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Playlist instead of band/dj - help!
Jessica, 3 January, 2024 at 14:57

Hi everyone. I'm getting married in 2 months (eek!) and we have decided to create our own playlist for the evening instead of hiring a band/DJ - we're both passionate about music and would rather have...

Aaron78, tuesday 10-Feb-26 1 33
katieJ2b
Gold glitter and spray paint!
katieJ2b, 26 April, 2016 at 11:48

Does anyone have any recommendations for a good gold spray paint and nice sparkly gold glitter? There are so many different shades and brands and you can't always tell what the colour is going to come...

Eleven, tuesday 10-Feb-26 15 3,758
Barbie1989
Alfreton Hall - Bad Reviews??
Barbie1989, 8 March, 2014 at 21:59

Has anybody got married or been to a wedding at Alfreton Hall?? I like the look of it from the website and it's conveniently located for guests to attend but I saw a couple of bad reviews from 2012...

Morgan, tuesday 10-Feb-26 22 6,893
shell657
Anybody ever ridden their own horse to the wedding?
shell657, 11 January, 2012 at 19:05

I'm doing this & i cannot wait! She is the other love of my life & i wanted to involve her in my day somehow. Any of you out there doing/done this?

Morgan, tuesday 10-Feb-26 39 5,191
Paul & Dawn
Guests with funny requests!
Paul & Dawn, 18 June, 2015 at 21:29

We can all do with a laugh sometimes so I had to share this... A wedding guest of mine (old school friend) who is booked into stay at the venue the night of the wedding (we exclusively hired the venue...

Verna, tuesday 10-Feb-26 7 8,608
SunnyPurpleHair275
Reception timings
SunnyPurpleHair275, 9 May, 2025 at 01:04

Hi everyone, I'm really struggling to visualise how our day will flow! We are getting married in a registry office around a 20-30 minute drive from our reception venue at 1.30pm. It's a garden party...

Mohsin, tuesday 10-Feb-26 29 1,015 4
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Same sex wedding planner book?
LuxuriousGreenFlowers337, 5 March, 2015 at 21:45

Hoping someone can help me... My sister has just engaged to her girlfriend and I am looking for a wedding planning book that is suitable for same sex couples. Trouble is ive only really seen them...

Ehsan, tuesday 10-Feb-26 14 5,494
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11am ceremony
RomanticBrownHair710, 7 May, 2017 at 12:41

Help!! We have booked to have our ceremony at 11am! Now this wouldn't be my ideal time but it seems for our date the registrar is fully booked and the only choice was 3pm or 11am. We feel that 3pm...

Andero, tuesday 10-Feb-26 16 9,018
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Witnesses attire?
Shay, 7 July, 2023 at 19:49

Hi everyone!! Anyone who had witnesses that actually weren’t in the bridal or groomsmen party how did you include them? Or is that them already included anyway? I had an idea of having the girls in...

Daved, tuesday 10-Feb-26 48 521
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Unplugged honeymoon
BuryBride, 20 May, 2016 at 15:16

Just got back from our honeymoon in the Caribbean yesterday ( we had a lovely mini moon straight after the wedding also!) We decided to have an unplugged honeymoon. 2 Weeks no internet, no TV, no...

Tannu, tuesday 10-Feb-26 9 1,329
Georgia
Hen Party Ideas
Georgia, 21 April, 2025 at 17:18

Hi, I’m looking for some ideas on hen parties! I’ll be 27, I love dancing, clubbing and drinking. But I went to a night club for my 21st and it was just full of youngsters I felt out of place. I also...

Grubman, tuesday 10-Feb-26 46 704
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Do I need to take my name change deed poll when I give notice??
KumariChang, 14 November, 2011 at 18:49

I have to go and give notice this week and I have a british passport in my correct name however my name isn't the same as it is on my birth certificate as it was changed by deed poll. Is this relevant...

Laura, monday 9-Feb-26 16 3,209
Vanilla Pod
Good "wedding" movies for first night of hen do?
Vanilla Pod, 7 April, 2011 at 20:04

Hi Everyone, Im going on my first hen weekend tommorow (3 of my girls cant make my big one in the summer as they are away, so as they are all off for easter hols them being teachers we are doing a...

Phill, monday 9-Feb-26 21 6,118
Francesca
App/ website design that can customise invites?
Francesca, 5 March, 2024 at 08:59

Hi everyone! Hope planning is going well (wish I’d discovered this forum sooner!) We are getting married May next year & starting to think about invitation designs etc. I am thinking quite a...

George, monday 9-Feb-26 19 388
Cheeky_pie
Film quotes as table names
Cheeky_pie, 5 June, 2011 at 09:07

Both myself and my OH are huge film buffs so i thought we could have famous film quotes from films as our table names we have 13 tables including the top table so below are a few I had thought of. If...

Steve-Smith, monday 9-Feb-26 15 9,594
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Worrying about divorce - odd title for wedding planning!
Annaangel, 9 March, 2016 at 14:48

Hi, My partner proposed last November and we have planned our wedding for this November. The issue is that he is still married, I know that sounds terrible but they have been legally separated for...

Mohsin, monday 9-Feb-26 23 2,843
laineywhu
Confetti
laineywhu, 5 July, 2010 at 21:55

Is anyone else not having confetti at their weddings? basically we can have confetti at the registry office but we decided against it, basically the way i see it is im gonna spend all day trying to...

Ben, monday 9-Feb-26 14 2,105
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Order of the day
Mrsmooretobe, 28 April, 2015 at 14:27

Hi ladies, With 11 days to go my mum has decided we should have OOTD for our ceremony! So my question is, what did those of you who had/are having one include in it? Did you go funny or serious? And...

Sneha, monday 9-Feb-26 5 2,000
Terri
Wedding with no breakfast?
Terri, 15 September, 2023 at 18:58

Hello! Newly engaged so this is my first post here 😆 basically, me and hubby to be have been together a long long time and we cannot wait to get married, but we just aren’t keen on the costs 😂 for us,...

Marko, monday 9-Feb-26 38 2,486 2
Dani
💸 How much does a wedding *really* cost? 💸
Dani, 9 February, 2026 at 11:20

Curious what the average UK wedding costs in 2026? 💸 We spoke to over 2,000 couples to uncover what they’re really spending, plus the wedding trends shaping the year ahead. From budgets to big ideas,...

Dani, monday 9-Feb-26 31
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Timeline
Charlotte, 25 July, 2025 at 21:39

I'm struggling with our timeline, we are having quite a casual day as the legal ceremony will have already happened. So far I've got this below. Any advice on when you'd do the cake cutting and do...

Elvish, monday 9-Feb-26 8 77
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Best glue gun for wax stamps?
Chloe, 4 September, 2023 at 21:44

I have ordered a personalised wax stamp to make wax seals for our invites, I read online I should use a cool melt glue gun but can't find one for 11mm wax sticks. Hobbycraft have one for 7mm sticks,...

CarmenCHunt, monday 9-Feb-26 11 208
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Winter wedding
Jade1990, 20 October, 2015 at 15:59

Whats peoples thoughts on winter weddings? I've looked at summer prices and they are extortionate, and I dont want to cut costs by having a less than perfect venue, so thought why not have my perfect...

Yu Zhang, monday 9-Feb-26 72 4,560 1
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Ravenswood manor?
BrideHannahB, 11 February, 2009 at 08:47

Hi All! I've been waiting to get the pricing from Ravenswood manor (Sussex) for venue/food/wine etc but its not come through yet and had to re-request it. Does anyone have any idea of the costs for...

Yu Zhang, monday 9-Feb-26 18 5,181
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Pay bar
Daffodil2017, 20 November, 2015 at 11:15

What are people's thoughts on a pay bar at a wedding? Would you begrudge it as a guest? We are on a small budget and planning an informal, intimate DIY wedding but I keep having wobbles about how...

Yu Zhang, monday 9-Feb-26 39 4,733
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dj Playlist
Lorena, 9 February, 2024 at 15:17

I am whatever the "foodie" version of a music lover is. I notice it in the background anywhere it is playing. I know this will be the case on my wedding day. As I have been making a list of my...

Sabir, monday 9-Feb-26 7 119
Buzzee
Readings related to football!?
Buzzee, 23 August, 2011 at 16:56

Looking into readings and we've picked one of the common-ish ones (On Your Wedding Day, i think its called). This will be ready by our teenage nephew, and am looking for something else to be read by...

Oleksii Savchenko, monday 9-Feb-26 16 9,224
BriertonBride
Ahhhhhhh I can't decide on a venue!!
BriertonBride, 6 April, 2015 at 22:38

Hi guys, So I got engaged in March and have looked at 10 different venues so far and still haven't found 'The One'!! My fiancé and I are hoping to get married in July 2016 and places are already...

Andero, monday 9-Feb-26 11 5,934
Pookie8911
Wed2B
Pookie8911, 11 June, 2016 at 21:17

Hi! Has anyone bought their dress from Wed2B? I've only tried on 'designer' dresses so far, and wanted to try on something less expensive just before I make the definite decision about spending a...

LuvTreat, monday 9-Feb-26 40 17,141
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Wedding business advice...
Moonbeam88, 10 September, 2014 at 13:30

Hi ladies I am currently planning my august 2016 wedding and absolutely love the whole creative side of planning colours, decor, themes and designs! So much so that I have had the wild thought of...

Nicka, monday 9-Feb-26 24 5,308
momai
Photographers
momai, 22 February, 2024 at 10:28

Photographers - how do you know that they are good and that your not going to get ripped off with a rubbish one?

Babita, monday 9-Feb-26 10 180
DrBuffles
Quizzes on tables at wedding breakfast
DrBuffles, 5 February, 2014 at 11:00

I went to a wedding in the summer and they had put little boxes of cards with an 80's music quiz in them on the tables. It was a great way of breaking the ice between people who didn't previously know...

CarmenCHunt, monday 9-Feb-26 13 6,240

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