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Wine 🍷
Shay, 14 January, 2024 at 18:45

Happy new year everyone and happy wedding year to all the 2024 brides and grooms! We are starting to buy all of our alcohol in! Anyone who has done this how did you do it? We are Ofcourse offering...

Shay, sunday 14-Jan-24 39 1
Charlotte
The She Allstars
Charlotte, 14 January, 2024 at 15:49

Hi, just wondered if anyone has used and can recommend the soul party band The She Allstars? Run by She Music Global. Thanks in advance

Charlotte, sunday 14-Jan-24 4
Caz
rsvp surnames
Caz, 13 January, 2024 at 12:34

Hi, Trying to set up invites, but the RSVP isn't showing full surnames - just an initial - anyway to correct this?

Caz, saturday 13-Jan-24 24
Kristina
Wedding dress online
Kristina, 7 January, 2024 at 09:42

Hello everyone I have been looking online and have found some amazing wedding dresses. Cheaper and more expensive ones. I am sociably awkward at times and just thinking about trying dresses in the...

Kristina, friday 12-Jan-24 10 227
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Cactus in Centrepiece
Charley Louise, 12 January, 2024 at 12:29

I need some help. I am having real cactus' in my centrepieces. I have brought sand but I don't know how long it will survive in the sand. It will have soil from where it's in the pot when I buy it,...

Charley Louise, friday 12-Jan-24 4
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How long does a venue quote take?
2026Bridetobe, 12 January, 2024 at 09:55

Hi everyone, Went to our first venue open day last Sunday and we had pre booked an appointment with them so that whilst we were there we could talk to someone about our ideas and options etc. They...

2026Bridetobe, friday 12-Jan-24 30
Katrina
Wedding ideas 💡 after wedding breakfast
Katrina, 7 January, 2024 at 18:33

Hiya all, Just wanted some ideas of what to do after our Ceremony, reception drinks and then wedding breakfast. We won't be doing the traditional things such as first dance we will not be having a DJ...

PhotographybyBillHad, thursday 11-Jan-24 10 245
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Essex "dry hire" venues
Miss, 2 January, 2024 at 17:37

Hi, not sure where to start or if there are "busier" websites and forums to look at...! But, I'm looking for budget friendly venues in Essex where we can supply out own caterers and supply some of our...

LemonWedding, thursday 11-Jan-24 25
Danielle
No formal speeches?
Danielle, 17 October, 2023 at 16:48

Deciding whether or not to have formal speeches, most of my wedding party are not confident public speakers and I feel awful to put them under that pressure on the day. Has anyone got any creative...

Danielle, thursday 11-Jan-24 10 429 2
King
Ukbride it's a Scam!
King, 11 January, 2024 at 14:48

I have recently signed up to UKBride and unfortunately I get blitzed with emails from venues asking about my wedding plans. I'm all ready married now and they won't remove my details, has anyone else...

King, thursday 11-Jan-24 176
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UK Bride ARRRGGGGHHH!!!
mrs_lewis_2b, 16 February, 2011 at 11:24

I registered on this site a few weeks ago just to enter the competition - I've never used it or been on it since - and now...... i'm getting loads of "offers" in the post from various suppliers!!...

King, thursday 11-Jan-24 2 1,511 1
Crantock
How did you find your photographer?
Crantock, 10 November, 2008 at 11:07

I'm in the process of setting up a wedding photography business (I've been part-time for a while now, but looking to step it up a gear from January) and I'm looking at marketing at the moment. I'm...

King, thursday 11-Jan-24 23 2,299
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What comes first - booking a venue or registrar?! 😵‍💫
2026Bridetobe, 6 January, 2024 at 11:55

Hi everyone, just after some advice as getting really confused with the whole planning process 😭 My fiancé and I are still in the early planning stage but rapidly feeling out of our depth about...

Zachariahkamryn, thursday 11-Jan-24 2 201 2
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Oakley Court Experiences - for better or worse ?
Jessica, 11 January, 2024 at 00:28

Hi hitched We are looking at Oakley Court for our wedding venue either midsummer or later in September. Has anyone had any experience in dealing with them ? We imagine the numbers are going to climb -...

Jessica, thursday 11-Jan-24 34
Hannah
Band
Hannah, 30 December, 2023 at 16:42

Hi, I am getting married July 2024 in Swansea, does anyone have any recommendations for a band. Thanks Hannah

Dane, monday 8-Jan-24 1 34
Georgia
Evening Reception-only Wedding (uk)
Georgia, 8 January, 2024 at 18:59

Hi all, has anyone had any experience in planning a reception-only wedding? My fiance and I are toying with the idea of having a small wedding ceremony in a registry office with close friends and...

Georgia, monday 8-Jan-24 37 3
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Online Cake Company
Claire, 8 January, 2024 at 16:17

Hi all, can anyone recommend a good online bakery that could make and deliver a very simple naked carrot cake with two tiers to Cornwall? Only 26 people at the wedding and we are not overly fussed...

Claire, monday 8-Jan-24 17 1
Desta
How do i tell my Dad he’s not walking me down the aisle?
Desta, 7 January, 2024 at 10:41

I’ve been engaged since September 2022 and we’re getting married in October this year. I decided a while ago that I’d like my mum to walk me down the aisle. I have an amazing step dad who’s done a lot...

Desta, sunday 7-Jan-24 59
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Scottish Wedding Venues
Stacey, 4 January, 2024 at 22:44

Hi, I'm super new to Hitched and I'm looking for any tips and advice on Scottish Wedding Venues. We've been engaged since September 2022 but unfortunately our wedding planning had to take a backseat...

Stacey, thursday 4-Jan-24 43
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menu tasting... when should it be done?
Gumibear85, 7 April, 2013 at 09:24

Something that was big on my list was having a nice menu for the wedding breakfast. I want my guests to be able to have a choice of what they eat. So I need to (at some point) go to my venue and do a...

Jennifer, thursday 4-Jan-24 7 2,856
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Can i ask what everyone’s budget is for flowers/decor and your thoughts on faux flowers/combination?
Jade, 4 January, 2024 at 14:50

Hi everyone, I’m getting married in September and just wondered how much I should be spending on flowers/decor? What is reasonable? We have about 100 guests and are open to all layouts/low or high...

Jade, thursday 4-Jan-24 44
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Questions!
Ebony, 3 January, 2024 at 22:47

Hi all, I'm very new with this and have absolutely no idea where to start. We are going to view a possible venue on the 14th, what questions should I be asking? Tia

Ebony, wednesday 3-Jan-24 24
Katherine
Buttonhole politics
Katherine, 21 November, 2023 at 21:25

I have asked my groom to wear a buttonhole to tie him nicely into the wedding party and help it look cohesive My groom has thrown a hissy fit about how much he hates buttonholes, he doesn't get the...

Ravina, wednesday 3-Jan-24 9 590
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Playlist instead of band/dj - help!
Jessica, 3 January, 2024 at 14:57

Hi everyone. I'm getting married in 2 months (eek!) and we have decided to create our own playlist for the evening instead of hiring a band/DJ - we're both passionate about music and would rather have...

Jessica, wednesday 3-Jan-24 18
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Alternative to Weddings
Olivia, 3 January, 2024 at 13:05

I am at a loss for what I want to do to celebrate my marriage. I don’t want anything big. The idea of a party or anything like that I feel like I’m doing for other people, not me. I’d be on edge the...

Olivia, wednesday 3-Jan-24 17
Carianne
When to send save the date cards
Carianne, 2 January, 2024 at 10:00

Hi All, I would love some advice. I am getting married on the 4th July 2026 in Cornwall, we and our wedding guests live mostly in Essex. When would you send your save the date cards? Considering it is...

Carianne, tuesday 2-Jan-24 29
Jennifer
Social media photos
Jennifer, 1 January, 2024 at 18:59

Hi all. I need to sort out the wording for our invites soon. We don’t want our day shared on social media before we get the chance too as we are not able to have everyone we would have liked. Does...

Jennifer, monday 1-Jan-24 15
Jennifer
Keeping the big day under wraps
Jennifer, 1 January, 2024 at 18:54

Hi all. I need to sort out the wording for our invites soon. We don’t want our day shared on social media before we get the chance too as we are not able to have everyone we would have liked. Does...

Jennifer, monday 1-Jan-24 13
Katrina
Something old, something blue something borrowed
Katrina, 1 January, 2024 at 18:52

Will any of you brides be following this tradition? I just thought about it. Not sure I will be following it. What are your thoughts?

Katrina, monday 1-Jan-24 18
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Indecision on a venue!
Sophie, 1 January, 2024 at 11:07

Hi all, we have viewed a few venues and each has been better than the previous. We were very excited to view one yesterday and then ended up viewing one a couple of days before. We hadn’t thought too...

Sophie, monday 1-Jan-24 14
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Entertainment ideas
Zoë, 21 November, 2023 at 15:09

Hi All, Just looking for some entertainment ideas for our guests during welcome drinks/photos and perhaps our wedding breakfast. Desperate bride looking for help and inspiration. TIAZoë ☺️

Zoë, monday 1-Jan-24 4 213
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Not enough people to invite to the wedding...
Sammy, 30 December, 2023 at 12:46

Hi, this is a bit of a strange one but we don't have enough people to invite to our wedding. Our reception is in a village hall and the coordinator there said we'd need at least 54 people for our...

Sammy, saturday 30-Dec-23 35

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