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RomanticIvoryCakes31498
Horse trailer conversion
RomanticIvoryCakes31498, 9 July, 2025 at 18:04

Im planning on starting a horse trailer conversion, but want to stay away from the traditional ones so my question is: What would you like to hire? Everything seems to be made for adults so one idea...

Priyanka, tuesday 11-Aug-26 5 52
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Bridesmaid gifts
JadeyPops98, 3 August, 2016 at 07:49

Morning all, so I was planning on buying my bridesmaids a necklace each and giving it to them on the morning of the wedding. However my sister mentioned that she thinks it's traditional to give the...

KILLER, tuesday 11-Aug-26 44 4,637
Georgia
Hen Party Ideas
Georgia, 21 April, 2025 at 17:18

Hi, I’m looking for some ideas on hen parties! I’ll be 27, I love dancing, clubbing and drinking. But I went to a night club for my 21st and it was just full of youngsters I felt out of place. I also...

Willium, tuesday 11-Aug-26 60 905
Sam
Help with photographer
Sam, 5 October, 2023 at 08:36

We’re getting married next September and have hired a photographer. Initially we purchased a lower package but after considering it want to upgrade to the top package. We’ve emailed our photographer...

Harry, tuesday 11-Aug-26 7 274
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Hair and Make up - When to book
Tidal Wave, 11 November, 2015 at 18:17

Thought I'd be super organised tonight, and starting to cross a few things of the list, however - hair and make up, I know I want the same person/company to do both, but I keep reading really...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 21 8,351
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Maid of Honour Drama
Claire, 13 August, 2025 at 09:15

Hi all, I need some advise on concerns ive have with my maid of honour. She has been my best friend for years and when we got engaged she was straight away saying she cant wait to be involved and...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 2 149
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Feeding children at a wedding
Have_you_met_Mrs_Jones2019, 8 November, 2018 at 10:04

Hi, We've gone from potentially having a child-free wedding, to now having potentially 20+children ? By the time the wedding comes around, the majority of them will be between 1-5. What age are you...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 9 3,076
FutureMrsO'L
Supplier Issues - I think I am being ignored!
FutureMrsO'L, 31 January, 2017 at 11:31

This post is probably a little bit pointless but I really feel the need to vent my frustration! I placed an order with a lady for all of our artificial flowers for our Wedding. It was a large order,...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 4 1,244
Carolyn
Invites via text / whattsapp
Carolyn, 14 February, 2025 at 21:07

Hi - anyone know if I can send invites out via text? I can't get my head round it...I've uploaded the spreadsheet with all names and mobile numbers...Thanks in advance for any help!

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 23 402
MissReedNoMore
Please be encouraging about my choice of music to walk down the aisle to!
MissReedNoMore, 18 May, 2012 at 16:45

Hello, I am fairly new here and I get married on 9th June, this year (yes, that's this year!!). We got engaged on 9th June 2010 so set our date for 9th June 2012 to commemorate the day, so we've had...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 25 4,374
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Dad refusing to come to my wedding - help!!
Jasmine, 15 February, 2024 at 22:53

So for a bit of backstory… I have a Dad and a Stepdad. My Dad has never really been close with me, as a child I’d see him every 2 weeks. Now as an adult I see him maybe 3/4 times a year, despite him...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 5 468
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Singing waiters etc...?
NoMoore, 3 July, 2015 at 13:36

So H2B would like surprise singing waiters... so I'm trying to work the cost into the budget and decide if it's naff or good fun. I've found one that seems to do songs that aren't cheesy and also...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 13 2,552
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Hen Night - Male life drawing
JaneMcP, 14 February, 2014 at 13:50

Hi there Has anyone had any experience of male life drawing for a hen party? I've heard good and bad reviews - some people saying it was just a bit of naughty fun and very tame, other people saying it...

CarmenCHunt, tuesday 11-Aug-26 7 2,502
Red Baroness
When did you hear from your venue?
Red Baroness, 28 September, 2011 at 14:07

After booking etc, when did you hear from your venue regarding the finer details? We still haven't heard from ours, although we've still got 9-10 months to go.

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 16 1,986
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Timing of wedding invitations
lucyjo, 11 October, 2016 at 16:27

I'm sure this has been asked before, but I can't seem to find a post about it right now...so sorry if this has recently come up! How many weeks before the wedding are you planning on sending/did you...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 7 2,146
MrsBoo
How long to give guests to RSVP?
MrsBoo, 4 May, 2014 at 16:33

Our final details meeting at the venue won't be until about 4 weeks before the wedding so the end of October but our invitations are going out the beginning of July. How long are you all giving your...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 14 5,362
Justkeepswimming
What is an appropriate RSVP date
Justkeepswimming, 27 October, 2015 at 00:08

How far in advance before the wedding do you need to know the final numbers? For example I am getting married next July, and sending my invites out in the next few weeks,what RSVP date should I ask...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 17 16,326
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Unresponsive bridesmaids - help
Sondy, 13 August, 2015 at 23:39

Hi, It's almost a year until we wed (21st) and today I went to visit the venue for the first time- really exciting. I'm having a bit of trouble with contact from my 5 bridesmaids. I set up a facebook...

Julia, tuesday 11-Aug-26 24 3,177
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Cousins
katie_turner_uk84@hotmail.com, 29 January, 2025 at 15:14

Can anyone give me some advice with the wedding guest list. I am closer to some cousins than others..plus they have kids. Do I invite some cousins and not all? Don't want to upset anyone!

Sanchizes, monday 10-Aug-26 16 179
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Betting/Gambling Wedding Favour Ideas
LuxuriousRedHair663, 5 February, 2018 at 19:47

My fiancé and I love betting - football coupons, betting at the races etc! Looking to do a few different things! Iv heard of football coupons, single bets on horses...! Just wanting something bit more...

Sanchizes, monday 10-Aug-26 57 3,390
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Chemical diet ?
oldgal, 13 June, 2011 at 16:58

Anyone done this ? I am on day one as someone at work said they lost 10lbs in one week on it !

Marian, monday 10-Aug-26 14 19,159
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money saving tips on drinks needed
Princess Bride 2013, 9 March, 2015 at 14:08

Hi, Anyone have any advice on how to keep our alcohol bill down to a minimum? We have to purchase all alcohol through our venue and to be honest the prices are extortionate! We need welcome drinks,...

Nikolas, monday 10-Aug-26 17 2,975
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place cards
Leelee85, 5 May, 2016 at 15:25

Hiya, How is everyone doing their place cards. I wasn't impressed with the ones on Vista print. Are people buying blank ones online and then printing onto them or handwriting on to them? I don't...

Heinrich, monday 10-Aug-26 27 4,527
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Same sex wedding planner book?
LuxuriousGreenFlowers337, 5 March, 2015 at 21:45

Hoping someone can help me... My sister has just engaged to her girlfriend and I am looking for a wedding planning book that is suitable for same sex couples. Trouble is ive only really seen them...

Chanchal, monday 10-Aug-26 17 5,551
Marty
House venue
Marty, 6 October, 2024 at 13:47

Hi. Trying to plan a small wedding with 30ish guests. Looking to rent a large house for the reception with a DJ, marquee in the garden and a couple of food trucks, rather than the usual formal sit...

Rakhi, monday 10-Aug-26 7 237
Shannon
Trio bands for Surrey Area
Shannon, 10 February, 2026 at 19:02

Does anyone have an recommendations for bands that are reasonably priced. Please 😊

Shehnaaz, monday 10-Aug-26 7 48 1
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Evening food
Fern, 10 January, 2025 at 12:56

Does anyone have any good budget ideas for evening food? Easy and fulfilling! But at not a crazy price! Any ideas is appreciated 😊

Lucas, monday 10-Aug-26 7 124
Charlotte
No Bridesmaids but groomsmen?
Charlotte, 11 August, 2025 at 15:43

Hey, we have just booked our October 2026 wedding and noticed I have literally not one bridesmaids but we have groomsmen. Is it weird to have this. I feel we would look of balanced and it’s a bit sad...

Ahil, monday 10-Aug-26 10 190
Jalapeno
Weddings - An Idiot's Guide..??
Jalapeno, 6 January, 2012 at 15:20

Hello everyone. First post after reading for hours over the last couple of days. What a great place, so glad I've found it. Here's the thing. Got engaged on 20/12/11, wanted to enjoy the engagement...

Owen, sunday 9-Aug-26 10 3,305
Patricia
New to this
Patricia, 20 November, 2025 at 08:56

Planning our wedding.

Olivia, sunday 9-Aug-26 8 56
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would it be ok to ask people to travel for reception?
wedding-maze, 19 May, 2014 at 11:30

Hi all, for are wedding we want a very small intimate wedding, about 15-17 close family for the ceremony and wedding breakfast. we're looking to have it at either Scotland or the isle of white, either...

Faiq, sunday 9-Aug-26 12 1,805
sydneysays
Lights and candles decor?
sydneysays, 8 December, 2015 at 10:48

So I'm not big into flowers, FI wouldn't want a super girly wedding anyway, therefore our idea was to have candles and fairy lights make up a lot of our decor at the church and reception. This is our...

Crumbl, saturday 8-Aug-26 20 2,789

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