jacks, thursday 5-Nov-26 6 165 1
Jo.1981
What Glue? - Homemade invitations
Jo.1981, 17 May, 2008 at 12:25

So started making invitations last night and they look really good, but I'm worried that the glue is not strong enough to hold the 1 thistle and bow on in the post (don't want people to open their...

Garedol, thursday 5-Nov-26 23 5,167
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Macaron Favours
xblotx, 19 January, 2017 at 18:38

Hi, I'm hoping someone can help me. We are wanting to give macarons as favours at our wedding. Problem is, when looking, I can only find frozen macarons - I always thought they were just boxed like...

Scott, thursday 5-Nov-26 5 903
Jess
Florist Cheshire
Jess, 30 April, 2026 at 13:34

Can anyone please recommend a florist that they have used before in and around the Cheshire area?

Che, thursday 5-Nov-26 19 131
Cherrystar3
Cricket Themed Wedding
Cherrystar3, 30 November, 2016 at 16:04

Hi Ladies (and Gents), I hope you are all well. I am new here so please bear with my while I get acquainted with you all. I got engaged in March 2016 and have booked our wedding venue for 27th April...

Sami, thursday 5-Nov-26 48 4,316
Annie
Accessibility for venue
Annie, 22 October, 2025 at 13:18

Hi I have my venue booked in the south west for 2027 given family health my mum will be in a wheelchair, it's not the most accessible venue mainly the outside being stones and there is a ramp but it...

Sophia, thursday 5-Nov-26 24 215
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Hen Do Ideas
Amy, 19 February, 2024 at 15:56

My hen do will probably be myself and my mum, maybe 3 other female friends. My daughter is my bridesmaid but she is only little so too small for a hen do. Any ideas, we live in a very rural area which...

Mr Richards, thursday 5-Nov-26 32 207
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Bridesmaid dresses for older and younger girl
Danielsmummy, 17 February, 2013 at 20:23

Hello, I'm having 2 bridesmaids for my wedding. One is an adult and one is a child (10yr old). I would really like them to wear the same dress but I can't find any which are suitable for an adult and...

HappyIvoryDiamonds19, thursday 5-Nov-26 9 3,029
Snowby
Platinum engagement ring and white gold wedding band?
Snowby, 25 August, 2012 at 18:10

I was pretty overwhelmed when my OH presented me with a platinum engagement ring when he proposed. He now thinks I should have a platinum wedding ring to match but I just can't justify the cost -...

Almex, thursday 5-Nov-26 6 7,420
Meghan
Budget wedding
Meghan, 11 December, 2025 at 22:21

Hello! I'm planning my day on a tight budget and am wondering if others have done this before (ofc they have), but for those who have, what would you say is the priority to put your money into. My...

FinnMurazik, thursday 5-Nov-26 21 497 1
beccak
Guest puzzles - are these wedding-related anagrams too hard?
beccak, 7 May, 2014 at 21:44

I saw a cute idea online where some little quizzes were included in the order of ceremony or on the back of place cards, just as something for guests to do if they're sat waiting. I've used a website...

Willium, thursday 5-Nov-26 30 8,418
Terri
Travel time??
Terri, 20 September, 2023 at 14:57

Hey…. Help… ergh I keep changing my mind about venues. We thought we had one picked out and there’s something about it I’m not sure of, can’t put my finger on what! I figured I’ll know when it’s the...

Markmorales, thursday 5-Nov-26 38 419
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Church door arch flowers
Nibbler, 24 January, 2018 at 09:18

Hello! First post here, hope someone can help. I am over a year into planning for my August 2018 wedding. We are getting married in a little Victorian re-styled Norman CoE church near our home. It's a...

Lucas, thursday 5-Nov-26 12 2,054
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Help please! Grandma problems
HollyHavisham, 11 January, 2018 at 21:37

Hello all! I'm going you can advise. Our wedding is set for March 2020 but I'm already having sleepless nights about my grandma (mum's side) Long story short, my parents are divorced and my maternal...

Lucas, thursday 5-Nov-26 33 1,428
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Wedding with a baby
Joanne, 2 January, 2026 at 10:01

Hi all I just wondered if anyone had their 4 month old baby at their wedding and how that looked? We booked out wedding a year ago and then in typical fashion got pregnant and we've just had our baby....

Neha, thursday 5-Nov-26 28 198
Nenas
Lottery ticket favours
Nenas, 12 October, 2011 at 20:13

We're planning to get lottery tickets for everyone's favours. We had these at one of our friend's weddings last year and liked the idea. we didn't win anything but it was fun none the less! Anyway,...

F2movies, thursday 5-Nov-26 66 13,914
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How many portions of wedding cake do you actually need?
Chale, 3 January, 2016 at 17:38

We are inviting 85 people to the service and wedding breakfast, and a further 65 to the evening do, giving a total of 150 (maximum, but the actual number may be smaller). Does that mean we need 150...

Nikolambo, wednesday 4-Nov-26 14 12,904
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Please HELP!! How do you have 3 people giving you away?????
zo-bud, 29 March, 2012 at 10:48

This is something that is causing me alot of stress and upset at the moment! Basically my initial senario was - I have a Dad, a step Dad and my grandad, and I made the initial decision of asking my...

Attikson, wednesday 4-Nov-26 26 5,445
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Wedding in Italy 2025
Abi, 23 May, 2024 at 15:26

Hi all, we are planning a really small (max 20 guests) civil wedding in early June 2025 but struggling to find a venue in Tuscany. All the nice ones I've emailed seem to want 2/3 days exclusive hire...

AndrewClarksonss1, wednesday 4-Nov-26 4 299
Vanilla Pod
Good "wedding" movies for first night of hen do?
Vanilla Pod, 7 April, 2011 at 20:04

Hi Everyone, Im going on my first hen weekend tommorow (3 of my girls cant make my big one in the summer as they are away, so as they are all off for easter hols them being teachers we are doing a...

AndrewClarksonss1, wednesday 4-Nov-26 70 6,523
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Veil placement and hair accessories
winterwedding121215, 31 May, 2015 at 16:10

Hello.. I want to have my hair half up half down, something like below... but I also would like something like below central... I don't know if you can have a veil which is obviously held in with a...

AndrewClarksonss1, wednesday 4-Nov-26 7 2,265
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Alcohol - volume purchases
Mr_P, 14 February, 2017 at 16:01

Hello everyone Hope you've all had a great Valentines Day Quick question - when volume buying alcohol, is it as cheap these days to get from the supermarket or is Europe still the best option? We're...

24 Chicken, wednesday 4-Nov-26 32 10,296 1

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