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Kristina
Curious October 2025 Somerset

Regretting my made of honour choice

Kristina, 21 August, 2024 at 11:26 Posted on Planning 0 6
Hello everyone ,
This is a very difficult one .
I've only got my maid of honour and 1 bridesmaid. My maid of honour has been a friend to me for 12 years . The problem I have now , we went wedding dress shopping . And she didn't like the dress I picked. She made that very clear which was quite upsetting, she kept pushing me to go else where etc. And I absolutely love my dress ! In the end I went just with my bridesmaid to pay the deposit and make my final decision. Also she made a few comments to my partner about the dress which I thought was out of order. Planning hen party is a nightmare, she is completely opposite to what i like. I am not into all hen party accessories and crazy parties. She is not listening to me and I've been informed by my bridesmaid and my other friend that my so called MOH is still going to do what she likes even though i asked her not to. I tried speaking to her but she's just telling me what she thinks I want to hear and not being honest. I don't feel comfortable around her anymore, I don't discuss anything wedding related with her either. I don't know why she has changed so much since I asked her to be my MOH . Wedding is not until 2025 October. And she's already looking at the dresses etc . What can I do ? I feel really stuck 😭 . Help !

6 replies

Latest activity by Staci, 19 November, 2025 at 11:48
  • Sarah
    Beginner July 2025 Dorset
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    Sorry to hear this - if you've already expressed your feelings and she's not going to listen to your wants, (It is YOUR hen do and YOUR day) then frankly, I would kick her out of your wedding party because she does not sound like a best friend at all. A friend of mine kicked another bridesmaid out of her wedding completely because of how awful she was being to her.

    There has been some time since you messaged this - perhaps you have sorted it out?

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    It’s your wedding, and your voice matters most. If your maid of honour isn’t respecting your wishes or making you feel supported, it’s okay to reconsider her role. Surround yourself with people who uplift you and honour your vision—this is your moment, and you deserve peace and joy. EZ Pass CT


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