Discussions from Planning

Hi everyone! We were going to use our venues bar staff as they hire them out if needed. We met them recently at a wedding fayre and we were not keen. Not to sound disrespectful. Has anyone hired bar...

Hi thinking of booking a photographer called antony Broughton, http://antbphotography.co.uk/about.html. has any1 used him before or heard of him?? Hes based in derbyshire but travels anywhere? just...

Okay, so I feel like I am probably stressing for no reason but I've got 30 days to go and feel like I've missed something. Got the dress, shoes, Grooms suite and shoes, Bridesmaids dress and shoes all...

Hi, I'm wanting to get a personalised card for my parents on my wedding day but I'd like it with a nice poem though I'm struggling to find one that's just right. Does anyone have any poems they've...

Hi, I am looking at getting married at york registry office with close family and friends. We know this would be perfect for us as we love york and it has a special place in our hearts! We live a few...

Hi all, we are getting married at The Orangery, Maidstone in July 2024. However, the grooms Dad has just been diagnosed with stage 3-4 cancer and told he has a maximum of 1 year 😭 so we are now...

Are RSVP cards really worth the money spending? Do guest actually respond to them ? Or is it a risk you have to take?

Anybody one year to go?!!! What else do you still have to do? I’ve had a proper look at our “to do” list and we have…… Legal stuffBridesmaid dresses (November)Groom and best men suits (Feb/Mar) One...

Hello everyone So we've just got engaged and are looking at venues . We'd like a twilight package (late ceremony straight into the reception) can anyone recommend anywhere?

Hi all! Not a regular hitcher here - am usually found on Babytalk. It's my sister's hen party this weekend and as chief BM I guess I am responsible for the event. I was looking for some not too riske...

How do you decide on a photographer/videographer? I have no idea on this profession, but I want to invest in this aspect of our wedding. It is important for us to find someone who has done a lot of...

Has any one done a full 180 and gone from planning their big dream wedding to realise that it's causing too much stress and costs keep rising, to then doing a much smaller intimate wedding

Hello I'm getting married early next year. I was hoping to have my hen abroad and bring my 2 groups of friends together. I've been on all of my friends hens. Now my sister (MoH) is saying she doesn't...

Struggling to decide if to wear glasses or not. I do not like wearing glasses for photos but need them to see distance which includes something as close as TV. Tried contact lenses and it did not go...

Hi! I’m looking at booking our photographer for next year and I’m baffled at the price difference between some. So I have quotes for as low as £800 for the day and as high as £2500 for the day. Both...

Hi All, I'm a Aug 2024 bride to be, and honestly already I've had enough of all things HEN already!!! I created my hen chat in May/June, invited everyone told them my ideas and decided i wanted to go...

Good afternoon. Where is the best place to look for a Korean tutor in Cardiff? Can you give me some advice on finding good tutors?

When adding guests I have included if they are ceremony and evening or just evening. Now I am sorting out the website how do I ensure evening guests only see the evening information? I have tried to...

Good morning everyone. I am looking for a brides assistant to help the bride dress up, etc, for 7/10/23. Would anyone be able to assist with recommendations? Regards Maria

Hi all, I’m Jamaican but have lived in the UK since I was young and my lovely fiancé is Polish. I’ve met his immediate family who are all lovely and we went to Poland earlier this year for his...

Just wondering if any of you who have already got married had had a decorated moongate which you have moved, ie, had to be moved after being set up outside for a ceremony and then moved inside because...

We Just found out that my fiancés ex wife is getting married the same year…month…a few days apart and at the same venue!!! Coincidence or not hmm??! Thoughts please!!

Hi! Not sure if anyone is able to help, but I’m struggling to find a venue for a post elopement party. Me and my fiancé have been engaged for almost 7 years, and in that time we’ve struggled to agree...

Hello I’ve done and sent out the link for my day time wedding invites but how do I now send the evening invites out without adjusting the site for the day guests to still look at and so the evening...

I'm a musician that plays in a group and gets booking for parties and weddings. It would seem odd to hire another band to play at the reception but I'm getting mixed reactions when I suggest that I...

Hi i could do with some advice. I found out yesterday through Facebook (sometimes I hate Facebook!) that my future husband's ex has just got married at our wedding venue. For a bit of background this...

Hi All, So the night before I was planning of hiring a lodge. It sleeps a fair amount of people so would be able to accommodate myself, all my bridesmaids (one of which is my H2B sister), MOB and MOG....

My venue and the registrar is now provisionally booked and I'm now on the search for insurance. I'm not too sure about our wedding gifts yet but I'm pretty sure it will be some kind of monetary...

Help! My H2B and I have a dilemma with our guest list. Would it be really bad form to say to the best man that he can't have a plus one? He isn't currently seeing anyone and we were thinking that if...

Hi, we have recently got engaged and planning on getting married just before Christmas. We are doing a small wedding 20-25 people, but struggling to find a venue. I am looking for a space that we can...