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Wedding Ideas
Kyra, 21 February, 2024 at 22:12

Hello!! Need some advice… Me and my partner are hoping to get married next year ideally May 2025. We’re from Newcastle and don’t want to travel too far. We need a venue which will be fairly reasonable...

Hackbart, wednesday 28-Feb-24 34
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Deed poll middle name... so confused!
Sarah, 28 February, 2024 at 17:26

So I found out that my birth certificate doesn't have a middle name down for me, however all my life my parents had said my middle name is Alice had that on passports going back as far as I can...

Sarah, wednesday 28-Feb-24 26
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Me and my boyfriend
Alice, 27 February, 2024 at 23:21

Me and my boyfriend are getting married but we want a different wedding, what do we need?

RomanticGreenStation, wednesday 28-Feb-24 1 52
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Wedding Gift from Bride to Groom and vice versa
ebarton24, 24 June, 2013 at 12:17

Is anybody buying a gift for their future other half? I was planning on doing so and told my other half this the other night and he was shocked and didn’t know about this... Some friends did and some...

Caitlyn, wednesday 28-Feb-24 27 50,089
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Wedding cake
Amy, 23 February, 2024 at 18:59

What flavour wedding cake are you all going for? We are having a small wedding and it's going to be served as the desert at the wedding breakfast so it can't be different flavoured tiers because the...

Ivana, tuesday 27-Feb-24 4 54
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Save the Dates
Sammy, 13 February, 2024 at 14:11

Hey everyone! We are getting married Oct 2025 and I have never planned a party never mind a wedding! We are only having a small wedding (50 day and around 80 evening), and I think majority already...

Stephen, tuesday 27-Feb-24 1 80
Nadia
Bridal shop suggestions
Nadia, 26 February, 2024 at 21:15

Hi all We're planning on getting married in Sep 2025 and I've just had a quick look online to get a feel of what wedding dresses I like and I think I found some designers I'd really like to try at...

Nadia, monday 26-Feb-24 29
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Last minute panic about church service
Stephanie, 25 February, 2024 at 16:52

Hey! I'm getting married 6th april 24. We've got a church service followed by reception in nearby golf club. All going to plan, however the church doesn't have a middle aisle. It has two aisles which...

RomanticGreenStation, monday 26-Feb-24 2 68
Kristina
Wedding invitations
Kristina, 2 February, 2024 at 17:32

Good evening everyone I noticed a lot of people are doing online invites etc . But I find it so confusing! And i think I am a bit old school ! Paper invites still a thing or online is the way forward...

Amy, monday 26-Feb-24 8 132
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Did anyone get their male fiancé an engagement gift/ring?
I-go-by-many-names, 7 August, 2014 at 16:55

My OH and I are feminists. I often feel guilty therefore by the fact we didn't do away with the engagement ring tradition. We just went along with the 'man buys woman diamond' thing without even...

Jessica, monday 26-Feb-24 18 58,533
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Period due on wedding day - help needed!
Christie, 25 February, 2024 at 18:50

Hi all! I'm very regular and according to my period tracker, I will start my period on my wedding day! Obviously I want to avoid this as much as possible! White dress, logistics, pain etc!! I am...

Christie, sunday 25-Feb-24 31
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Decorations !
Antonia, 25 February, 2024 at 08:37

If you’re like me and doing things on a small budget that I highly suggest Temu for all your decorations, table favours etc! It’s all the same products as Amazon but comes directly from the supplier...

Antonia, sunday 25-Feb-24 27
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Make up artist isn't responding!
Lauren, 3 February, 2024 at 14:48

Anyone know actually any reliable make up artist for a wedding? South Yorkshire. Always constantly taking my deposit which im now fetting fed up of paying for and ignoring my messages 🙄 I just want a...

Lizzie, saturday 24-Feb-24 3 151
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Website Help - Additional rsvp Info
Stuart, 24 February, 2024 at 12:19

I want to use our website to have guests RSVP. We are putting on a coach service to our venue for all day guests, and want people to RSVP if they want to use this so we know the numbers to tell the...

Stuart, saturday 24-Feb-24 30
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Wedding venue
Jamie, 20 February, 2024 at 13:29

Hi all, We’re looking for a wedding venue with accommodation. A nice house with a marquee? Bridal group stay the night before, wedding guests can stay the night and we stay the last night. We want to...

Stephen, saturday 24-Feb-24 2 46
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Hen Do Ideas
Amy, 19 February, 2024 at 15:56

My hen do will probably be myself and my mum, maybe 3 other female friends. My daughter is my bridesmaid but she is only little so too small for a hen do. Any ideas, we live in a very rural area which...

Amy, friday 23-Feb-24 5 94
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Dad refusing to come to my wedding - help!!
Jasmine, 15 February, 2024 at 22:53

So for a bit of backstory… I have a Dad and a Stepdad. My Dad has never really been close with me, as a child I’d see him every 2 weeks. Now as an adult I see him maybe 3/4 times a year, despite him...

Jess, friday 23-Feb-24 4 108
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Venues
Stacey, 20 February, 2024 at 18:10

Hi, Can anyone at all tell me any venues you know of around the NG16 & NG17 postal area to look at! We are finding it so hard to find anywhere or are we being to picky! 😂

Stacey, thursday 22-Feb-24 8 93 1
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Order of the day - timings
Samantha, 19 February, 2024 at 22:13

Hiya, we have a had a breakdown of timings from out venue and think wedding breakfast is really late given evening reception from 7pm. What are your schedules like on the day I’m thinking sit down...

Samantha, thursday 22-Feb-24 5 133
Sarah
Dry hire venue bar and drinks
Sarah, 22 February, 2024 at 17:46

Hi all! We've just got engaged and are at the very early planning stages. We're looking at a few venues that are dry-hire e.g. a marquee in a field and a marquee next to a village hall and I'd love to...

Sarah, thursday 22-Feb-24 29
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First dance song opinions
Louise, 22 February, 2024 at 11:21

I want to keep our first dance song a secret so need advice. I love 'biblical' by Biffy clyro. It's so dramatic and we want something a bit faster paced. But the lyrics are really about a marriage...

Louise, thursday 22-Feb-24 33
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Ethical. Venues & fox hunting
S J, 20 February, 2024 at 19:28

Hi all! My partner and I got engaged on Valentines day at I'm at the beginning of my journey planning, very excited. We've found the most amazing venue in Mid Wales called Plas DInam but I've been...

Katherine561, thursday 22-Feb-24 1 72
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Feeling very emotional and overwhelmed
Shay, 16 February, 2024 at 22:25

We have started the process of handing out our invitations. I don’t know what I expected but the responses have been beautiful! I have friends already with their outfits. My work friend bawled her...

Shay, wednesday 21-Feb-24 4 83 1
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Panic - lost the whole guest list - is the site glitching this evening???
Tracey, 21 February, 2024 at 20:17

One of teh guests did not have an option to decline, only cancel, so I pressed cancel, it warned me I would lose table information for that guest, which is correct, but it then wiped the whole...

Tracey, wednesday 21-Feb-24 19 1
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How did you know your venue was “the One”
2026Bridetobe, 5 February, 2024 at 11:36

Hey everyone, Just after some advice as not sure if I’m just over thinking and over worrying about venue choice… My question is - How did you know your venue was “the one” to go for? It feels like...

Miss, wednesday 21-Feb-24 22 424 1
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Wedding Entertainment ideas!
_Tinderella_, 10 November, 2017 at 11:41

Hey all, I'm looking for some 'different' ideas for entertainment for the big day. Originally I had hoped to get a magician as I love magic but my fiancé isn't too keen on the idea. We would like...

Sokinn65, tuesday 20-Feb-24 10 2,157
Abi
Registry / gift list
Abi, 18 February, 2024 at 19:30

Has anybody managed to add a page in their website for a registry or gift list? I remember reading somewhere that you could do that with Hitched, but now can’t find where to add it.

Laurie, tuesday 20-Feb-24 1 36
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Wedding hair/ make up costs
LuxuriousRedConfetti412, 14 October, 2015 at 11:21

So far I've had 1 quote for hair and 1 quote for make up. Both quotes are of high recommended people. I've been quoted £490 for make up for bride, 2 bridesmaids and mother of the bride, including a...

Sarah, tuesday 20-Feb-24 17 23,718
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qr code for honey money fund of guests
Gemma, 18 February, 2024 at 17:53

Hi has anyone done a qr code for honeymoon fund for guest to scan on your big day ?

Ivana, tuesday 20-Feb-24 1 78
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Canapés or no canapés?
Laura, 16 February, 2024 at 18:59

Would love some advice please! I’m getting married in May 2024. We’re having a sunset wedding meaning that the ceremony starts at 19:30. We’re all to be seated for the wedding breakfast for 21:00....

Ivana, tuesday 20-Feb-24 3 41
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Local Council Interviews - Giving Notice Of Marriage Interview - What Should I Expect?
Mrs Poon, 6 April, 2011 at 13:53

Hello Hitchers, Me and O/H have our interview next month with our Local Council to get Marriage Licence. We were both born in the UK and have valid UK passports so why am I extra nervious about it. I...

Ci, monday 19-Feb-24 28 37,955
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When is too early to send out the invites?
BlossomKatie1993, 10 November, 2017 at 12:52

Hi All, I will be receiving my wedding invites in the next week or so and I know once I see them, I'm going to want to send them out - My wedding isn't for another 6 months yet and I already sent out...

Ben, monday 19-Feb-24 5 4,648

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