Discussions from Planning

I hope I'm posting this in the right place... Is it normal to pay photographers, videographers and other suppliers in FULL before the wedding? My fiance and I have found a photographer whose portfolio...

Hi everyone, I have two very close friends, both of whom live in Qatar. I live, and am getting married, in London. They're very excited about flying over for the wedding and have no problems doing so...

Hi there About to secure a venue in the Cotswolds (cripps barn) that has no accommodation or bridal suite on site. So I’m looking for somewhere local to get ready in in the morning that’s big enough...

Hi, We have got our songs planned for our ceremony but was wondering what people found the best way to play them? I feel burning a CD is quite old fashioned now but is the Bluetooth option reliable?...

We're getting married at a venue that hasn't ever had a wedding before. They are providing the bar however we need to supply the glasses. In the past they have had other events but have just used...

Ho does any one have any experience on having a week day wedding. Me and my partner are looking at a Thursday as its 5k cheaper" my parents have got upset saying no one will come as they will need to...

Hi all, new member here. Me and my boyfriend are in the very early stages of planning a low key, low budget wedding for next year (May or September). Neither of us are particularly fancy people and my...

Hi everyone, I'm really struggling with wedding cars! I've always said that I'd like a vintage fiat 500 on my wedding day, but now I've ordered my dress I've realised there is no way I would fit in...

Hi all. I'm looking for a venue in the Yorkshire dream preferably a barn type, we want a relaxed fun wedding. I've found a few but wondered if anyone had any suggestions? Would love there to be nice...

I'm looking to transfer my booked date at the exquisite Three Rivers Golf and Country Club in Chelmsford! If you're hoping to host a spectacular event, this is your chance to snag a prime date at an...

Extremely excited and eager bride to be! We are getting married May 2028 and just wondering if anyone else who is 2028 bride has started planning yet? Where are you starting?

Hi Again, This may sound like a boring topic but I just want some quick advice on whether it's okay to have white napkins on an ivory tablecloth at my wedding? I'm planning on hiring linen because the...

engagement ring doesn't feel right and I feel terrible about it

Hi and happy Friday! I'm working on a piece to inspire couples choosing their wedding ceremony music. If you could let me know what music you had or are planning to have at your ceremony, I'd love to...

Hey nearlyweds, Have you already booked your decor team or still searching for the perfect match? Need help finding top decor pros near you? We’ve got you covered - let's bring that vision to life 👇 ...

So we have decided to get married at our venue and they recommended we contact the registrar to ensure they can marry us that date etc. The venue to be paid directly to them is £520, how much is it...

Hello, I apologise, I am pretty sure this would have been asked before but i can;t find a post on it. I am currently having our invitations mocked up and the lady asked for what time to put on the...

Hi, I'm just wondering how you pay for a venue that's quite far away? (So you can't go and pay in person). My bank won't allow me to pay the £800 deposit over the phone, so the venue have emailed the...

Myself and my older sister have always been very close growing up due to our parents being absent from our lives for many years. A few years ago my sister and I discussed walking each other down the...

Hi guys would love some steer on where and how to get started with the “save the dates” cards please?

Unfortunately I have to cancel my wedding celebration date booked for the summer and so im looking to transfer it to someone who could make use of the venue. Book the entire stunning Three Rivers Golf...

Hi all Were off to see the venue we really like on Sunday and taking both parents for a show around but also for 2nd and 3rd head when asking questions. It's all overwhelming and I'm a sucker for...

Can anyone recommend a professional company that would come and professionally steam my wedding dress at my venue (DY10 area) so there is no creases etc as we are travelling in a well packed car for...

Hi, I have 2 events for guests to RSVP to. Currently set as ceremony and evening reception. Am I able to change the terminology to day guest and evening guest? Or are they fixed. Thank you

Whether you're dreaming of a dancefloor that never empties, a magician to wow your guests or a live painter creating unforgettable keepsakes - make sure your big day brings the magic ✨ Your guests...

I was just having another look through the brochure and sample contract from the venue we're probably going to book and notice it says there is a compulsory charge for security staff at all evening...

Hello! I’m recently engaged and my Fiancé and I are planning to get married in Italy in 2027. Thinking around June time but I have no clue whatsoever where to start! Any advice would be appreciated on...

Hello, I'm having a really hard time with creating the timeline for the wedding day. I'm not British and have never attended a wedding in this country, so I have no clue how long things take and how...

Hey everyone, I was wondering how you're all handling save the dates. Are we only sending them to all-day guests, or are we sending them to evening guests, too? Thanks!

Hi everyone! August 2026 bride here 🫶🏻 I was wondering if there are any iPhone content creators looking to build their portfolio and would be able to capture my wedding please? Date is 17/08/2026 in...