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Kristina
Regretting my made of honour choice
Kristina, 21 August, 2024 at 11:26

Hello everyone , This is a very difficult one . I've only got my maid of honour and 1 bridesmaid. My maid of honour has been a friend to me for 12 years . The problem I have now , we went wedding...

Martin, tuesday 21-Apr-26 7 215
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Hello :-) prettiest registry office (or low cost venue/idea) in the UK
Swizzle, 30 December, 2013 at 08:45

Hi ladies!! im new to the forum and planning our wedding for early this year, the only thing is, is that with Two beautiful young twins the budget is very very tight so I'm trying to think outside My...

Ugbepao, monday 20-Apr-26 7 67,436
Nessa_EssexBride
Who pays for what?? Bridesmaid dress
Nessa_EssexBride, 6 August, 2014 at 14:31

Hi all, Just wanted to know what a few of you are doing, regarding bridesmaid dress. Do you buy the dress for them? OR do you choose the dress and allow them to buy their own dress? My partner and I,...

John, monday 20-Apr-26 21 4,921
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2024 - Year of the Wedding
Zoë, 1 January, 2024 at 10:38

Hello! Finally into 2024 and can say that we are getting married this year! 🥳 Congratulations to all those who are newly engaged and joining us on here. Good luck to all of us still in planning stages...

Leroy, monday 20-Apr-26 6 805 2
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London Taxis
simone12, 2 June, 2014 at 21:45

Hi, I'm new to the forum. I am getting married next year and would love a black taxi as a wedding car. Not sure what model yet but was hoping someone could recommend a company in London providing this...

John, monday 20-Apr-26 15 1,876
Dani
Wedding trends: What’s hot & what’s not 💜 tap to watch!
Dani, 16 April, 2025 at 11:27

*** Want to bag a deal for your big day? Check out exclusive savings in the app 👇

Eaglesky, monday 20-Apr-26 5 105
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Sticking to hessian
Claire, 29 May, 2024 at 10:56

I am trying to stick some stickers to hessian drawstring bags, and they need a little help with their stickiness, as when i pull the drawstring the sticker is kidting. Any idea what the best glue to...

Jerrt, monday 20-Apr-26 5 97
clarehj
French/English wedding
clarehj, 29 August, 2011 at 18:25

Hi everyone I am getting married in a bautiful London venue in April 2012 to my French fiance. We are having a civil wedding as the boy is Catholic and I am Jewish (although both non-practicing)! I...

Babita, monday 20-Apr-26 7 2,492
Miss_EmiB
First Dance Song
Miss_EmiB, 23 January, 2013 at 12:17

Hi Ladies, So me and OH absolutely love this song: Higher Love - Tyler James http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jDOS58Gcsmw I'd like your honest opinions on it. And whether it would make a good first...

sahilverma3, monday 20-Apr-26 8 2,395
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Pregnant Bridesmaid = Maternity Dress?
RomanticPinkConfetti627, 5 November, 2017 at 09:46

Hi guys, just a little question regarding maternity bridesmaid dresses. What is the actual difference? I have looked at a few and they look exactly the same as normal bridesmaid dresses. One of my...

Ramsay, monday 20-Apr-26 2 439
Jodie
Budget friendly entertainment/photo pods - Staffordshire
Jodie, 2 October, 2025 at 10:16

Hi all! I get married in March 2027, in Staffordshire and I’m working on a budget. I was hoping the wedding community could help me out with some recommendations for budget friendly entertainment -...

Lee, sunday 19-Apr-26 9 101 1
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My photographer just cancelled 6 weeks before the wedding!!!
tiltedsanity, 26 August, 2015 at 13:58

So I'm just looking for somewhere to vent really. I booked my photographer 18 months ago, he was one of the first vendors I secured. Then last week he called and made arrangements to meet up in a...

Voocccie, sunday 19-Apr-26 15 2,997
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Flower girl/ Jr bridesmaid dress - Help!
Vicki2015, 6 August, 2015 at 12:59

My wedding is in just under 12 weeks but I still haven't found a dress for my flower girl. She is in 9 years old clothes so more like a junior bridesmaid and she wants a floor/ankle length dress...

Voocccie, sunday 19-Apr-26 7 1,465
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Who pays for the Hen?
Sondy, 6 August, 2015 at 17:00

Hello! I'm pretty clueless over here having never been to anybody's hen do. My friends are located in opposite ends of the country so I'm going to end up having two hen dos - one in the north and one...

Voocccie, sunday 19-Apr-26 13 15,484
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How much are you paying for canapés?
weddingvirgin, 26 May, 2014 at 11:18

Hey everyone, Just wondered how much everyone is paying for canapés? Our venue has quoted us £5.95 per person which is for 2 canapés each plus some crisps and nuts. It's going to set us back about...

Voocccie, sunday 19-Apr-26 22 14,323
xMissyLoux
Evening guests and presents
xMissyLoux, 9 March, 2012 at 08:55

We've got 2 wedding evening receptions to attend this month but have no idea what to get the newly weds! There's no gift list but I also have no idea what is appropriate/acceptable to spend whether on...

Locna, sunday 19-Apr-26 23 28,814
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Wedding websites - a good idea?
Maldives2013, 10 January, 2013 at 15:31

Hi everyone, I have been costing up invitations and they seem to cost loads! As we are having our wedding a distance away from where we (and most people live) to get all the information required, i.e....

Gared, saturday 18-Apr-26 13 2,353
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shoes & bunions
conway13, 28 March, 2015 at 11:26

Morning ladies, I received my wedding shoes today which i love , only problem is that i have a small bunion on my left foot and when i tried the shoes they rubbed against it and which is a bit painful...

Ramsay, saturday 18-Apr-26 5 833
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Photographer has lost our wedding pictures, photographer advice appreciated on options
Countdown, 10 January, 2015 at 22:25

Hi, Just looking for some advice please, I know there are some professional photographers on this site and was hoping for some opinions from them or anyone who has experienced similar. Sadly, our...

Gared, saturday 18-Apr-26 22 7,605
leni
Experiences of rain on your wedding day...
leni, 30 November, 2009 at 15:36

The wedding day is fast approaching (this saturday) and the forecast is very changable between no rain and lots of rain! So to prepare myself - what do I do if it rains? I'm gonna buy a couple of huge...

Gared, saturday 18-Apr-26 14 4,482
Olivia
Wedding theme ideas for Winter
Olivia, 10 December, 2025 at 11:02

I want embrace the season’s magic with cozy, elegant winter weddings so give me some ideas.

Wollda, saturday 18-Apr-26 1 29
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Fish & Chip Wedding...
, 9 August, 2012 at 11:40

Hi, Our first choice venue has fell through So now trying to find a second choice, we have found somewhere else which would be perfect but they are limited on the hot food they can serve. They are a...

Steve, friday 17-Apr-26 9 6,042
Lacey
Purple wedding dress
Lacey, 24 December, 2025 at 11:01

Hiya all, could anyone advise me where to look for a purple wedding dress please and possibly a good food catering that does roast dinner style food. Thank you

Wollda, friday 17-Apr-26 1 10
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Engaged, but parents don't even know about her (long, lgbt)
sunshine_bunny, 5 April, 2017 at 11:57

Hi everyone, I very recently got engaged, and I didn't realise two things: 1) just how happy it'd make me, and how keen I am to plan a wedding..I thought I wouldn't care too much about weddings and...

Sophie, friday 17-Apr-26 6 1,659
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Aisle music prices
Larissa, 8 November, 2025 at 13:31

Hi everyone, How much are people paying for aisle music? We need a violinist and a pianist and I have been quoted £800 for just one hour of the ceremony? Is that standard? I would ideally like them to...

Wollda, friday 17-Apr-26 1 16
HappyPinkHair15172
Annoyed with the Registrars
HappyPinkHair15172, 10 May, 2020 at 17:36

Hi All Just wondered if anyone else was being told to stump up more cash by their Registrars? I've been waiting for weeks for the Liverpool Registrars to get back to me about postponing and...

Arham, friday 17-Apr-26 23 3,113
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Alternatives to humanist ceremony?
ThirteenTenSeventeen, 4 September, 2015 at 06:59

Our wedding planning started off fun and exciting. Then it got stressful. It's now fun and exciting again! We've been struggling to find venues that can accommodate a Friday reception, so we've given...

Arham, friday 17-Apr-26 13 3,726
CountDuckula
First dance songs
CountDuckula, 12 May, 2009 at 14:00

I don't think has been done for a while. And if it has, then just indulge me! We're trying to decide and have got it down to a shortlist of: Take That - Rule the World (it might be too cheesy for us...

Arham, friday 17-Apr-26 21 1,363
squirrel
Aspiring florist offering free flower arrangements
squirrel, 12 November, 2025 at 16:00

Hi everyone! I’m an aspiring florist currently in training and looking to gain more hands-on experience and build my portfolio. I’m offering free flower arrangements. You only need to cover the cost...

Wollda, thursday 16-Apr-26 1 28
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Walking down the aisle - bride or bridesmaids first?
donkey86, 18 August, 2016 at 21:42

Will you be walking down the aisle ahead of your bridesmaids, or behind? I've heard that having the bridesmaids go first is the American way, and having them come after the bride is more traditionally...

Mihailo, thursday 16-Apr-26 29 9,182
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Wedding theme colour
AMILEA, 11 August, 2024 at 03:28

I am struggling to find the best wedding theme colours to go with my partners kilt. Which is the Stewart black Morden Jura. I’ll put a picture in of the kilt. But I was really wanting my bridesmaids...

Jeffery, thursday 16-Apr-26 1 73 1
StaffsLass
Wedding Competitions?
StaffsLass, 12 May, 2014 at 16:53

Hi everyone, Does anyone know the best way to find wedding competitions, specially for photography and dresses? And any tips on entering to win? We have a lot sorted now for our wedding, but we have a...

Bhatti, thursday 16-Apr-26 16 4,605 1

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