Skip to main content

Planning

Join Group

Get wedding planning help, advice and ideas from fellow forum members. Ask your planning questions and share tips about everything from staying on top of your budget to what's next on your wedding planning checklist.

37,332
members

Discussions

Order by:
Last comment
  • Messages
  • Visits
  • Last comment
  • Date
  • Unanswered
BriertonBride
Ahhhhhhh I can't decide on a venue!!
BriertonBride, 6 April, 2015 at 22:38

Hi guys, So I got engaged in March and have looked at 10 different venues so far and still haven't found 'The One'!! My fiancé and I are hoping to get married in July 2016 and places are already...

Andero, monday 9-Feb-26 11 5,957
K
To entourage or not to entourage?
Kristine, 17 June, 2025 at 14:56

Is it a “must” to have bridesmaids and entourage? And who pays for it? Is it solely the bride?

Dinar, sunday 8-Feb-26 5 58
S
VAT on Wedding Bookings
slbarber, 23 July, 2013 at 20:36

Hello, I have recently been told by my wedding venue that due to a test case brought by HMRC against a wedding venue, they have been advised by their tax advisors that VAT is chargeabale on all...

George, sunday 8-Feb-26 14 7,859
I
how many wedding cars are you having?
Irisbride, 12 September, 2012 at 14:44

The thread about mother of groom transport has got me thinking- and worried! How many wedding cars are you having? does the groom normally travel to the church/ceremony venue in a wedding car? I...

Andero, friday 6-Feb-26 23 6,022
E
Wedding finale-alternative to fireworks
emmajupp, 26 August, 2008 at 13:12

Hi! I'm desperately trying to find an alternative to fireworks & sky lanterns for the end of our wedding, as the venue does not allow them. I'm not keen on the laser shows, so I'm now a bit...

Electric, thursday 5-Feb-26 6 7,523
S
moh planning to be pregnant and due around my wedding 2 years away
Siobhan, 13 January, 2024 at 20:14

I am bridesmaid for my cousin this summer and she will be my MOH for my wedding in September 2025 (almost 2 years away). We have just set a date and when I told her, she said she would be planning on...

Jass, thursday 5-Feb-26 4 122
GiraffeBride
Ceremony but no reception?
GiraffeBride, 7 January, 2016 at 01:43

Hello all! This may sound unusual, but please bear with me while I explain my reasonings. I really want to hear all opinions on this though, although I suspect they may not be what I want to hear...

Andero, thursday 5-Feb-26 21 34,968
B
Which side does the bride walk on when she walks donw the aisle
bride020808, 7 July, 2008 at 09:48

This has been driving me mad all weekend had a rehersal at the chuch on saturday no priest was there just something we done ourselves but were not sure on which side i should walk can you please help!...

Babita, thursday 5-Feb-26 6 18,470
F
How are you timing your morning?
FutureMrsBrown, 9 May, 2011 at 12:57

Hey all I'm getting myself in a right tiz at the minute so thought I'd ask a bit of advice. I realise this is a tiny thing and I still have 13 weeks till the wedding but I'm wanting to book my salon...

Charles, wednesday 4-Feb-26 16 3,175
Nina
Wedding Invites Help
Nina, 6 December, 2025 at 14:49

Hi All Brides, I am due to get married in April 2026 and im at the stage of sending wedding invitations out is there anywhere you could recommend for invites/menu etc that is not overly expensive kind...

Babita, wednesday 4-Feb-26 19 349
whitewine33
Not allowed candles at the venue :(
whitewine33, 18 January, 2014 at 22:03

We have booked a village hall and on a recent visit when we were discussing what we will be having on the tables ect she mentioned we couldnt have any candles because of the fire risk! I think candle...

Morgan, tuesday 3-Feb-26 25 6,614
Gina
Lighting idea
Gina, 21 December, 2023 at 17:04

Hi all, Iv bought some led lights (the ones you use for bottles) but I’m stuck of what to do with them…. My Center piece is an led rose battery powered light with candles (battery operated) and a bud...

Morgan, tuesday 3-Feb-26 2 47
F
Fairy lights
FutureMrsMarshall, 28 January, 2016 at 15:13

Calling all diy brides... I have a barn venue with some nice outside space, a courtyard and a garden, which I want to decorate with fairy lights. Can I do this myself or would it be best to hire a...

Morgan, tuesday 3-Feb-26 11 2,691
Nicole
Summer colour scheme ideas
Nicole, 3 February, 2026 at 21:40

Can anyone suggest some summer colour schemes? (all photos welcome)

Nicole, tuesday 3-Feb-26 7
WeSayIDo2026
String Trio/quartet
WeSayIDo2026, 3 February, 2026 at 14:39

How much should we be paying for a string trio or quartet for 2.5 to 3 hours?

WeSayIDo2026, tuesday 3-Feb-26 7
LuxuriousIvoryCars856
Gap filler
LuxuriousIvoryCars856, 15 March, 2020 at 08:36

Does anyone have ideas to fill a 2 hour gap in out day between the wedding breakfast and when the evening guests arrive. We have a dj, cassino tables and photo booth but not until 730 and the...

Viktor, tuesday 3-Feb-26 2 436
L
Wedding dress cleaning advice
Laurensmum, 30 August, 2016 at 23:09

Guys advice please! I got married on Saturday and apart from the dirty hem etc, my dress is in pretty good nick, bar one stain. It appears to be a yellow curry colour so can only assume it's the sauce...

Alex, tuesday 3-Feb-26 5 1,166
MischiefMumma
Evening guests / catering for the evening buffet.
MischiefMumma, 2 April, 2014 at 17:03

Hello ladies, Just a quick one. I've seen on a few posts this afternoon about only catering for 75% of the guests for the evening buffet. I'm gussing this is because we assume that not everyone is...

CarmenCHunt, tuesday 3-Feb-26 5 2,863
B
Hate chair covers - alternatives?!!
, 13 May, 2013 at 17:22

So, I was never a fan of the bright white/lyrca chair covers and sahes etc, but I don't particularly like the chairs at my venue, they are very old and a bit tatty. So what is the alternative?! I have...

PHG, monday 2-Feb-26 9 9,223
gizmobear
Church Flowers
gizmobear, 20 January, 2013 at 22:09

Hi!! In September we are having a church wedding. I originally thought I wouldnt need any Church flowers as it is such a pretty place any way, I thought that was one area we could cut costs and not...

Babita, monday 2-Feb-26 8 2,821
Chloe
2028 bride
Chloe, 9 June, 2025 at 15:53

Extremely excited and eager bride to be! We are getting married May 2028 and just wondering if anyone else who is 2028 bride has started planning yet? Where are you starting?

Raul, monday 2-Feb-26 19 774 1
Chidders
Advise on cleaning my tiara please.
Chidders, 30 October, 2011 at 12:41

As the subject says really. Does anyone know the best way to clean one? I don't want to damage it.

Morgan, sunday 1-Feb-26 5 2,900
gingeremmie
Help with timing - 1.30pm ceremony, Timing of food?
gingeremmie, 2 June, 2015 at 13:56

So the ceremony is at 1.30pm at the register office, I understand they've very quick, so I imagine it'll all be done by 2 or 2.15 at the latest. Then it'll be a case of everyone getting themselves to...

Kerstin, saturday 31-Jan-26 10 4,076
Kristina
Wedding invitations
Kristina, 2 February, 2024 at 17:32

Good evening everyone I noticed a lot of people are doing online invites etc . But I find it so confusing! And i think I am a bit old school ! Paper invites still a thing or online is the way forward...

Tom, friday 30-Jan-26 11 777
*Mini*
Can you have 9ct and 18ct gold together?
*Mini*, 10 March, 2011 at 10:40

I have found a WR that I really like but its 9ct gold as opposed to me 18ct ER, the lady in the shop said that thyere was no way I could pout the 2 together as it would ruin the 9ct ring? Is that true...

Zaliq, friday 30-Jan-26 12 24,776
L
Wedding dress doubts!!
LuxuriousIvoryCakes74838, 22 July, 2018 at 23:33

HELP! I'm having major wedding dress doubts. I bought my dress from a lovely bridal shop a couple of months ago, it was the first and (so far) only bridal shop I've visited. I knew what I wanted...

Abbott, friday 30-Jan-26 6 2,234
M
DIY Bouquet
MrsRees2B, 8 November, 2015 at 10:56

Has anyone made or are planning to make their own flowers? I'm going to as cannot afford real or ready made artificial. Any advice would be gratefully received. I've watched videos on you tube and...

Ribbonandflower, thursday 29-Jan-26 16 2,281
LeedsBride
Registry office wedding?
LeedsBride, 19 August, 2011 at 21:44

I haven't posted on here for a while (but I have been lurking ?) I was just wondering what you guys thought of registry offices as a venue? what are the pros and cons? We are considering it as we both...

Leoparker, thursday 29-Jan-26 7 3,304
C
Interview before civil ceremony??
chels89, 4 March, 2012 at 16:52

Hi guys i wondered if anyone else has had this problem- i have given my notice of marriage and had the interview etc at the same time. I have now received the paper work from the registry office that...

Andriy, thursday 29-Jan-26 15 11,794
I
Photographer Fees & Experience
Ivana, 2 March, 2024 at 11:26

Hi everyone, I would like to get your opinion on my photographer situation. I'm getting married this year in Aug in East London. We are still deciding on photographers for our wedding, so far we are...

Darine, thursday 29-Jan-26 13 485 1
Mark
Out door weddings venue
Mark, 28 December, 2025 at 11:26

Hello I'm looking for a rural out door setting, tipi type venue which offers accomodation. My future wife and I are lovers of the out doors, and want a relaxed, boho type vibe.

Mark, thursday 29-Jan-26 11 70
N
Can’t get videos to work on wedding website
Natalie, 29 June, 2025 at 12:32

Hi, I’ve added a page for videos on the wedding website but when I’m uploading via the YouTube link it’s saying playback error and I can’t figure out why! Any suggestions? TIA! 😊

Ben, thursday 29-Jan-26 3 33

General groups

Hitched article topics