Skip to main content

Planning

Join Group

Get wedding planning help, advice and ideas from fellow forum members. Ask your planning questions and share tips about everything from staying on top of your budget to what's next on your wedding planning checklist.

37,981
members

Discussions

Order by:
Last comment
  • Messages
  • Visits
  • Last comment
  • Date
  • Unanswered
Shree
Wedding Planner
Shree, 4 August, 2023 at 13:58

Wedding Planner: Sometimes called a "director," "coordinator," or-as a bit archaic-"bridal consultant," wedding planners are basically professionals who organize, oversee, and orchestrate a wedding or...

Tannu, thursday 19-Mar-26 2 80
Jazmyn
2026 Wedding
Jazmyn, 15 May, 2024 at 15:25

Hi All, we booked our wedding venue for October 2026 and I am so super excited to start planning. Is it too soon to start booking our suppliers? We have our DJ and currently on the search for a...

Haily5, thursday 19-Mar-26 18 1,577 2
T
Evening guest- what is the norm?
Teal, 14 February, 2014 at 23:23

I have been invited as an evening guest to a work colleagues wedding. I grew up abroad, so had never heard of an evening guest prior to moving to the UK, nor ever been invited as one before. Can...

Riki22, wednesday 18-Mar-26 11 6,611
Helen
Artificial flowers
Helen, 23 May, 2025 at 15:47

Hi Brides, I'm having a 3 day wedding in July next year and I'm looking for some fabulous artificial flowers that will last the duration of the wedding. Could anyone please recommend any companies...

Marvin, wednesday 18-Mar-26 7 83
L
Pregnant bridesmaid
louisebride, 7 July, 2012 at 18:56

Hi all, I am sure this is quite a common thing, but one of my bridesmaids recently told me she is pregnant. She'll be about 4 1/2 months at the wedding. I have 4 girls and they were originally going...

Carson, tuesday 17-Mar-26 19 3,159
alyj66
Modesty panel...update.
alyj66, 8 May, 2014 at 19:34

I had my dress converted from zip to lace up. I prefer the back but wasn't happy with having no modesty panel as it's a bit gaping and it's been niggling away at me. I had a revelation today regarding...

Locna, tuesday 17-Mar-26 19 3,921
curvygirl77
Florist - when should you book
curvygirl77, 1 August, 2012 at 13:50

Hello fellow hitchers Just some advice needed on when you should book your florist? I am getting married 14th September 2013 so was wondering how early you should book? I am being told to chill out by...

Riki22, tuesday 17-Mar-26 10 9,458
Tina
My wedding
Tina, 19 February, 2026 at 17:11

Im not sure where to start

Hector, tuesday 17-Mar-26 10 114 1
R
Wedding dress payments
RomanticGingerDesire, 2 November, 2015 at 11:52

Hey guys so getting ready to go dress shopping do you pay for the full balance on the dress or do you just pay deposit?

Locna, monday 16-Mar-26 20 2,698
Emmer80
Dress alterations - zip to lace up?
Emmer80, 1 July, 2012 at 13:10

Hi I have ordered my dress and i know it will need altering due to me being only 5ft tall The only thing I was disappointed about with the dress was that it was a zip up not lace up. People I have...

Jennifer, monday 16-Mar-26 5 7,959
M
Alcohol - volume purchases
Mr_P, 14 February, 2017 at 16:01

Hello everyone Hope you've all had a great Valentines Day Quick question - when volume buying alcohol, is it as cheap these days to get from the supermarket or is Europe still the best option? We're...

Locna, monday 16-Mar-26 12 10,224 1
M
Band AND DJ- timings advice?
marie169, 9 January, 2016 at 17:52

Hi everyone, just wondered if anyone else is having a band and a DJ at the evening reception, and if so, how are you fitting it all in?! We are getting married abroad so just having a party when we...

Tbsua, monday 16-Mar-26 10 8,372
warlycarly
Pre wedding interview???
warlycarly, 19 October, 2011 at 10:58

Hello, I was looking on the site where I will be booking my wedding car from and it says "Registrars request a pre-interview before the ceremony of at least 10 minutes to see each parties. DON'T BE...

Gared, monday 16-Mar-26 19 39,306
T
Photobooth or Flower wall for guests
Tanya, 11 February, 2025 at 16:49

Hey everyone! I could really use your thoughts on something for my wedding. So, I originally booked a photobooth for fun group shots with all the quirky hats and props. But then I thought – I have...

John, sunday 15-Mar-26 9 135
A
Do we need 2 photographers?
Anna, 23 January, 2026 at 13:00

We are at the stage of wedding prep where we are talking to photographers. We really liked one but felt there was some pressure to add a second photographer. Our budget allows for 1 photographer &...

M. Umair, sunday 15-Mar-26 11 138
Little Madam
Flower superstitions: Red and white flowers
Little Madam, 7 October, 2010 at 13:21

I've just been told by one of the guys in the office that having only red and white flowers in a display etc is a sign of bad luck and superstitious older people associate it with an imminent (sp)...

Viktor, saturday 14-Mar-26 12 40,692
o0o_Charlie_o0o
Periods question.....
o0o_Charlie_o0o, 21 March, 2016 at 08:57

So my wedding isn't for 4.5 months yet but I'm really worried that just my luck I'll be due on my period or having my period for the wedding day and I just wondered if there is anything you can take...

Stephen, saturday 14-Mar-26 15 3,219
gingeremmie
How can I be sure my wedding isn't going to be naff?
gingeremmie, 28 February, 2016 at 15:56

We only have a limited budget, I guess I'm starting to feel the fear now. We have 2 pre-school children so v expensive childcare, so we don't have lots of spare cash to save for the wedding. It's less...

Petter, saturday 14-Mar-26 6 1,861
W
Budget-friendly Wedding Transport – Any Advice?
Wendy, 11 February, 2025 at 09:43

Hi everyone, I’m getting married this August and need some advice on how to get myself and the bridal party from our hotel to the ceremony venue. It’s only a 15-minute drive in outer London and...

Jon, friday 13-Mar-26 5 48
Aurora Borealis
A silly question about ceremony seating
Aurora Borealis, 25 May, 2013 at 13:22

I am trying to work out which seats I need to leave free in the ceremony room for the bridesmaids and my Dad. But I'm not sure who needs to sit in the front row. I am having a civil ceremony and there...

Christopher, friday 13-Mar-26 9 30,103
K
Time Filler ideas needed!
kezzburton, 6 September, 2010 at 12:41

Hi girls, I need some advice. My ceremony is at 11am and my afternoon sit down will be at approx 1:30-2pm at a separate venue. We will be having photos taken then travel time to the reception venue,...

Gared, friday 13-Mar-26 10 7,585
W
Bridesmaid is pregnant!
Wifeysoontobe, 18 November, 2010 at 21:55

Hey All, So I get told some fantastic news today, my best friend is 8 weeks pregnant! I'm soooo happy for her, but It took me a while to realise... she's my bridesmaid for my wedding next July which...

Gared, friday 13-Mar-26 20 6,032
emabee
Sweetie table alternative?
emabee, 12 April, 2014 at 13:16

Hi! I really want to have something for my guests in the evening and was set on having a vintage ice cream tricycle which is Β£420. My Fiance thinks its a waste of money and so does my friend and that...

Gared, friday 13-Mar-26 33 6,880
G
Wedding Breakfast - Choice of meal?
GeorgieBea89, 9 July, 2017 at 10:37

Hey all, Just looking for some reassurance more than anything. Our caterers don't offer a choice of meal as standard (they will cater for vegetarians or dietary restrictions but we can't offer a...

Mike, thursday 12-Mar-26 17 7,225
sweetlikechocolate
Photo frames - bulk
sweetlikechocolate, 6 November, 2015 at 18:49

Any of you lovely hitched lot have any idea where I can get a job lot of pretty ornate looking photo frames? I need around 30. I have seen some lovely ones on ebay but they are between 5 and 10 each....

David, thursday 12-Mar-26 10 1,055
B
Boudoir photoshoot
Bridally, 19 May, 2015 at 15:45

Has anyone done (or thinking of doing) a boudoir photoshoot? I'd like to do one for a gift for my H2B but the prices seem extortionate if you want more than one or two images. Help!!

John, thursday 12-Mar-26 13 1,899
Rachael
Tired of peoples opinions
Rachael, 12 July, 2023 at 10:30

Hi everyone! We have 5 month to go until our big day, we’ve waited over 2 years for this and I’ve loved the whole planning part and the build up. Recently though I’ve started feeling a little...

Pretty, thursday 12-Mar-26 13 783
K
Formal giving away
Kayleymo, 30 May, 2014 at 13:42

I'm having a civil ceremony and in a form I have to complete it's asking if we are having a formal giving away....what is this?

Riki22, thursday 12-Mar-26 8 12,914
B
Wedding website private pages - help please!
Beth, 10 July, 2023 at 16:17

Hi, I am trying to create a page on my website which is password protected for some guests who are staying with us at the venue. I click on private but it doesn’t ask me to put in a password and the...

Leoparker, wednesday 11-Mar-26 9 932
J
Wedding music for walking in and out
Julie48, 28 January, 2016 at 10:33

Hi Girls I would love to have the following: Ed Sheeran - Thinking out loud Take That - either Rule the World or Greatest Day Not sure which way round to have them as yet but what do you think? (our...

Stephen, wednesday 11-Mar-26 11 3,861
Dani
Celebrating 10 years of same sex marriage in the UK πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ
Dani, 29 March, 2024 at 17:00

Hey Besties, Today we celebrate 10 years of same sex marriage in the UK! πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Check out our article here πŸ‘‡ We spoke to the first same sex couples to legally wed in the UK (Above) Andrew and Neil got...

MOV, wednesday 11-Mar-26 5 96
C
Twilight weddings
Chloe, 30 December, 2025 at 01:50

Hey, Just wanted some ideas of what’s best hoping to have a twilight wedding around Lancashire with about 60-70 guests in total and keeping cost low around Β£7000

Geo, wednesday 11-Mar-26 3 24

General groups

Hitched article topics