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Need Advice for Planning a Destination Wedding in Italy
Victoria, 8 January, 2025 at 08:42

Hello everyone, My fiancé and I are excitedly planning our destination wedding in Italy, but we could use some advice from anyone who's done it before. We have a few questions and would love to hear...

Rodney, tuesday 4-Aug-26 6 287 1
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Wedding tables names for a halloween wedding
Lynsey, 24 June, 2025 at 14:55

Hi there, I am looking for some advice regarding our tables for our wedding meal. We are not having too much Halloween themed things in the wedding but i thought one of these could be in the tables. i...

Leoparker, tuesday 4-Aug-26 8 80
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Just want advice. Am I being oversensitive?
Celtic B, 3 April, 2012 at 08:49

The clasp on my engagement ring came loose and one of the diamonds fell out. I found the diamond and we took it back into the jewllers that we brought it from. The shop assistant looked at it (and...

Gorilla, tuesday 4-Aug-26 19 6,821
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HELP! Ideas for snacks for guests at the church!!!!
ljtomlinson1, 26 August, 2012 at 21:26

Hello I am getting married in a church at 12.15 and the reception venue is a 40 minute drive away. I want to provide the guests with something to eat at the church to tide them over - nothing major as...

Rodney, tuesday 4-Aug-26 6 3,573
Lizzieloumoose
Food wording on invite and a timing question
Lizzieloumoose, 3 May, 2010 at 12:06

We're having a late-ish evening do (starts at 8, first dance 8.30) so we're not having a buffet, but rather bacon/sausage rolls (and cheese & tom ones for the veggies) about 9.30 ish. The day...

Shehnaaz, tuesday 4-Aug-26 8 7,305
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Half Up or All Down hair do's, post your pics please
shell657, 22 January, 2012 at 17:46

Would love to see any pics you may have of half up hair do's, im torn between having all down or just half up for my hairstyle (I hate my hair up!) And before anyone suggests it I have googled images...

Smith, tuesday 4-Aug-26 15 72,308
Happybluebridesmaid4886
Twilight weddings
Happybluebridesmaid4886, 5 November, 2024 at 13:44

Hi, can anyone reccomend anywhere for a twilight wedding please? Struggling to find many places that do them. Thanks so much in advance

Buraq, tuesday 4-Aug-26 23 408 1
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Paying a deposit on a dress
Bride2012, 27 August, 2011 at 22:46

Hi all, I'm going dress shopping the first week of September and just wondered what the typical deposit was when ordering a dress? I'm thinking its something like 50% of the cost of the dress. For...

Amelia, tuesday 4-Aug-26 10 1,466
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Wedding hair Cheltenham 25th July 2026
Kate, 14 April, 2026 at 14:13

Any hairdressers with availability for bride, 2 adult BMs and MOB?

Pooja, tuesday 4-Aug-26 16 135
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How did you play your music at your registry office wedding?
Lauren, 15 February, 2024 at 14:04

Hi, We have got our songs planned for our ceremony but was wondering what people found the best way to play them? I feel burning a CD is quite old fashioned now but is the Bluetooth option reliable?...

George, monday 3-Aug-26 12 1,627
Dani
Do these wedding pros have all the answers? Let’s find out! 👀
Dani, 11 February, 2025 at 10:19

Want to catch the rest of the podcast and more - click below, happy listening! 👇

Onlytop, monday 3-Aug-26 8 34
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Help finding a Photographer/videographer
Laura, 4 August, 2023 at 17:56

How do you decide on a photographer/videographer? I have no idea on this profession, but I want to invest in this aspect of our wedding. It is important for us to find someone who has done a lot of...

Muhammad, monday 3-Aug-26 28 304
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HELP!! Trying to track down hourglass shaped cylinder vases
clairej18, 7 October, 2010 at 16:41

Hi Ladies - I'm joining as sister of the bride! My sister has seen the attached table centres online (5th ones down) but we can't find the vases anywhere... can anyone help?!?!...

Marketing, monday 3-Aug-26 11 2,807
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Marquee on family land? Help!
Loulou1986, 11 June, 2013 at 21:10

Just wrote a whole message and it got deleted! Argh! First post so hello everyone! We just got engaged last friday and I have been looking a venues. I am not too into hotel type but more barn,...

Skye, monday 3-Aug-26 24 3,593
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Quaich Ceremony Wording
scarybiscuits, 6 March, 2012 at 09:54

Hi, We want to include drinking of the quaich during our ceremony. We are having a civil ceremony. Has anyone done this or planning to do it? I cant seem to find any wording for the registrar...

Babita, monday 3-Aug-26 4 13,746
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Suppliers guilt
Estina, 18 May, 2023 at 20:53

Has anyone else felt what I'm calling suppliers guilt. We verbally agreed to work with a lovely lady for our invitations and I contacted her last year October. All the quotes have come though but it...

Alop, sunday 2-Aug-26 6 313
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Food truck venue - North West!
Kenzie, 9 April, 2025 at 08:22

Hi all! I'm wondering if anyone has any recommendations or ideas for venues that are open to food trucks/street food type carering, rather than a sit down meal for the wedding breakfast? Ideally I'd...

Farhan, sunday 2-Aug-26 24 237
Kirsty
Aug 2026 what now?
Kirsty, 30 September, 2023 at 13:53

Recently engaged and we have just booked our wedding for August 2026.. The venue we have chosen has given us prices for 2024 and we have paid just a £50 deposit to secure the date, in approx 18 months...

Ishika, sunday 2-Aug-26 11 688 1
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Preston Court Canterbury prices/experiences
IvoryLaceDress, 28 October, 2014 at 16:00

Hi all I have been browsing online and fallen in love with Preston Court, however worried that it might be out of our budget! Has anyone got married there recently that doesn't mind sharing...

Elizabeth, sunday 2-Aug-26 16 8,454
Dezzy
Were to start.
Dezzy, 28 August, 2025 at 02:03

Hello need help were do I start to plan my wedding . Me and my other half have recently got engaged have an idea on guest list. And venue will be his parents eqestrian centre .Im guessing we need to...

Maharrashid, saturday 1-Aug-26 14 84
Annah304
No band/DJ in the evening - entertainment ideas?
Annah304, 27 November, 2011 at 11:34

A good friend of mine is getting married next year. She has the venue all booked but has found that they can't have amplified music in the evening. The venue is important to her so changing isn't an...

Buzzblender, saturday 1-Aug-26 17 2,945
Kate
Wedding Insurance
Kate, 22 July, 2023 at 13:31

Having just read an article on this very website, it suggests that wedding insurance is something often overlooked by couples planning. After a very brief look into it, I wasn’t able to find any...

Piona, friday 31-Jul-26 11 2,294 2
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Transport North East
Rachel, 9 February, 2026 at 21:44

Does anyone have any reputable car companies they are using?

FuegoTacto, friday 31-Jul-26 7 66
Victoria
Are Hitched vendors Legit? And Vetted by Hitched?
Victoria, 20 August, 2024 at 14:33

Are the vendors at Hitched vetted by the platform? I really like a vendor I found on Hitched but it has no online presence and no reviews. How can I know it is legit and not a scam?

Birkin, friday 31-Jul-26 22 927
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Writing to the Church!
Spandangley, 3 February, 2009 at 10:01

Hi everyone! I'm new here and already need help!! We have to write a letter to the Church basically asking them if we can get married there and I have no idea what to say really. It's not within our...

Sam, friday 31-Jul-26 17 24,185
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wedding post box?
AmzieM, 19 June, 2013 at 10:08

Ive been thinking for past few weeks about if to have a post box or not? is the whole point of them for guests to put their cards inside? how big or small should it be? i have seen a couple and my OH...

Latika, friday 31-Jul-26 23 7,861
Chloe
Mobile bar services in Italy!!!
Chloe, 9 August, 2024 at 08:32

We are getting married in Tuscany and desperately need to find a company to do an open bar for us. Anyone who’s getting married in Italy and knows of any companies, please can I have their contact...

Rodney, thursday 30-Jul-26 5 162
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Hen night party game ideas
HappyPinkCars45, 11 February, 2014 at 15:42

Hi everyone! Im planning on having 2 hen dos because 2 of my bridesmaids are early teens and I didn't want them missing out. So we're having a pamper party with lots of drinks and nibbles etc. I was...

Kjk, thursday 30-Jul-26 9 663
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CANAPE ALTERNATIVES
MrsKLG2be, 12 June, 2013 at 13:08

Hi, We get married in August 2014. My Fiance and I have looked at the canape options and decided we just cannot justify spending £1000 on 3 canapes per person! We do however want to provide the guests...

Willium, wednesday 29-Jul-26 11 1,546 1
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No idea where to start - Bristol based send help!
Ana-Maria, 1 September, 2025 at 19:21

We've been egaged a few months and have already checked out a few venues. However.. they've all been like £15k not including photograpgher, accomodation, outfits etc etc. Does anyone know of any...

Fatima, wednesday 29-Jul-26 14 139
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Ceremony but not wedding breakfast
Kelly, 30 January, 2025 at 14:23

Hi all, Congratulations on your upcoming weddings 🎉 So I have a friend I’ve known for around 20years, for the last few we’re not as close as we used to be but nothing bad happened. Anyway she has an...

Gcvxja, wednesday 29-Jul-26 8 91 1
yes2011
Kids toy boxes - collect ideas
yes2011, 20 June, 2011 at 12:27

Hi all, we're having a few kids at our wedding (aged 1, 3, 5, 6 and 10). I was wondering what kinds of toys you would prepare for them to keep them entertained. What worked, what didn't? Did you have...

Oliver, wednesday 29-Jul-26 9 1,502

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