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Fara
Legal ceremony in London but i live in Southampton
Fara, 21 October, 2025 at 08:40

Hi everyone, My fiancé and I live in Southampton, but we love Chelsea Old Town Hall. Are we allowed to have our legal ceremony in London even though we both live in Southampton? If yes, what’s the...

OliviaHernandez, friday 9-Jan-26 9 63
Ellie
What to do with extra time?
Ellie, 5 January, 2026 at 16:34

What should you do if you have extra time and want to treat your guests to something special?

Wild Fern Weddings, friday 9-Jan-26 1 8
Kelly
Newbie & Help
Kelly, 8 January, 2026 at 17:49

Hello all, Firstly congratulations to you all 🥂🍾💍🎩 I am new to the app and just starting planning our wedding, my partner proposed Boxing Day and hopefully we'd like to get married within the year. We...

Wild Fern Weddings, friday 9-Jan-26 1 18
Dani
Questions you need to ask your wedding videographer...👀
Dani, 20 August, 2025 at 16:45

Here's some of the top must-know questions to ask your Videographer 👇 Feeling inspired to book your Videographer? Take a peek at your local pros here! *** Don't miss your chance to WIN £3,000! 👇 ...

Geet, friday 9-Jan-26 5 45
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Betting/Gambling Wedding Favour Ideas
LuxuriousRedHair663, 5 February, 2018 at 19:47

My fiancé and I love betting - football coupons, betting at the races etc! Looking to do a few different things! Iv heard of football coupons, single bets on horses...! Just wanting something bit more...

Sava, friday 9-Jan-26 43 3,087
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Flower markets?
Chucklebun, 9 April, 2012 at 07:44

Anyone else had this problem? I keep reading about brides who did their own flowers, and just popped to the local flower market a couple of days before the wedding. Started looking into it and I'm now...

William, friday 9-Jan-26 88 11,220
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sending save the dates
Tanya, 6 February, 2025 at 23:01

I'm excited to be sending out save the dates for my wedding this July 2025 in the UK! However, I can't help but wonder if five months is a bit too late. Am I cutting it close? Feeling a little...

Harry, thursday 8-Jan-26 7 102
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How do I tell guests not to post photos on social networks?
celticcurl, 13 January, 2014 at 15:59

Hi, The only thing that is worrying me about my wedding is guests posting photos of me on any social networking sites. My closest friends all respect my wishes in this - they know the full history and...

Charles, thursday 8-Jan-26 22 2,570
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Wheelchair accessible venue
Christiane, 23 August, 2009 at 19:45

I'm new to this forum and I'm searching for a nice and wheelchair accessible wedding venue in Kent or SE London, which seems like a mission for me. I'm the bride and a wheelchair user. Also other...

CarmenCHunt, thursday 8-Jan-26 13 2,807
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Entertainment or live artist recommendations please
Jodie, 16 May, 2024 at 11:15

Hi all I plan to marry in clitheroe (Lancashire) next May but no idea on entertainment 😩 I was thinking of a live artist but I cannot find anyone in this location. Any one help?

Wiiliam56, thursday 8-Jan-26 2 31
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VAT on Wedding Bookings
slbarber, 23 July, 2013 at 20:36

Hello, I have recently been told by my wedding venue that due to a test case brought by HMRC against a wedding venue, they have been advised by their tax advisors that VAT is chargeabale on all...

Manisha, thursday 8-Jan-26 11 7,828
katiechops
Vinyl record table numbers *First time Flasher* need a bit of help though ........
katiechops, 20 May, 2012 at 14:47

Hi, I love this idea but does anyone have any ideas how I can get some stickers printed for the table numbers so they look a bit more 'professional' that me cutting out bits of paper etc ??? Has...

Natalie, thursday 8-Jan-26 17 5,161
bliss_balloons
Garden games
bliss_balloons , 21 May, 2015 at 09:45

I can't find anywhere decent to hire them so I've been buying a few but trying to get one's that aren't too expensive and people will actually want to use. Those of you who are are having them what...

Jaylan, thursday 8-Jan-26 45 1,674
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London Taxis
simone12, 2 June, 2014 at 21:45

Hi, I'm new to the forum. I am getting married next year and would love a black taxi as a wedding car. Not sure what model yet but was hoping someone could recommend a company in London providing this...

John, wednesday 7-Jan-26 13 1,819
Louise
Alternative to flowers
Louise, 9 August, 2025 at 22:50

Hi, Is anyone considering having really minimal flowers/no flowers at all? If so, what are you using for walking down the aisle, button holes, and decoration instead?

Arise, wednesday 7-Jan-26 37 843 2
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What to do with left over fabric? creative ideas needed!
arnold2b, 25 January, 2011 at 21:18

We have ordered mochas fabric to make the cravats with, to match the bridesmaids dresses, but didnt realise the fabric was going to be about 5ft wide so we got quite a bit left over! I dont think it...

Joann's, wednesday 7-Jan-26 19 4,864
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Evening Only guests dress code
kerrie_jay, 6 October, 2015 at 09:12

Hi ladies, Bit of a dual post here as advice needed both for my OH and my evening only guests. SO... what is the traditional dress code for evening only guests at a wedding? My OH and I are going to...

Sapiha, wednesday 7-Jan-26 15 44,249
pink & glitz
mother in law to be
pink & glitz, 2 January, 2014 at 18:17

Hi girls! My bridesmaid is organising my hen night, getting numbers etc.... for the night. It turns out my mother in law to be isn't going, poor excuse of ' got to work and can't get holidays '. Feel...

Robert, wednesday 7-Jan-26 25 4,895
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Wedding at home
Alexandra, 14 April, 2024 at 12:36

Hello, We are getting married in October. A small reg office ceremony followed by the reception etc in a marquee in our garden. As we’re planning it all ourselves, I’m a little nervous that I’m going...

Tom, wednesday 7-Jan-26 7 368 1
Dancing-Peanut
Photo Sharing
Dancing-Peanut, 22 January, 2020 at 15:17

Hi I am looking at ideas for guests to upload photos of the day. There are loads of apps - but most you have to take the photos through the app, and not just simply on the phone and then upload. Does...

Richard, wednesday 7-Jan-26 4 940
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Mother of the bride outfit change?
HilaryE, 18 June, 2014 at 23:12

After some opinions please. I haven't bought my outfit yet. Am caught trying to find something which is dressy enough for formal church wedding and sit down reception, but will also take me into the...

Henry, wednesday 7-Jan-26 24 9,727
Kirsty
Aug 2026 what now?
Kirsty, 30 September, 2023 at 13:53

Recently engaged and we have just booked our wedding for August 2026.. The venue we have chosen has given us prices for 2024 and we have paid just a £50 deposit to secure the date, in approx 18 months...

Emma, wednesday 7-Jan-26 6 608
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Wedding planning is a disaster
Katie, 17 June, 2025 at 09:23

He wants very traditional. I am totally the opposite. Zero overlap. It’s 16 months from now and I am either living in panic or dread. How do we reconcile totally different ideas.

Aisha, tuesday 6-Jan-26 8 221
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Videographers are too expensive, shall i ask my guests to capture videos throughout the day?
martin011, 15 June, 2023 at 16:01

I would love to have a wedding video but videographers are too expensive. One idea I had was to ask a few key people to capture video on their phones throughout the day. My nephew said he can edit...

Carson, tuesday 6-Jan-26 10 310 1
Jessica
Elegant centre piece
Jessica, 1 May, 2025 at 09:01

Hi, I am looking for ideas for an elegant centre piece, we are having a small vow renweal so want something I can use for the ceremony and the breakfast. Xx

John, tuesday 6-Jan-26 7 58
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Previous wedding/divorce issues
kamzter, 25 September, 2014 at 12:57

Hi guys, just need some advice. i have a mahoosive issue from the past. i was previously married and divorced (under my old name) and am looking at getting married again under my new name. As I've...

Rachel, tuesday 6-Jan-26 25 3,233
vintageangel
money behind the bar?
vintageangel, 14 September, 2011 at 21:12

Just had our final meeting at the hotel and they are giving us £250 behind the bar, we were just discussing how to work it out and thought i'd ask on here if you had free drinks how did you work it?...

Markus, tuesday 6-Jan-26 28 3,348
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Ceremony timings
Miss, 5 June, 2025 at 14:04

Any advice would be much appreciated..... We are needing to book the time slot we want to get married.... I'm stuck with timings. We are getting married at our venue so no traveling required. 50 guest...

Voocccie, tuesday 6-Jan-26 10 451 1
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Black Friday wedding package deals
Jodie, 24 November, 2025 at 09:38

Hellooo Looking to book my wedding North west area, Up to an hour away from Manchester, I wanted to know if there’s any Black Friday deals people have seen for a full wedding day package - ceremony-...

Alot, monday 5-Jan-26 4 28
1stBaby
Canapes...how many per guest?
1stBaby, 1 November, 2008 at 18:59

As the post really...how many canapes should we allow for each guest? Thanks in advance =0)

Rodriguez, monday 5-Jan-26 12 14,420
Charlotte@hitched
Calling all couples who are planning to renew their vows (or already have)... fancy being featured on hitched?
Charlotte@hitched, 3 June, 2016 at 16:47

Hey everyone! Are you and your partner planning to renew your vows? Or perhaps you've already done it? This month I'll be writing a guide to renewing your vows and would love to include stories from...

Joe, monday 5-Jan-26 3 20,871
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Help! Fiance freaking out over money
Dotty Pants, 6 October, 2011 at 21:20

Hi ladies I'm new to the whole wedding planning experience. We are getting married on 28th April 2012 we've got loads of ideas and I am keen to book things ASAP as only 7 months away. However my...

Markus, monday 5-Jan-26 22 5,694

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