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Arpee
Soft drinks
Arpee, 10 August, 2016 at 22:42

Wedding this weekend, we have gallons of wine, prosecco and beer, but no soft drinks yet. Don't want to buy loads of different things, but what would you suggest? Juice? Coke? Something else?

Leoparker, tuesday 10-Mar-26 8 1,551
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Balloons
ExpensiveBlueConfetti486, 2 February, 2016 at 20:12

Hey, I was just wanting people's advise. I am getting married next year and I am looking to use giant balloons with tassels as my wedding decorations. Has anyone used balloons or seen them at...

Emma, tuesday 10-Mar-26 14 2,723
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What to do with left over fabric? creative ideas needed!
arnold2b, 25 January, 2011 at 21:18

We have ordered mochas fabric to make the cravats with, to match the bridesmaids dresses, but didnt realise the fabric was going to be about 5ft wide so we got quite a bit left over! I dont think it...

Work, monday 9-Mar-26 20 4,906
Elliefunt
Newborn baby and wedding
Elliefunt, 15 June, 2015 at 21:58

Hi...so a couple of months ago DP and I were chatting about our wedding (in ten months time) and said that now would be really bad timing to have a baby. Not sure what made us have that conversation...

Petter, monday 9-Mar-26 10 7,660
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Wedding Cake on a Budget
Eileen, 25 November, 2024 at 08:56

Hi all,I could have sworn I posted about this last night already but I can't find the post. Alas,here we go again: For budget reasons we are considering to get a cake from Waitrose or M&S or maybe...

sahilverma3, monday 9-Mar-26 6 454 1
hopkins78
Red / Black wedding dresses.......HELP!!!!!!!
hopkins78, 9 September, 2011 at 17:51

Calling all brides!! I am MOH for my SIL and she is desperate for a black or deep red wedding dress but we are really struggling to find any! So far we have found (and tried on) Mori Lee 1651 in black...

Eduardollen, monday 9-Mar-26 17 6,559
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Wedding at home
Alexandra, 14 April, 2024 at 12:36

Hello, We are getting married in October. A small reg office ceremony followed by the reception etc in a marquee in our garden. As we’re planning it all ourselves, I’m a little nervous that I’m going...

Exams, monday 9-Mar-26 8 387 1
NikiST
Place name cards.... etiquette?
NikiST, 9 June, 2011 at 11:13

We're only having first names on the place name cards, we're also using people's shortened names, names they are more commonly knows as like "Tony" instead of Antony.. etc. So with that in mind, what...

Oliver, sunday 8-Mar-26 17 23,444
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Is your Vicar/Priest being a nightmare?
Just Imagine Video, 2 September, 2008 at 21:55

This has been a pet peeve of mine for a while now but this year has been particularly bad with regard to church ministers being downright rude and inflexible in a lot of cases marring the day for the...

David, sunday 8-Mar-26 26 5,009
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Public liability and bands
RomanticOrangeDecor30143, 17 November, 2017 at 10:27

Hello, I was wondering if anyone could help. We're just about to book a band for our wedding. The contract for the band says that we are responsible for damage caused by our guests. That seems to be...

Michael, saturday 7-Mar-26 4 1,133 1
Carly
Needing advice on a seemingly one sided vendor contract (photography)
Carly, 14 January, 2024 at 22:55

Hey everyone, I have a pending contract with a venue and the vendors they use (all inclusive), but I'm concerned about a few of the passages under the photography section and am hoping to find out if...

Warner, saturday 7-Mar-26 3 98
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Hen Party Group Chat
Daisy, 13 July, 2024 at 19:19

I'm getting married next May and have been asked by my MoH to create a WhatsApp group chat of all the people I'd like to invite to my hen party, then leave the group chat so that she and the...

Pooja, saturday 7-Mar-26 10 2,420
charlie_rabbit01
Short or long Bridesmaid dresses if my wedding dress is tea-length?
charlie_rabbit01, 19 February, 2015 at 11:32

Hi all I'm planning to wear a tea-length gown for my wedding in white, my bridesmaids will be in cobalt blue but i'm un-decided on whether they should also have short or long dresses. I know I want...

Rose, saturday 7-Mar-26 13 10,596
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Brides assistant
Maria, 31 July, 2023 at 11:34

Good morning everyone. I am looking for a brides assistant to help the bride dress up, etc, for 7/10/23. Would anyone be able to assist with recommendations? Regards Maria

Josephine, saturday 7-Mar-26 5 134
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75 guests all day - worried the wedding will flop!
Chaz, 6 March, 2025 at 03:11

Hi, We get married next month and have been so chilled and also excited about our day. But now it’s creeping up quickly the anxiety is really kicking in for me about the day having a good, fun...

Tannu, saturday 7-Mar-26 7 206 1
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intimate wedding evening entertainment ideas
Mr&MrsJennings, 13 November, 2016 at 00:22

Hi all, We're still in the very early stages of planning and seeking some advice. To keep costs down We've been thinking of holding a small intimate wedding (parents, grandparents, siblings and close...

Leoparker, thursday 5-Mar-26 7 3,239
GeordieBarbie
Civil Ceremony - Order of Service
GeordieBarbie, 14 November, 2009 at 16:15

I was thinking of doing an order of service but can't think what to include. Anyone got any examples for a civil ceremony? Thanks!

Gared, thursday 5-Mar-26 9 51,724
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National wedding show
Lisacarmel, 31 August, 2023 at 14:16

Has anyone been? I am getting married abroad so just want an idea if it’s still worth going to or is all venues, photographers, cakes etc that I can’t use. Is there many bridal accessories available?...

Scott, thursday 5-Mar-26 4 95 1
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I hate weddings
LuxuriousGreenCakes874, 20 July, 2017 at 15:34

Alright, so I have a problem. I hate weddings. I've never enjoyed going to them because of the romance and the public displays of affection, and the dressing up. I don't even like cake. The problem...

Jaylan, thursday 5-Mar-26 9 4,806
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I've had enough :-(
Sarah5790, 21 February, 2014 at 14:22

This is more of a rant but if anyone could offer advise it would be appreciated I am feeling so down right now I'm beginning to wish we'd never planned this wedding I love him more than anything and...

Jaylan, thursday 5-Mar-26 14 2,053
JayneyB
Groom's Attire
JayneyB, 13 July, 2011 at 10:11

Hi Everyone! I just thought I would get an idea on what people think... We are getting married at the very modern looking Lowry Theatre next November at 2.30pm in the afternoon. Now, my H2B would like...

Jaylan, thursday 5-Mar-26 11 3,822
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I think I am in over my head...
RomanticPurpleDiamonds800, 17 April, 2017 at 11:25

So my fiance keeps saying that the song the bride walks down the aisle to is a song from him to bed. I am so confused... Also Who walks the groom and the brides mpother down the aisle?

Christopher, wednesday 4-Mar-26 5 765
pandorasbox
Anybody NOT having readings at their civil ceremony?
pandorasbox, 20 April, 2011 at 17:26

As part of my next research project (thanks for suggestions btw!) I am now looking into readings and vows. OH says he didn't imagine having any readings, he likes the idea of just the registrar...

Fahad, wednesday 4-Mar-26 29 5,984
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Feel like everyone is stealing my thunder....
Brummiebride, 4 January, 2009 at 16:25

I got engaged last year and am getting married later this year, shortly after we announced our enagagement, my H2Bs relative announced that they are also getting married and their wedding is booked a...

Andero, wednesday 4-Mar-26 14 4,006
claire_91
Wedding Breakfast Menus. What are you having?
claire_91, 29 August, 2012 at 14:11

So I am currently sorting out our wedding breakfast. What are you having for your food? We are on quite a tight budget so the choice was fairly limited especially as my fiance has coeliac disease too...

John, tuesday 3-Mar-26 34 4,091
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Do i really need Evening food?!?!
Nikita, 9 January, 2025 at 08:24

I’m a South African getting married in Scotland to my Scottish fiancé and I can’t get my head around evening food?!? We have canapés going out at 2:30pm. Our reception dinner meal and dessert for our...

Mini, tuesday 3-Mar-26 153 2,173
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Help! Wedding cancellation deposit questions
RomanticBrownDecor177, 15 June, 2015 at 22:25

Hi all, i could really use some advice please! I booked and paid for a wedding venue last August to have our ceremony there in June 2016. Our entire correspondence in relation to the booking was via...

Petter, tuesday 3-Mar-26 20 13,363 1
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DISASTER - HELP NEEDED! Registrar cannot make our wedding slot :(
rhyminsimon07, 7 November, 2015 at 12:24

We booked our wedding venue - Smeetham Hall Barn - for May 21st 2016 ages ago BUT never booked a registrar! Crazy rookie mistake to make I know but we have just found out that the local rgistrars...

Willium, tuesday 3-Mar-26 12 1,947
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Need wedding reading ideas from classic children's books! Or even Terry Pratchett- any fans out there?
robynbobbins, 6 February, 2013 at 16:21

Hi everyone, I'm trying to find ideas for readings for my wedding in July. We have not got a fixed theme, but the feel of the day will be vintage inspired- think 40s/50s English feel. Every reading I...

Frederick, tuesday 3-Mar-26 16 30,150
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Entertainment or live artist recommendations please
Jodie, 16 May, 2024 at 11:15

Hi all I plan to marry in clitheroe (Lancashire) next May but no idea on entertainment 😩 I was thinking of a live artist but I cannot find anyone in this location. Any one help?

Kavyaaroradelhi, tuesday 3-Mar-26 8 78
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Knickers.....
MrsB2015, 16 July, 2014 at 22:13

Might be a bit personal but what are u all doing for underwear? I won't be wearing a bra but don't know what to do about knickers. On normal nights out mine put Bridget jones to shame but guessing OH...

Anna, monday 2-Mar-26 21 4,353
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Hen night truth/dare help!
, 25 May, 2009 at 21:20

Hi all, I'm writing a game of truth or dare for a friend's hen night this friday, and I'm all out of ideas for both! If you have any ideas, I'd appreciate it...! Thanks Jo

Voocccie, sunday 1-Mar-26 9 17,952

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