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mum-wants-a-hat
Cobalt, Tungsten and Titanium rings ?
mum-wants-a-hat, 18 April, 2013 at 00:26

Hi all. OH is still struggling to make a decision on style and material for his ring. He originally thought about white gold like mine and certainly wants a silver tone metal but having read up on...

Voocccie, sunday 1-Mar-26 16 8,871
bluewater
does your wedding clash with any other big event?
bluewater, 17 June, 2009 at 11:35

I've just found out that my h2b's beloved celtic have selfishly decided to schedule a friendly match on the date of our wedding. it's not that big a deal at all though - i expect the match will be at...

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Name Places...Full name or first name only???
, 7 July, 2011 at 08:05

Hey ladies I tried to search on previous threads for this but Hitched doesn't seem to want to let me today!! I was just wondering what everyone is doing with regards to name places. Are you using...

Oliver, saturday 28-Feb-26 17 20,519
*sweetpea*
Light in the Box - lesson learnt!
*sweetpea*, 18 January, 2012 at 21:38

Well I ordered my bridal shoes online from Light in the Box simply because I couldn't find what I wanted on the high street. I got the UPS delivery note through the door today with a 'Collect on...

Shahzaib, saturday 28-Feb-26 39 13,215
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Transport North East
Rachel, 9 February, 2026 at 21:44

Does anyone have any reputable car companies they are using?

Paint, saturday 28-Feb-26 3 25
Dani
Tune in for the hottest 2025 Wedding Trends! 🎬
Dani, 8 November, 2024 at 12:46

From chic mini dresses to heart-shaped cakes! See what trends are set to take over 2025 with our Editor Zoë and Assistant Editor Maisie 👇 ***Subscribe to our YouTube channel to keep up with all the...

Anime, saturday 28-Feb-26 3 252
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Finding that wedding planning is testing our relationship
Rahman, 31 October, 2022 at 12:05

Did anyone else experience this towards the big day? We are getting married on jan 1st and my H2B has always been a do it at the last minute kinda guy and it’s driving me CRAZY. When it comes to...

CarmenCHunt, saturday 28-Feb-26 4 204
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Order of the day
Mrsmooretobe, 28 April, 2015 at 14:27

Hi ladies, With 11 days to go my mum has decided we should have OOTD for our ceremony! So my question is, what did those of you who had/are having one include in it? Did you go funny or serious? And...

Babita, saturday 28-Feb-26 7 2,059
HayleyMay
Gift list wording help please...!!
HayleyMay, 24 April, 2012 at 20:40

Hi, Firstly I just want to say this is not intended as a post debating whether or not gift lists are cheeky ? I'd just like some help trying to word what we may include in our day invitations. OH and...

Riki22, saturday 28-Feb-26 17 16,851
Puddycat
SAE + Stamp RSVP's
Puddycat, 22 June, 2012 at 21:31

Ladies, I was just wondering how many people have enclosed SAE with a stamp on for your RSVP's. Is it worth it or not?

Riki22, saturday 28-Feb-26 9 1,435
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Can you honeymoon straight after the wedding with your old passport?
morristobe, 10 January, 2013 at 08:51

Sorry ladies, this has probably been asked so many times. I am getting married on a Saturday and going abroad on my honeymoon on the Monday, is this still ok as it will be my maiden name? And am I...

Leoparker, friday 27-Feb-26 8 5,227
Danniellax
5 years too early?
Danniellax, 29 October, 2015 at 01:04

I am newly engaged, and we've set our wedding date for 24-10-2020 ...Because we've set the date so far in advance when do I want to begin actually planning and booking? I want to be excited and start...

Riki22, friday 27-Feb-26 10 4,377
MissReedNoMore
Please be encouraging about my choice of music to walk down the aisle to!
MissReedNoMore, 18 May, 2012 at 16:45

Hello, I am fairly new here and I get married on 9th June, this year (yes, that's this year!!). We got engaged on 9th June 2010 so set our date for 9th June 2012 to commemorate the day, so we've had...

Nik, friday 27-Feb-26 24 4,362
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Parents not met future in laws
Sarah, 31 August, 2022 at 10:35

Is anyone in the situation where the first time your parents will meet your future in laws will be AT your wedding? My dad is volatile character, i try to keep him at arms length and only visit him...

Fikak, friday 27-Feb-26 13 556
BridalButterfly2012
Venue final payment
BridalButterfly2012, 14 January, 2012 at 20:38

Hi all Just a quick post to see if i am worrying over nothing. We have been told we have to pay the rest of our outstanding bill by the end of February For our wedding at the end of June. Does this...

Adam, thursday 26-Feb-26 34 8,762
Jay
Has anyone used the Franke A1000 coffee machine?
Jay, 19 November, 2024 at 07:29

Has anyone used the Franke A1000 coffee machine? Thoughts on performance and reliability?

Sheetal, thursday 26-Feb-26 8 77
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Pale Bridesmaids!
anna89, 7 April, 2012 at 21:52

Hi, I'm have a medium/tanned skin tone, but both of my bridesmaids are very pale - what colour dress would you recommend? Thinking of either navy or a pale green colour - not a huge fan of...

Riki22, thursday 26-Feb-26 25 7,586
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Should we provide a meal for photographer/wedding day planner?
MrsPtoB, 10 May, 2017 at 19:11

Just wondering if we should be providing a meal for the photographer and the wedding planner who will be with us on the day to make sure everything runs smoothly? I would think yes but I don't...

Riki22, thursday 26-Feb-26 16 4,072
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Friend issues and dress shopping
Sarah, 15 October, 2023 at 18:02

Hi all, So we are planning on eloping abroad and taking two friends with us, but now I am having second thoughts on my best friend who I've known for about 15 years. When I announced getting engaged...

Mr David, wednesday 25-Feb-26 9 247
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When are you supposed to open wedding presents?
clarabella1972, 16 March, 2012 at 10:54

I've started getting wedding presents sent through the post. Am I supposed to open them now or on the day?

Petter, wednesday 25-Feb-26 10 4,282
Meghan
Budget wedding
Meghan, 11 December, 2025 at 22:21

Hello! I'm planning my day on a tight budget and am wondering if others have done this before (ofc they have), but for those who have, what would you say is the priority to put your money into. My...

Calculadora, tuesday 24-Feb-26 16 459 1
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Derbyshire: any beautiful outdoor wedding land for hire?
hayglopainting, 31 March, 2010 at 08:39

Hi there! I'm new to this forum - but was hoping someone could help us!! Am looking for the perfect OUTDOOR wedding venue - we're not religious - and getting married inside a hall somewhere is not me....

Riki22, tuesday 24-Feb-26 8 17,433
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How many is too many on a top table?
cw2b, 30 April, 2014 at 20:46

All our RSVPs are now in so we have the joy of deciding the seating plan... We did a rough plan a while back and originally had 8 on the top table (myself, OH, my mum, my dad, 1 adult bridesmaid (my...

Riki22, tuesday 24-Feb-26 17 9,543
DrBuffles
Quizzes on tables at wedding breakfast
DrBuffles, 5 February, 2014 at 11:00

I went to a wedding in the summer and they had put little boxes of cards with an 80's music quiz in them on the tables. It was a great way of breaking the ice between people who didn't previously know...

James, tuesday 24-Feb-26 14 6,321
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Late wedding with evening only reception
wiltshire flowers, 12 September, 2012 at 07:40

Hi I am looking for some advice. My daughter was going to get married in September next year but after falling pregnant with their second child it was decided that for financial reasons it would...

Riki22, tuesday 24-Feb-26 15 16,622
emabee
Occupation on wedding certificate........
emabee, 16 May, 2014 at 10:44

So we gave notice of marriage at our local register office a few weeks ago and yesterday I picked up the certificate to go to the registrar. It might sound a silly little thing but they've put my job...

Jonathan, tuesday 24-Feb-26 16 20,835
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dj Recommendations in Yorkshire
Nicole, 25 January, 2026 at 21:28

Looking for a DJ that can facilitate my dance/house music with my fiance's indie music. Weddings Dec 2027 North Yorkshire. Many Thanks!!

David, tuesday 24-Feb-26 5 52
AdSco702
Inviting colleagues - evening reception
AdSco702, 26 February, 2016 at 09:33

Hi all Hope you're well and your wedding plans are coming along nicely. I just have a question about inviting colleagues to the evening. I have 9 colleagues 2 of which I would say I am closer with and...

Robert, tuesday 24-Feb-26 10 2,999
The Sock Chicken
Advice needed - Wedding Insurance/Redundancy - UPDATED
The Sock Chicken, 5 January, 2009 at 17:57

I know every insurance is different but does anyone know how much is generally covered if the wedding is cancelled due to being made redundant? H2B saw some very good friends lose their jobs today in...

Rabi, monday 23-Feb-26 20 5,017
May2be
Thank you gifts for suppliers....yes or no?
May2be, 6 July, 2011 at 13:25

What is etiquette when it comes to thank yous for suppliers particularly those that are present on the day such as venue coordinators, caterers, photgrapher, dj etc. Is it the norm the provide gifts...

Rabi, monday 23-Feb-26 16 12,088
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Wedding venue
Jamie, 20 February, 2024 at 13:29

Hi all, We’re looking for a wedding venue with accommodation. A nice house with a marquee? Bridal group stay the night before, wedding guests can stay the night and we stay the last night. We want to...

Ryan, monday 23-Feb-26 7 137
katiechops
Old, New, Borrowed and Blue..... who organises this though......?
katiechops, 10 July, 2012 at 17:24

This may be a stupid question but is it the Brides job to find these things or do other people tend to 'borrow' and 'give' you things'? Whats the norm? x

Rabi, monday 23-Feb-26 5 1,637

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