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Venues
Stacey, 20 February, 2024 at 18:10

Hi, Can anyone at all tell me any venues you know of around the NG16 & NG17 postal area to look at! We are finding it so hard to find anywhere or are we being to picky! 😂

Stacey, thursday 22-Feb-24 8 95 1
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Order of the day - timings
Samantha, 19 February, 2024 at 22:13

Hiya, we have a had a breakdown of timings from out venue and think wedding breakfast is really late given evening reception from 7pm. What are your schedules like on the day I’m thinking sit down...

Samantha, thursday 22-Feb-24 5 133
Sarah
Dry hire venue bar and drinks
Sarah, 22 February, 2024 at 17:46

Hi all! We've just got engaged and are at the very early planning stages. We're looking at a few venues that are dry-hire e.g. a marquee in a field and a marquee next to a village hall and I'd love to...

Sarah, thursday 22-Feb-24 29
Louise
First dance song opinions
Louise, 22 February, 2024 at 11:21

I want to keep our first dance song a secret so need advice. I love 'biblical' by Biffy clyro. It's so dramatic and we want something a bit faster paced. But the lyrics are really about a marriage...

Louise, thursday 22-Feb-24 35
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Ethical. Venues & fox hunting
S J, 20 February, 2024 at 19:28

Hi all! My partner and I got engaged on Valentines day at I'm at the beginning of my journey planning, very excited. We've found the most amazing venue in Mid Wales called Plas DInam but I've been...

Katherine561, thursday 22-Feb-24 1 72
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Feeling very emotional and overwhelmed
Shay, 16 February, 2024 at 22:25

We have started the process of handing out our invitations. I don’t know what I expected but the responses have been beautiful! I have friends already with their outfits. My work friend bawled her...

Shay, wednesday 21-Feb-24 4 83 1
Tracey
Panic - lost the whole guest list - is the site glitching this evening???
Tracey, 21 February, 2024 at 20:17

One of teh guests did not have an option to decline, only cancel, so I pressed cancel, it warned me I would lose table information for that guest, which is correct, but it then wiped the whole...

Tracey, wednesday 21-Feb-24 22 1
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How did you know your venue was “the One”
2026Bridetobe, 5 February, 2024 at 11:36

Hey everyone, Just after some advice as not sure if I’m just over thinking and over worrying about venue choice… My question is - How did you know your venue was “the one” to go for? It feels like...

Miss, wednesday 21-Feb-24 22 428 1
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Wedding Entertainment ideas!
_Tinderella_, 10 November, 2017 at 11:41

Hey all, I'm looking for some 'different' ideas for entertainment for the big day. Originally I had hoped to get a magician as I love magic but my fiancé isn't too keen on the idea. We would like...

Sokinn65, tuesday 20-Feb-24 10 2,159
Abi
Registry / gift list
Abi, 18 February, 2024 at 19:30

Has anybody managed to add a page in their website for a registry or gift list? I remember reading somewhere that you could do that with Hitched, but now can’t find where to add it.

Laurie, tuesday 20-Feb-24 1 38
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Wedding hair/ make up costs
LuxuriousRedConfetti412, 14 October, 2015 at 11:21

So far I've had 1 quote for hair and 1 quote for make up. Both quotes are of high recommended people. I've been quoted £490 for make up for bride, 2 bridesmaids and mother of the bride, including a...

Sarah, tuesday 20-Feb-24 17 23,825
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qr code for honey money fund of guests
Gemma, 18 February, 2024 at 17:53

Hi has anyone done a qr code for honeymoon fund for guest to scan on your big day ?

Ivana, tuesday 20-Feb-24 1 85
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Canapés or no canapés?
Laura, 16 February, 2024 at 18:59

Would love some advice please! I’m getting married in May 2024. We’re having a sunset wedding meaning that the ceremony starts at 19:30. We’re all to be seated for the wedding breakfast for 21:00....

Ivana, tuesday 20-Feb-24 3 43
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Local Council Interviews - Giving Notice Of Marriage Interview - What Should I Expect?
Mrs Poon, 6 April, 2011 at 13:53

Hello Hitchers, Me and O/H have our interview next month with our Local Council to get Marriage Licence. We were both born in the UK and have valid UK passports so why am I extra nervious about it. I...

Ci, monday 19-Feb-24 28 38,194
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When is too early to send out the invites?
BlossomKatie1993, 10 November, 2017 at 12:52

Hi All, I will be receiving my wedding invites in the next week or so and I know once I see them, I'm going to want to send them out - My wedding isn't for another 6 months yet and I already sent out...

Ben, monday 19-Feb-24 5 4,658
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Venue Help🥹
Gabriella, 13 February, 2024 at 01:11

Hi guys.. me and my partner can’t find a venue and it’s becoming super deflating !! We have looked at so many, and lots aren’t what they seem to advertise and we’re worried we won’t find a venue! We’d...

Carl, monday 19-Feb-24 2 137
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Am i overthinking on how much to feed the guests?
Emily, 11 February, 2024 at 18:38

So I’m planning for my August 2026 wedding. Registry office with 4 witnesses and then a big party reception. The big part of the day is the reception and that’s where I think(?) I’m overthinking. Was...

A&K, saturday 17-Feb-24 4 142 1
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Smaller details
Kirstie, 6 February, 2024 at 19:40

May seem a silly question, but who is responsible for taking things to your venue ready for the ceremony/reception? For example, thank you presents for the speeches, box for cards, favours etc

Tangkas, friday 16-Feb-24 11 376
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Marquee cost
Amy, 5 January, 2024 at 13:06

We’re looking into putting a marquee up in our garden. Can anyone let me know how much they ended up paying to do this? We just had a quote for 10k which seems crazy to me!

Hannah, friday 16-Feb-24 3 94
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Top table
Mollie, 5 January, 2024 at 17:17

My finance and I have found a location we love but haven’t committed to booking a date as he is worried about the top table as unfortunately both of his parents have passed away and he doesn’t want...

Hannah, friday 16-Feb-24 7 189
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Small Wedding 30 people Venue ideas
Claire, 14 February, 2024 at 10:12

Hi any tips on having a small ceremony of about 30/35 then possibly another 20 in the evening. So far we have been to local Marriott but they seem to be making everything complicated saying we need to...

Laura, friday 16-Feb-24 3 62
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Wedding Photo Apps
LuxuriousPurpleHair69883, 9 January, 2018 at 06:13

Has anyone used a photo app for their wedding? I’ve been looking at wedpics, but can you download from the app (i.e. onto my Mac)? and do guests have to take photos through the app itself, or can they...

Andrew, friday 16-Feb-24 9 6,318 1
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finalising guest list
Ashleigh, 15 February, 2024 at 13:26

Did anyone reach out to their guests for a second time after getting the first RSVP? We sent out our Invites in January and our wedding is in October. We have invited 120 people and so far 100 have...

Ashleigh, friday 16-Feb-24 8 166
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How did you play your music at your registry office wedding?
Lauren, 15 February, 2024 at 14:04

Hi, We have got our songs planned for our ceremony but was wondering what people found the best way to play them? I feel burning a CD is quite old fashioned now but is the Bluetooth option reliable?...

Charlotte, friday 16-Feb-24 2 213
Rachael
Hen do ideas for 2
Rachael, 15 February, 2024 at 16:30

Hello all, I am trying to arrange a hen do for me and my best friend, but I can’t think of any fun or creative ideas for such a small number of people! Any ideas or suggestions?!

RomanticGreenStation, friday 16-Feb-24 2 55
Dani
ANNOUNCEMENT: Check out our Award Winning vendors! 🏆
Dani, 15 February, 2024 at 15:34

Hey Hitchers, We have a BIG announcement to make!! Our Hitched 2024 Wedding Award Winners have been crowned 👑 Check out the winners 👉 HERE 👈 and bag yourself one of the best in the business, or maybe...

Dani, thursday 15-Feb-24 54 1
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Wedding Venue Help
Lucy, 15 February, 2024 at 15:04

Hi! I haven’t post here before but have been trawling for what feels like years so hoping perhaps for some new ideas! We got engaged in 2022, and would love a relaxed rustic wedding for approx 90...

Lucy, thursday 15-Feb-24 39
The Little Jewellery Box
Soooo, has anyone ever had dermal fillers or planning to in prep for wedding?!
The Little Jewellery Box, 4 July, 2016 at 12:13

Hi ladies! As per the subject really. Any experience of dermal fillers or Botox? Why did you have them and what do you think?! Feel free to add before and after pics, lol! i genuinely never thought...

Connie, wednesday 14-Feb-24 7 1,995
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dj Playlist
Lorena, 9 February, 2024 at 15:17

I am whatever the "foodie" version of a music lover is. I notice it in the background anywhere it is playing. I know this will be the case on my wedding day. As I have been making a list of my...

Shay, tuesday 13-Feb-24 1 42
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Venue menu change post booking
Jade, 12 February, 2024 at 08:41

Hi. Jw, has anyone had a venue change their menu after booking with them? Appreciate advice. TIA We booked in October and today whilst showing photos to a relative from the venue website, I noticed a...

Jade, tuesday 13-Feb-24 2 76
Olive
Bar Query - Keg Hire Uk
Olive, 12 February, 2024 at 19:47

Hello! I'm wondering if there's anyone in the UK (Scotland, ideally) who can recommend a keg hire service? The groom wants to serve Tennents, our venue allows us to BYOB, but we'll need to hire the...

Olive, monday 12-Feb-24 26
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Place for bridal party to get ready!
Courtney, 11 February, 2024 at 21:24

I am looking for a cottage/barn to hire for the night before the wedding so we can all get ready together. Located Norfolk - Dereham area xx

Courtney, sunday 11-Feb-24 20

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