Help! My hair's too soft

Oooooo that's not good! Have you a hairdresser for your wedding? Could you visit a salon for advice on holding your style?

good luck, you'll sort it! X

Hello! Try a salt spray maybe? Alternatively don't use conditioner. Another possibility is to try a silicone free conditioner, which is what makes your hair all silky when you condition it. A lot of lush conditioner is silicone free, I use American cream. They also have products like "Big" which has salt in it to make your hair a bit more coarse!

Worth a shot

Nope, I'm doing it myself. I think next time I wash I'll lay off conditioner altogether and see how that affects it. It won't be a disaster on the day as I'm using a hair rat for volume and I can use 8 million pins to hold it together, it just feels weird.

I have really soft hair in general but at the same time cannot go without conditioner as it gets too tangled otherwise.

What I have found really helps is conditioning first and then washing it with shampoo. That way you still get the benefit of the conditioner, but your hair is not too soft.

Mine does that too! Try increasing your washes before the wedding, this will dry your hair out and hopefully remove some of the oils used in the hair dye

Dry shampoo....gives texture, deffo ease up conditioner. When first coloured, hair is always silky soft due to the conditioner but be careful ditching it as your hair will be more brittle. Just treat it gently. You could try a spray in and leave in conditioner after not using one while washing. Hairspray before back combing helps hold the back combing in too. The right hairspray helps as well. I find bed head rockabilly is rock hard and goes nowhere lol. X