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Poppies
1987RAF, 13 May, 2016 at 09:49

For those who have read my previous posts, you may be aware that we are getting married on 5 November. I am a huge supporter of the Poppy Appeal and have just suddenly thought that we will be right in...

Ali, tuesday 12-May-26 12 4,150
Abi
Registry / gift list
Abi, 18 February, 2024 at 19:30

Has anybody managed to add a page in their website for a registry or gift list? I remember reading somewhere that you could do that with Hitched, but now can’t find where to add it.

Sean, monday 11-May-26 2 108
stephjbenton90
Help with wedding readings!
stephjbenton90, 1 July, 2014 at 12:56

Okay, so me and OH originally dismissed the idea of having readings at our wedding, but since then I have felt like our ceremony would just be over too fast, and not at all personal. So.. we have...

Katrin, monday 11-May-26 18 2,618
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Order of Events
Lianne, 21 September, 2024 at 11:18

Hi all. I’m looking to provide my guests with an order of events so they know the timings for everything. How has everyone done this or planning to do this? I’ve seen options where they’ve put it on...

Daran, monday 11-May-26 4 95
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Shots as favours...opinions please!
Moonbeam88, 19 February, 2015 at 12:20

Hi I'm thinking of doing shots as our favours and need some opinions! We might do a choice of two...what would your favorite be??? I'll also have some cake pops for kids / nans / teetotals etc. I like...

Willium, sunday 10-May-26 14 10,897
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Planning
Caitlyn, 21 December, 2025 at 15:50

What is the first thing you when planning a wedding

Barry, sunday 10-May-26 4 28
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York Registry Office & Restaurant/Reception ideas
Blondie28, 20 March, 2012 at 12:31

Hi All So i've been engaged for over a year now and the sum total of my wedding plans - errrrrrr zilch! ? I've been having a look at various hotel/hall options (neither of us are religious so church...

Sheh, sunday 10-May-26 14 7,795
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Irish Weeding thing? Betting on the Speeches!
JuniperConroy, 24 September, 2008 at 11:28

Hi, At a lot of weddings i've been to guests at the tables bet amongst themselves on the length of the speeches for a laugh. I've won it once or twice and the money always ends up getting recycled...

Willium, saturday 9-May-26 28 1,578
SingleNoMore
Wedding Crepes...!?
SingleNoMore, 2 September, 2012 at 21:35

Who's had em? Ducky I know you have, and it clearly went down well. How much did it cost if you don't mind me asking? We're having our wedding breakfast at 3.30pm so want to provide something later...

AQIB, saturday 9-May-26 24 7,503
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Table plan nightmare!
charley901, 16 April, 2015 at 22:42

Right, I'm having trouble choosing a design for my table plan. My theme has a medieval/fantasy feel to it and I cant think if how to incorporate that into the plan. The tables will be arranged in a...

Benjamin, saturday 9-May-26 1,538
Firefly0410
Little bit of a MIL / Money moan
Firefly0410, 18 November, 2016 at 13:29

Not a question as such, I just need a little moan really to get it off my chest. My Mother-in-law to be visited last weekend. It's the first time we've seen her since our engagement in September. My...

Willium, friday 8-May-26 13 2,553
eescvc
Struggling to find a suitable wedding ring! Please help!
eescvc, 30 July, 2016 at 21:51

I'm getting married to my boyfriend of 6 years by the end of the year, and although we are having a very small wedding (in fact, we're eloping! ) we've started to plan the bits we need to. My fiance...

Emma, friday 8-May-26 6 1,786
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Did you sleep the night before?
pinkstar780, 25 June, 2008 at 16:32

Hi guys, Wedding is less that 3 months away now and things are really starting to move... I am really worried that the night before my wedding I am going to be a nervous reck and not be able to sleep,...

Katarina, friday 8-May-26 6 2,452
Gurzle
Invitation wording question.
Gurzle, 9 December, 2012 at 16:59

Hi all I am just drafting our evening invitations. The bar at our venue closes at midnight and so I have included the line "Carriages at midnight", which I think is fairly standard wording for "Sling...

Amelia, thursday 7-May-26 14 23,603
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Wedding shoes - in love with Harriet Wilde but not the price tag - HELP!
Cat D, 15 February, 2015 at 22:37

Hi all, I was wondering if any of you could help me...I love these shoes (see the link): http://www.harrietwilde.com/collections/all/products/bridgette-silver-rose Thing is, they cost £375 and it's...

Amelia, thursday 7-May-26 11 5,327
xoxoxo2017
Flat shoes for your bridesmaids
xoxoxo2017, 15 July, 2014 at 15:14

So it seems the common thing is to put your BMs (and yourself!) in heeled shoes! My BMs, like me, aren’t really “heel” girls and much prefer our flats. (I can cope with heels until a point though so I...

Caserne1830, thursday 7-May-26 7 2,521
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benjamin adams shoes
so_excited, 5 April, 2008 at 21:34

Just wondered if they come up small or big? and what people think of there shoes by them? thanks?

Willie, thursday 7-May-26 14 1,821
Rosie
Struggling to find a venue in our budget
Rosie, 19 September, 2025 at 00:33

My partner and I recently decided to bring our wedding forward to 2026 (as opposed to a longer engagement) due to some health issues in the family and have an overall budget of £8-10k. We are wanting...

Daran, thursday 7-May-26 7 192
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wedding venues in Hampshire
crofty_bride2b, 15 January, 2017 at 19:06

Hi all im new to the forums, first post! I'm looking forward to many discussions here. Can an anyone recommend or suggest any venues for wedding breakfast and evening do only in Hampshire. I live in...

Petter, thursday 7-May-26 7 1,691
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Arguing about paying for the wedding, feeling lost
HappyIvoryFlowers732, 12 November, 2017 at 21:52

When we initally became engaged we agreed on a rough budget of £15 000 and my fiance said he would cover £10 000 and I'd cover the rest. I agreed with this thinking that I'd have plenty of time (18...

Willium, wednesday 6-May-26 10 3,300 1
Panjita
Uplighters?
Panjita, 24 March, 2011 at 15:05

Has anyone used uplighters to transform their function room? We've had a quote today of £152 to have uplighters all around the room to match our colour scheme. I absolutely love the idea but with us...

Samuelrutherford, wednesday 6-May-26 36 9,107
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Orders of Service - How Many?
WendyQ, 21 October, 2009 at 22:49

Hi everyone, bit of a mad question but how many orders of service should I have printed? One each or one per couple? Not sure what is the norm, someone at church suggested one between 2 but not sure...

David, wednesday 6-May-26 7 7,976
hazyclaire
Music For A Church Wedding
hazyclaire, 6 July, 2012 at 21:05

Hi all We're getting married in a church, and while originally I was thinking of modern music for our wedding now I'm not sure that it will 'go' especially as we will be having hymns. So I'm thinking...

Petter, tuesday 5-May-26 10 5,210
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Don’t love my engagement ring - help!
HappyGoldConfetti18016, 17 November, 2019 at 20:42

Ok so as I write this I know some of you will already think I am ungrateful. I can assure you I’m not and I love my fiancé very much. We got engaged in Italy 3 months ago and it was the most beautiful...

KiIlass, tuesday 5-May-26 20 5,089
Olivia
Can Anyone tell me the name of best wedding venue planner
Olivia, 20 August, 2025 at 07:00

Hey there can anyone tell me the name of best wedding venue planner , I want my best best best wedding

Евген, tuesday 5-May-26 11 142
pinkandteal
No Smoking???
pinkandteal, 17 February, 2014 at 11:48

Hi all, bit controversial I fear, but is there a way I can say 'don't smoke here' without being mean or coming off as too judgemental??? The issue is our venue includes a conservatory and outdoor...

Stephen, tuesday 5-May-26 14 2,036
mooshy
Shortest aisle ever - music
mooshy, 28 February, 2014 at 21:38

I was dreading walking up the aisle, to me it's the stuff nightmares are made of, so I asked my venue if I could have the ceremony around the fireplace in the hall rather than the usual set up of a...

Amber, monday 4-May-26 12 3,518
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Is 2 bottles of wine per table enough????
surfgirl, 23 March, 2010 at 15:12

Hi everyone, i'm just working out what drinks i'll be supplying, this is my plan-sparkling wine on arrival, then a bottle of red and white on each table(and a jug of orange per table)Then sparkling...

Katarina, monday 4-May-26 13 18,542
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Drinks!
Amy, 17 March, 2024 at 13:51

Hey everyone, We are getting married in July 2024, at the receptions we are having cans of beer and pimms! Both myself and my partner really dislike wine so we are trying to think of other options for...

Harry, monday 4-May-26 6 469
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simple barn venue prices in SW, am I normal or just naive?
LauraWin, 16 June, 2013 at 12:20

Hi everyone, I'm newly engaged, and live in Bristol. We moved here a year ago and I don't yet have any really close mates here (close enough for bridesmaid duties anyway), so have little local support...

Emma, monday 4-May-26 32 12,787
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Driving to Italy from uk?
Camilla, 2 August, 2023 at 12:47

We are getting married in Tuscany next May, my partner was planning to drive over so we could fill the car with bits (clothes decor etc). The question is- does anybody know how easy is it to drive in...

Checkermenu, monday 4-May-26 70 446
tayto
Kids Activity Packs
tayto, 9 March, 2013 at 19:24

Need some help/advice please! We will be having some kids at our wedding - age range from 6 months old to 12 yrs. We decided any kids over 12 will get the regular favours of chocolates and the younger...

MUZAMMIL, monday 4-May-26 16 4,557

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