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CountDuckula
First dance songs
CountDuckula, 12 May, 2009 at 14:00

I don't think has been done for a while. And if it has, then just indulge me! We're trying to decide and have got it down to a shortlist of: Take That - Rule the World (it might be too cheesy for us...

Arham, friday 17-Apr-26 21 1,348
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Church Weddings - Questions
MissLulabelle, 10 June, 2013 at 14:55

Hello I've been lurking on the forum for a while as I'm planning my own wedding in October and need to ask a favour! As part of my job i'm working with a church and producing an information leaflet...

Arham, friday 17-Apr-26 13 5,188
Eve
Small budget wedding
Eve, 29 December, 2025 at 16:16

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I are looking to get married in 2026. We’re looking for somewhere to hold the reception (we’ll be getting married in a church). We’re based in Sussex and our budget is...

Mehak, thursday 16-Apr-26 10 129
squirrel
Aspiring florist offering free flower arrangements
squirrel, 12 November, 2025 at 16:00

Hi everyone! I’m an aspiring florist currently in training and looking to gain more hands-on experience and build my portfolio. I’m offering free flower arrangements. You only need to cover the cost...

Wollda, thursday 16-Apr-26 1 20
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Celebrants
Juliette, 24 December, 2025 at 17:13

Hi We'd love a celebrant, but don't know where to start. What should we be looking for? What questions should we ask?How will we know if they're the right fit for us?

Wollda, thursday 16-Apr-26 1 14
EPW Photography (HIB)
Advertising advice
EPW Photography (HIB), 25 February, 2011 at 15:43

Hello Ladies. I need your help if you have a spare minute. I haven't advertised for ages (apart from the Hitched suppliers directory of course!!) and don't know what is the best option. Did you book...

RosalindRigour, thursday 16-Apr-26 20 3,109
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Walking down the aisle - bride or bridesmaids first?
donkey86, 18 August, 2016 at 21:42

Will you be walking down the aisle ahead of your bridesmaids, or behind? I've heard that having the bridesmaids go first is the American way, and having them come after the bride is more traditionally...

Mihailo, thursday 16-Apr-26 29 9,152
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Wedding theme colour
AMILEA, 11 August, 2024 at 03:28

I am struggling to find the best wedding theme colours to go with my partners kilt. Which is the Stewart black Morden Jura. I’ll put a picture in of the kilt. But I was really wanting my bridesmaids...

Jeffery, thursday 16-Apr-26 1 72 1
Anna
Go Pro for Live stream?
Anna, 17 July, 2023 at 06:48

Hi all We are getting married in December and have many family/friends who can’t make it. We’d love to ‘live stream’ elements of our wedding. My initial thought was using a Go Pro - has anyone had any...

Valid, thursday 16-Apr-26 26 240
StaffsLass
Wedding Competitions?
StaffsLass, 12 May, 2014 at 16:53

Hi everyone, Does anyone know the best way to find wedding competitions, specially for photography and dresses? And any tips on entering to win? We have a lot sorted now for our wedding, but we have a...

Bhatti, thursday 16-Apr-26 16 4,574 1
Jenny
Save the dates
Jenny, 18 April, 2025 at 22:44

Hello I am wondering when is best to send out save the date cards . Also do you send them to your evening guests or just your day guests . Where are people getting there’s from?

Wollda, thursday 16-Apr-26 2 60
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Band or dj ??
Lucy, 6 March, 2026 at 10:05

Band or DJ ?? This decision is really hanging us up, we just can not decide. Probs and cons / experiences would be greatlyAppreciated. X

Icy, thursday 16-Apr-26 1 18
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Anyone wrote to football club for signed letter of congratulations for Grooms wedding present?
clarem1986, 23 February, 2011 at 12:46

I wrote to Chelsea FC by email yesterday but not heard anything yet. I heard that if you write to some clubs and let them know you're getting married, groom is a huge fan etc, they send a letter or...

Momina, thursday 16-Apr-26 47 30,227
warlycarly
corkage fee...
warlycarly, 12 June, 2012 at 10:03

I was told by my venue that there is a £20 per bottle corkage fee, and have just found out that their own wines are £14.50 per bottle!! we would need about 20 bottles! We do not have the budget for...

Afzaal, thursday 16-Apr-26 21 2,342
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New York Themed Wedding - ideas welcome!
Emotionalwreck2013, 20 January, 2012 at 09:28

Happy Friday Everyone!! I am getting married in June 2013. We are having a New York themed wedding due to this being the place we got engaged. I just want to share the NY things I currently have...

Momina, thursday 16-Apr-26 15 17,240
bliss_balloons
Buttonhole help!
bliss_balloons , 11 June, 2015 at 10:01

Oh has seen lego men attached to buttonholes and now wants to do this. I have no idea the best way to attach them though and am worried about ruining the flowers. We're picking up all the flowers from...

Katarina, wednesday 15-Apr-26 6 2,025
I-go-by-many-names
Did anyone get their male fiancé an engagement gift/ring?
I-go-by-many-names, 7 August, 2014 at 16:55

My OH and I are feminists. I often feel guilty therefore by the fact we didn't do away with the engagement ring tradition. We just went along with the 'man buys woman diamond' thing without even...

Sophie, wednesday 15-Apr-26 19 59,677
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Planning a Wedding When Family Member Diagnosed Terminally Ill
CristaMB, 16 May, 2014 at 17:49

Hello, I wonder if anyone can relate or offer advice. My father-in-law2B who lives abroad was diagnosed with a brain tumour 6 months ago. My fiance had proposed and in our minds we'd planned a short...

Petter, wednesday 15-Apr-26 24 18,361
*Pugsley*
How shall I send business card size save the date magnets in the post?
*Pugsley*, 27 January, 2013 at 12:49

Hi My save the dates are business card sized magnets I bought from Vistaprint on one of their freebie offers. We're really happy with how they've turned out as they were a design we uploaded ourselves...

Arthur, wednesday 15-Apr-26 14 1,602
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Bridesmaid Dresses - where are you getting from?
Luisa, 15 April, 2026 at 15:52

I have tried to order so many now and all have been disappointing. I feel like I have spent more time on finding them a dress than I have my own! Please help, where are you getting them from? Thanks ...

Luisa, wednesday 15-Apr-26 3
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2nd thoughts on best man
Eazzergood, 6 May, 2013 at 08:03

We booked our wedding two years early and both me and my wife to be picked my best man together. The decision was a friend that I had known for a shorter time than a lot of my other friends, but he...

Sean, wednesday 15-Apr-26 13 3,842
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Live painters
Anna, 8 April, 2023 at 19:14

Hi, Does anyone have any recommendations for a live painter? I thought it would be a lovely wedding favors for the guests to have as a memory and it's different but some are really expensive.

Calming, wednesday 15-Apr-26 8 111 1
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Indian Weddings
Shivani, 28 June, 2024 at 23:26

Does anyone know which venues hold Indian weddings?

AlinaJames, wednesday 15-Apr-26 2 40
Rachael
Hen do ideas for 2
Rachael, 15 February, 2024 at 16:30

Hello all, I am trying to arrange a hen do for me and my best friend, but I can’t think of any fun or creative ideas for such a small number of people! Any ideas or suggestions?!

Liam, wednesday 15-Apr-26 8 267
Lisa
From registry office to Catholic Church wedding
Lisa, 29 June, 2024 at 12:20

Hi there, our wedding in in July 25 and we’ve booked our venue over a year ago to have the wedding “celebration” there as well as signing legal documents at the registry office a few days before....

Mohsin, wednesday 15-Apr-26 2 118
Tianya
Registrar fees
Tianya, 30 June, 2024 at 17:54

Soooo we have booked the venue (provisionally) but we are going to book the registrar soon. When do you pay for the registrar ? Is it at the first meeting ?

Mohsin, wednesday 15-Apr-26 4 168 1
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Videographers are too expensive, shall i ask my guests to capture videos throughout the day?
martin011, 15 June, 2023 at 16:01

I would love to have a wedding video but videographers are too expensive. One idea I had was to ask a few key people to capture video on their phones throughout the day. My nephew said he can edit...

Afzaal, wednesday 15-Apr-26 17 341 1
tortoise
Freezing petals?
tortoise, 2 August, 2012 at 21:07

I've decided to make my own confetti from my hydrangea bush. I've just started pulling petals off to dry them out and it's taking FOREVER! If it works, can I freeze them and just keep adding bits as I...

Bhatti, wednesday 15-Apr-26 9 1,769
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Imported dresses from USA
ExpensiveOrangeDiamonds115, 25 February, 2014 at 22:58

Hi - Just wondered if any one has imported bridesmaid dresses from American? I have seen the Dessy dresses I like on an American website called Victoria's Bridal couture. At half the UK price but...

Clive, wednesday 15-Apr-26 6 1,105
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How to keep guests entertained at a midday wedding>>>
juddtobe, 24 October, 2009 at 14:11

Hello My fiance and I have opted for a midday wedding and , as we are having the civil ceremony at the same venue as everythgn else, need to come up with some good entertainent ideas to keep everyone...

Willium, wednesday 15-Apr-26 17 8,257
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Unenthused friends!
Wed2Bgirl, 18 April, 2024 at 14:13

Hi everyone Stumbled across this website and it's just what I've been needing. To cut a long story short, I'm feeling so disheartened lately about my small intimate wedding next year. My sister who is...

Voocccie, wednesday 15-Apr-26 8 767
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UK Beach Weddings and Receptions
CherylSuffolk, 18 September, 2011 at 17:19

Does anyone out there know if its possible to either get married or at least have the reception on a beach in the uk? are there rules against putting up marquees for example. Any thoughts appreciated....

Voocccie, wednesday 15-Apr-26 10 3,220

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