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Hannah
Iphone content creator!
Hannah, 11 June, 2025 at 14:22

Hi everyone! August 2026 bride here 🫶🏻 I was wondering if there are any iPhone content creators looking to build their portfolio and would be able to capture my wedding please? Date is 17/08/2026 in...

Steelheart, wednesday 24-Jun-26 4 45
Joy
After ceremony entertainment
Joy, 14 January, 2026 at 13:44

I’m looking at some indoor, possibly outdoor depending on weather, November 2027. Entertainment for guest to do or watch whilst we have our pictures

Babita, wednesday 24-Jun-26 7 72
miss_winter14
feeling for grooms and best men; written my ruby wedding speech :/
miss_winter14, 10 February, 2015 at 14:25

So i now know how grooms and best men and fobs etc feel. i've written my speech for my parents ruby wedding and i'm convinced it's poo. so i need opinions. please? here it is for you to pick apart for...

myassignmenthelprevi, wednesday 24-Jun-26 10 2,119
*Pugsley*
Girls night in/hen night ideas please
*Pugsley*, 18 June, 2013 at 19:43

Hiya, A friend and I are planning a mini hen night in for our friend. There will be 5 girls present. It'll be the night before we go on her proper hen weekend but we thought we'd plan something...

Ronald, wednesday 24-Jun-26 7 1,032
docshell
MIL ruined wedding
docshell, 29 May, 2009 at 15:35

Well the title says it all and it will be a little long as I need to get this out of my system. MIL always been a little hard work but never thought this would happen. Arrived in northern Ireland- all...

Smith, tuesday 23-Jun-26 15 3,741
Ella
Intimate wedding
Ella, 11 January, 2026 at 16:30

Can anyone help me. I’m looking for a Manor House or chapel that can just do me the ceremony part of my wedding. Kind of like a registry office vibe but with the beautiful scenery. I’m based in...

Remo, tuesday 23-Jun-26 14 188
Anna
Planning
Anna, 1 August, 2023 at 21:13

Hey! What did it do you find as the hardest part to plan with your wedding? Would you consider hiring a wedding planner and if not, why?

Timothy, tuesday 23-Jun-26 12 341 1
Camistrella
Keep it organized, stick to your budget, and focus on celebrating love with family and friends.
Camistrella, 25 February, 2026 at 13:22

Choose a date Decide your budgetCreate a rough guest list

Puhu, tuesday 23-Jun-26 5 42
nicnol
Opinions on our wording for information sheets
nicnol, 1 February, 2011 at 10:41

Hi all.......trying to get a first draft together of our info sheets (and have realised I need to get my @rse in gear re looking for accommodation!!) Anyhoo opinions needed on the below fo some of the...

John, tuesday 23-Jun-26 21 15,215
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Can it all be done on 10k?
RomanticGreenHair738, 10 February, 2017 at 10:18

Hi all, this is my first post on here (probably first of many!) We are looking to get married in June next year. We was going to wait a few more years but my partners dad died of cancer in 2014 and...

myassignmenthelprevi, tuesday 23-Jun-26 12 3,757
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Ethical. Venues & fox hunting
S J, 20 February, 2024 at 19:28

Hi all! My partner and I got engaged on Valentines day at I'm at the beginning of my journey planning, very excited. We've found the most amazing venue in Mid Wales called Plas DInam but I've been...

Roms, monday 22-Jun-26 11 165
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Reserved seating wording
Sarah, 11 July, 2022 at 14:00

Hey everyone. I have noticed in pictures of weddings at my venue that there are what I presume 'reserved' cards on the front row / 2 rows of seats (this is at non church venue) I can't zoom in enough...

Timothy, monday 22-Jun-26 7 703
lc93
OMs/TOGS, please share your photo's of 'uneven' bridal parties!
lc93, 18 December, 2015 at 13:40

Hi all, meant to be working so without going in to too much detail, there's someone I'd like OH to include as a groomsmen. It's an ongoing discussion, and I'd never force him to have anyone he didn't...

Willium, sunday 21-Jun-26 10 3,516
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Registry
Rosemary, 19 November, 2025 at 19:30

Which registrars are easiest for guests?

Mr Simon, sunday 21-Jun-26 8 56
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Brighton and Worthing registry offices anyone?
redsunflower25, 26 July, 2013 at 10:47

As title... has anyone got hitched in either? Any pics? We are back round to idea of reg' office and knees up at home and wondering what these places are like. If either has a bit of character or just...

Haadi, saturday 20-Jun-26 15 6,105
MrsEldridge
Wedding Bathroom Baskets
MrsEldridge, 4 June, 2012 at 16:51

Hello Ladies, I am thinking about doing bathroom baskets for the ladies and men's toilet at my wedding. What useful bits do you think I should pop in them?

Gorilla, saturday 20-Jun-26 29 27,554
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Unusual Wedding Food
OneHartOrTwo, 12 May, 2016 at 11:24

Hi all, I was wondering if I could pick some brains about less traditional wedding foods. MOB and H2B are both very fussy and only really eat traditional English foods but I wonder if guest would...

Sam, friday 19-Jun-26 28 6,008
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Buttonhole Politics...!
Jennie228, 20 December, 2012 at 14:25

Hi All, Been looking on here for a while, so thought its about time I get involved! Here's my dilemma... I want buttonholes/corsages to be worn by the wedding party only, to distinguish who they are....

Parul, thursday 18-Jun-26 12 19,484
MrsToffee
Wedding Cake
MrsToffee, 1 January, 2014 at 21:57

Hi all; finally started looking into actually booking stuff again now Christmas is over instead of just wasting time on Pinterest! Anyway; have been looking at cakes and have a quick question; do the...

Jarrod, thursday 18-Jun-26 8 2,616
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Issue with wedding photographer
fionachey, 9 April, 2015 at 22:56

We got married nearly 7 months ago, but we haven't seen any of our images. We have paid in full, and have been sending emails regularly. We get all kinds of excuses and now she's completely ignoring...

Emberlyn, thursday 18-Jun-26 34 5,826
Dani
VIDEO: Discover your wedding budget! 📱
Dani, 18 July, 2024 at 15:30

Hey couples, Need a helping hand with finding your ideal wedding budget? Check out this video to show you just how easy it is to use our brand new Wedding Budget Calculator 📱 👇 Watch now 👇 Do you...

Leoparker, wednesday 17-Jun-26 9 216
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LANDY BRIDAL???
DTTB, 21 September, 2010 at 16:24

Hey, I have seen some of you speaking of landy bridal so thought id have a look. The pronovias dress that i love but cant afford (its £3600) is on there for $699 dollars, so thats about £400...

Reading, wednesday 17-Jun-26 27 8,313
Louise
rsvp
Louise, 16 November, 2025 at 23:13

Hi, I'm getting married next October and wondered what the typical time scale on needing RSVPs in for? We only have limited numbers with getting married at the registry office so if someone can't make...

Susan, wednesday 17-Jun-26 59 933 1
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How do I tell guests not to post photos on social networks?
celticcurl, 13 January, 2014 at 15:59

Hi, The only thing that is worrying me about my wedding is guests posting photos of me on any social networking sites. My closest friends all respect my wishes in this - they know the full history and...

Dlimss, wednesday 17-Jun-26 32 2,773
Megan
Finally booked our venue!!
Megan, 23 January, 2024 at 15:07

Hi everyone! Me and my FOH have finally booked our wedding venue and registrar for March 2026! I am so excited to finally start the planning….but don’t want to get ahead of myself planning everything...

Timothy, wednesday 17-Jun-26 10 632
Sophie
2029 Bride.. 💍
Sophie, 21 February, 2026 at 14:11

Hi brides to be, I'm very new to this, we booked our wedding on Valentine's Day after being engaged for 3 years, together for 10! Now I know 2029 is a very long way away, especially October 2029 which...

Cherybomb, wednesday 17-Jun-26 5 102
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Sweet carts....
kittypuss85, 17 April, 2013 at 13:16

Hi all, I may have the opportunity of taking over a sweet cart business, but I was wondering if you all could give me an idea of how popular these are now? Has the idea passed or are they still a...

Oliver, tuesday 16-Jun-26 14 18,892
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Tensions around parents financial contributions to wedding
kezza3000, 30 August, 2011 at 16:22

Just wanted some opinions please, apologies that this is really long and a bit of a rant! I have known for a long time that my parents had a wedding fund that they had been saving for a number of...

Awais99, tuesday 16-Jun-26 49 9,035
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Christmas wedding in November - too early?
Pea, 12 January, 2025 at 16:30

Hey! We had our hearts set on a Christmas wedding this year but missed all December dates at our dream venue. They have confirmed they as standard put their Christmas decorations up on the 22nd...

Koller, tuesday 16-Jun-26 17 489
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Thai food for wedding breakfast
helzbelz200, 19 June, 2012 at 18:29

Hi Just wondering if anyone out there has had / planing to have Thai food for their wedding breakfast? We are thinking of having 2 course Thai food served to the tables with Thai canapés with the...

Delta, tuesday 16-Jun-26 19 5,242
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Face in hole photo board
Edgeworth1987, 23 January, 2013 at 20:32

Hi there I've seen those boards with a funny picture on and a hole where you put your face for a picture and would love to have one for my wedding reception for everyone to have photos taken. The...

Aleeza, tuesday 16-Jun-26 34 18,641
loopy_lisa 91
New bride- low budget- feeling sad :(
loopy_lisa 91, 17 March, 2014 at 10:36

Hi all! I'm a new(ish) bride and we're starting to plan our wedding. I should be excited but to be honest I'm not and the reason why is budget. For reasons I won't go in to, we're having to keep our...

sahilverma3, tuesday 16-Jun-26 52 6,997

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