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yes2011
Kids toy boxes - collect ideas
yes2011, 20 June, 2011 at 12:27

Hi all, we're having a few kids at our wedding (aged 1, 3, 5, 6 and 10). I was wondering what kinds of toys you would prepare for them to keep them entertained. What worked, what didn't? Did you have...

Oliver, wednesday 29-Jul-26 9 1,498
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Marquee in own garden for the reception
Chale, 19 August, 2014 at 10:36

Hi everyone! I'm new here. We're getting married in August 2016, so I'm trying not to think about too many of the details at this stage (although I have done some extensive Googling on wedding favours...

Leonard, wednesday 29-Jul-26 17 6,975
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To entourage or not to entourage?
Kristine, 17 June, 2025 at 14:56

Is it a “must” to have bridesmaids and entourage? And who pays for it? Is it solely the bride?

Soniya, wednesday 29-Jul-26 8 85
Louise
Wedding reading help needed.
Louise, 12 July, 2024 at 14:33

Hi! I’m really struggling to find a nice reading for the wedding that has a deeper meaning, is about love and might have the odd funny line in. Have any of you found the perfect reading that sounds...

Sean, wednesday 29-Jul-26 33 256
Carys
Wedding help!
Carys, 29 January, 2026 at 19:42

Hello there We're a newly engaged couple who isn't too sure where to start. Looking at a lot of venues is quiet overwhelming and there just so much that needs to be looked at. I think I've made a good...

Trump, tuesday 28-Jul-26 30 336
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Is 11.30 ceremony too early??
HappyPinkStationery18205, 29 September, 2018 at 12:17

Hi! I’m in desperate need of advice! I am in the process of planning venue and ceremony and have been advised by the registrar that they only have 11.30am or 2.30pm slots available on the date that...

Mikael, tuesday 28-Jul-26 8 1,440
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Alternative to wedding cake
Samantha, 17 March, 2024 at 22:36

Looking for ideas instead traditional wedding cakes - my fiancé likes idea of a donut tree I’m not sure, thought individual cakes maybe. Anyone had anything quite different?

Sheh, tuesday 28-Jul-26 22 358
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Is anyone NOT having a disco or band?
annie2000, 28 November, 2011 at 18:04

We are thinking that a disco or band with just 30 guests will be a bit much, trying to find ideas of alternative evening entertainment alongside background music. Has anyone else not had disco or...

Henry, tuesday 28-Jul-26 14 1,449
Anna
Go Pro for Live stream?
Anna, 17 July, 2023 at 06:48

Hi all We are getting married in December and have many family/friends who can’t make it. We’d love to ‘live stream’ elements of our wedding. My initial thought was using a Go Pro - has anyone had any...

Shamisays, tuesday 28-Jul-26 41 332
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Wedding planning is a disaster
Katie, 17 June, 2025 at 09:23

He wants very traditional. I am totally the opposite. Zero overlap. It’s 16 months from now and I am either living in panic or dread. How do we reconcile totally different ideas.

Nikola, tuesday 28-Jul-26 18 347
bluewater
are you having/did you have a piper at your wedding?
bluewater, 26 August, 2008 at 14:19

H2b is scottish, and wants to have a piper to pipe us out of the ceremony. so, i have some questions: how long did you have them there for? how much did you pay? what sort of things did they play?...

CarmenCHunt, tuesday 28-Jul-26 11 2,731
Charliebob
Expectations Vs. Reality - Selling Wedding Items On..
Charliebob, 8 April, 2016 at 09:22

I just wanted to start a discussion about it and see what other views and opinions other people have. I am not intending to upset anyone, but it's just something I have noticed whilst wedding...

Henrywayne, tuesday 28-Jul-26 12 2,387
Louise
Alternative to flowers
Louise, 9 August, 2025 at 22:50

Hi, Is anyone considering having really minimal flowers/no flowers at all? If so, what are you using for walking down the aisle, button holes, and decoration instead?

Sheen, tuesday 28-Jul-26 39 1,003 2
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Online Guest Photo Uploads
Carly, 19 June, 2024 at 18:55

I want to use a designated online guest photo upload platform so that all of my guests can add photos to the same place, has anybody used something like this and who did you use? I’m planning to put a...

Elijah, monday 27-Jul-26 12 226
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Unofficial Officiant
melgoddard, 20 June, 2014 at 21:39

Hi, We're getting married in London and our venue is not authorised to host wedding ceremonies, so we've decided to have the official ceremony before the "wedding". We would still like someone to...

Delta, monday 27-Jul-26 15 9,983
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12 o'clock wedding
Slink, 8 January, 2016 at 15:41

I booked my registrar today (yey). I had wanted to get married around 2pm, I've been to a few weddings at this time and thought it was well spaced out. So did everyone else who is getting married so...

VistaReale, monday 27-Jul-26 16 4,010
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The Jiggers Ceilidh Band (Glasgow & Edinburgh)
iz007, 21 September, 2010 at 12:46

We are looking to book a ceilidh band for our wedding next year and have found The Jiggers who we really like. I just wondered if any forum members had seen or used them at their events?

Mohsin, monday 27-Jul-26 27 4,389
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BBQ reception around Colchester, Essex
Vahry, 28 February, 2011 at 11:11

Hi, Long-time lurker, first time poster I'm looking for a reception venue that will let us have a relaxed outdoor BBQ for the wedding reception rather than forcing the seated X-course wedding...

Marketing, monday 27-Jul-26 16 5,889
Caz
Where do i start!
Caz, 29 April, 2026 at 11:54

My fiancé and I are in very early stages of planning. We are hoping to get married in 2 years time, on our 5yr anniversary. Am I getting ahead of myself starting to plan and possibly look and view...

Raahi, monday 27-Jul-26 26 279 1
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Playlist instead of band/dj - help!
Jessica, 3 January, 2024 at 14:57

Hi everyone. I'm getting married in 2 months (eek!) and we have decided to create our own playlist for the evening instead of hiring a band/DJ - we're both passionate about music and would rather have...

P999, sunday 26-Jul-26 8 98
HorseFan
Bouquet / horseshoe?
HorseFan, 31 March, 2010 at 13:56

Seems to be alot on here about flowers today! I can't decide what I want re flowers/bouquet. I do have a couple of chats booked with local florists this weekend tho. Hoping they can come up with some...

Laradario, sunday 26-Jul-26 10 3,226
Sarah
Guest transportation
Sarah, 7 May, 2023 at 01:56

When it comes to transport for your guests who should pay? We are having our ceremony and reception in the same place but, do we provide transportation for day and evening guests or not?

Willyeckerslike24, sunday 26-Jul-26 13 503
August 24 Bride
Something for the Mother of the Bride?
August 24 Bride, 25 January, 2024 at 12:17

Hi Bride to Be's!!! I'm getting married in August, and i wanted to ask if anyone is having the same thoughts as me? I have my dad walking me down the aisle, doing a Father of the Bride speech etc but...

Daniel, sunday 26-Jul-26 3 509 1
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Free Wedding Content Creation - North West/cheshire/staffordshire
Bethany, 17 April, 2025 at 21:58

Hi everyone, I’m Bethany and I’m just starting out in iPhone wedding content creation and would love to offer my services for free for couples getting married this year in the North...

Anime, sunday 26-Jul-26 21 439 2
cford09
Lottery tickets or scratchcards as favours?
cford09, 10 May, 2012 at 13:51

Hi girls, I know we've had a couple of posts about favours recently which has got me thinking about mine. For the girls I'm doing a friendship bag. For the men, I was planning on doing lottery tickets...

sahilverma3, sunday 26-Jul-26 16 16,371
kizzi10000
Anyone played wedding 'raffle'? Ideas needed
kizzi10000, 25 February, 2016 at 14:40

Thanks to yet another change of plan, as the pub we'd picked to eat and dance in after the ceremony has decided they're not sure they can offer what we want due to noise and space constraints, we've...

Larry, sunday 26-Jul-26 12 3,386
Amy
Has anyone used Glamlora?
Amy, 26 August, 2024 at 16:47

Has anyone used glamlora? I am getting married on the 20th of next month. I saw a wedding dress on glamlora that I really like, but I don't often order a wedding dress online. This wedding dress is...

Madiha, sunday 26-Jul-26 47 11,277 1
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Insurance
Ivorywillow, 16 October, 2024 at 16:07

Hi All, I have looked into wedding insurance, is there a company that is better than others or are they all fairly similar? Would anyone recommend any at all? Thanks

Alice, saturday 25-Jul-26 62 955 1
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Hen Party Group Chat
Daisy, 13 July, 2024 at 19:19

I'm getting married next May and have been asked by my MoH to create a WhatsApp group chat of all the people I'd like to invite to my hen party, then leave the group chat so that she and the...

Alice, saturday 25-Jul-26 12 2,513
Lyndsay
Celebrant or registrar
Lyndsay, 25 February, 2025 at 18:21

Hi me and my partner are really struggling to decide between having a celebrant or a registrar marry us - please tell us the pros and cons of both and what other people have decided on!

Rodney, saturday 25-Jul-26 6 136
Jazmyn
2026 Wedding
Jazmyn, 15 May, 2024 at 15:25

Hi All, we booked our wedding venue for October 2026 and I am so super excited to start planning. Is it too soon to start booking our suppliers? We have our DJ and currently on the search for a...

Yadav, saturday 25-Jul-26 19 1,610 2
Jennifer
Website
Jennifer, 25 April, 2024 at 04:04

I’m a tech phone can anyone tell me how to add guests names to website so they RSVP please

Ramilralf, saturday 25-Jul-26 2 22

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