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Felicity
‘It’s your wedding day!’ Vs ‘it’s only one day’
Felicity, 11 January, 2026 at 12:22

For my whole life, as I’m sure many other little girls did, I dreamed of my wedding day. A big, white traditional wedding. So much so that when we got engaged, we knew exactly who to contact and what...

Theoferguson, wednesday 28-Oct-26 116 1,122 5
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Wedding Cars!
MrsMarshall2B260517, 5 July, 2016 at 15:33

Hi everyone, I'm really struggling with wedding cars! I've always said that I'd like a vintage fiat 500 on my wedding day, but now I've ordered my dress I've realised there is no way I would fit in...

Theoferguson, wednesday 28-Oct-26 33 2,009
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Wedding venue recommendations Gloucestershire
Lmj2026, 16 May, 2024 at 15:09

I wonder if anyone has any recommendations on venues? We are in Gloucestershire and looking to get married in 2026, it'll be about 100 people (day and night). One of our main criteria is that we want...

Александр, wednesday 28-Oct-26 4 59
Cora
What would be the ideal start time for a ceremony within a venue?
Cora, 25 September, 2025 at 12:27

We are having our ceremony in the venue and was curious when you should have the start time? and if anyone else has done this previously would you advise staying at the location the night before?

Александр, wednesday 28-Oct-26 59 388
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Best wedding website?
, 30 September, 2015 at 14:28

Hi, I've registered for a free website with Wedding Window but I'm not sure it's the best option. What other sites have people used? Just tryign to get ahead and sort something that I can sort...

Carolina, wednesday 28-Oct-26 15 6,338 1
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Live painters
Anna, 8 April, 2023 at 19:14

Hi, Does anyone have any recommendations for a live painter? I thought it would be a lovely wedding favors for the guests to have as a memory and it's different but some are really expensive.

Local, wednesday 28-Oct-26 10 140 1
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What suppliers am i missing? Any thoughts?
Katrina, 5 March, 2024 at 21:34

We are getting married Feb 2025 we have our wedding photographer/videographer, make up artist and hairdresser. As well as caterers & venue of course booked. We also have our entertainment booked...

SEOLink, wednesday 28-Oct-26 12 278
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Advice on garden/backyard reception, please!
joobs85, 31 July, 2014 at 17:28

Hi all, new member here. Me and my boyfriend are in the very early stages of planning a low key, low budget wedding for next year (May or September). Neither of us are particularly fancy people and my...

Wikay, wednesday 28-Oct-26 33 3,578 1
Elixia
giving notice 4 1/2 months before isn't too late is it?
Elixia, 9 October, 2013 at 19:40

I just need a slap in the face, but i know how councils are .... sloooooooooooooooooow

Aspire, tuesday 27-Oct-26 13 1,630
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Urgently looking for student videographer in Central Scotland
HappyBlueBridesmaid714, 11 September, 2018 at 00:17

Hi I wonder if you can point me in the right direction. I’m getting married in 3 and a half weeks and have been unfortunately let down my my videographer at the last minute. I am now unable to get one...

Carson, tuesday 27-Oct-26 558
Charliebob
Expectations Vs. Reality - Selling Wedding Items On..
Charliebob, 8 April, 2016 at 09:22

I just wanted to start a discussion about it and see what other views and opinions other people have. I am not intending to upset anyone, but it's just something I have noticed whilst wedding...

Jimmy, tuesday 27-Oct-26 14 2,408
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Help...No Speeches - Ideas please?
ExpensivePinkStationery301, 22 May, 2015 at 01:16

Hi All! I am the groom to the wedding and I will be totally honest I am a total wreck about making a speech, I suffer with social anxiety. My wedding is over 12 months away and I already cant sleep...

UncommonGuy, tuesday 27-Oct-26 12 4,277
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How far in advance to book?
HappyBlueHair179, 16 August, 2015 at 22:12

Hi all. How far in advance did everyone book in advance for their weddings? In wondering how long is too long. Thankyou.

UncommonGuy, tuesday 27-Oct-26 14 5,456
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Hi all
Dawn, 30 March, 2024 at 20:21

Is everyone partners getting involved with all the prep

Emma, tuesday 27-Oct-26 9 255
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Wedding Favours
Natalie_G123, 29 June, 2017 at 10:52

Hi everyone, Is anybody doing wedding favours for the tables? Struggling to think of different favours that my guests will actually enjoy receiving!! Any help and ideas would be very much appreciated!...

Emma, tuesday 27-Oct-26 24 4,328
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Not Invited to a cousin's wedding when we've invited them
Tegfan, 25 March, 2018 at 21:37

Hi All, We sent out our Save the Dates very early on in the wedding planning as I was very excited and we're getting married on a Sunday and my H2B's family will all have to travel for it so we wanted...

UncommonGuy, tuesday 27-Oct-26 7 3,493
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Village hall reception
RomanticGingerDesire, 26 October, 2015 at 11:41

Is anyone planning their reception in a village hall We are trying to keep costs low Our wedding is next November & want to go for an afternoon tea/vintage theme serving traditional pie &...

Garedol, tuesday 27-Oct-26 15 1,641
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Altering neckline of dress?
PengAly, 2 September, 2016 at 11:27

Hi everyone! I have found THE DRESS (Yaaay!) I got if "off the peg" from Wed2B so I took it home that same day but wedding isn't until May 2017 so it is safety being stored in the bag until I get it...

Garedol, tuesday 27-Oct-26 6 6,128
LeedsBride
Poem for my husband-to-be
LeedsBride, 26 September, 2012 at 20:11

I just wanted to share this poem I'm putting inside my card to H2B, I found most of it on another site, but have tweaked and written a bit myself so its personal to us. My darling --------, we shall...

Garedol, tuesday 27-Oct-26 1 3,248
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Is it feasible to alter Justin Alexander 8878?
DebbieW, 25 December, 2017 at 07:44

I'm in love with JA 8878 online (https://www.justinalexander.com/en/justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/8878/) and found a good bargain on Ebay. I'm usually UK size 8 but I think the dress I...

Sneha, tuesday 27-Oct-26 1 591
Rosie
Venue search
Rosie, 20 September, 2025 at 10:56

Hello I'm looking for a venue that would go with my theme off a forestry wedding feel for October time that also would be an autumn theme colour x

Ashleybennett33, tuesday 27-Oct-26 7 58
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Pass the Parcel
amy00003, 27 July, 2011 at 19:46

Im bored and have been googleing. Ive seen a website selling a 'pass the parcel" game to be put on each of the tables at the reception as a way for the guests to get to know each other, and I'm quite...

Suman, tuesday 27-Oct-26 10 4,284
kyanya
Sample dress advice please :)
kyanya, 15 August, 2012 at 12:45

What are your experiences of buying sample dresses? I've been offered a sample dress in the right size for 35% less than the RRP from a lovely bridal shop. I tried it on last week - unfortunately I...

Jacksonbhatti, tuesday 27-Oct-26 16 3,549
Jessica
diy Brides!
Jessica, 1 February, 2026 at 11:16

What are you doing yourself to save on costs? I'm trying to DIY as much as possible, so want to see if there is anything I've missed! So far I've: - made save the dates - planned invites so when we...

Daivd, tuesday 27-Oct-26 75 1,544 15
kharding2014
Awkward moment in Primark
kharding2014, 15 March, 2014 at 13:14

So I went into Primark this morning to browse and ended up buying a ton of flip flops for my flip flop basket. I got to the checkout and the guy asked me why I was buying flip flops. I told him for my...

Jack, tuesday 27-Oct-26 37 3,864
Lauren
Budget wedding for 100 guests
Lauren, 3 September, 2025 at 08:59

Hi everyone! Me and my partner are a young couple that have been together for 10 years. We have been engaged for a year and are eager to book our wedding.We have a budget of 5k and are looking for...

David, tuesday 27-Oct-26 27 651 1
Dani
Up to 50% off in the app?! Now, that's a BIG deal 💜
Dani, 7 April, 2025 at 17:32

Hey everyone! Just wanted to pop in and shout about something that could really help if you're wedding planning right now... The Hitched app has a section just for deals from wedding vendors - we’re...

Sezonios, monday 26-Oct-26 7 92
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Wedding Breakfast Menu?
WinterBride14, 19 June, 2014 at 13:33

We are scheduled to meet with our venue next Tuesday to discuss lots of things, including our menu & I wondered what everyone had chosen for your breakfast menu? We will be giving everyone a...

Panda, monday 26-Oct-26 45 9,934
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What are you main challenges with wedding planning?
Eleanor, 11 July, 2023 at 17:21

Hi All, I'm wondering what are you having trouble with the most on your current wedding planning journey- money, family, suppliers? What are you trying that's worked/ not worked out so far?

UncommonGuy, monday 26-Oct-26 16 804 1
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order of service font
narie, 4 September, 2011 at 18:19

Hi - am now drafting the order of service to show the reverend on Tuesday... what would you say is the best font to use for the words for the hymns in the order of service? Need to be big and clear...

Thomes, monday 26-Oct-26 38 11,759
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DIY invites- designing myself then printing online. Confused!
drbride, 7 September, 2015 at 11:24

Hi all, I was hoping to get some advice on designing your own invitation and then printing online (thinking of printed.com). Their templates are all in software I don't have eg adobe illustrator and I...

Michel, monday 26-Oct-26 21 2,556
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Terrified of being lonely at my own wedding
Wigglemish, 9 August, 2017 at 11:28

Hi all, nice to meet you all. Posting here because I can't be the only one... I booked my wedding yesterday after being engaged just shy of 8 months, it's set for September of next year. And I've had...

UncommonGuy, monday 26-Oct-26 7 2,139

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