Hey ladies,
So I have an issue regarding my mother's partner. We don't get along at all, constant bickering, him talking to meet like a child, He insults me quite often and he's just overall not a great person to be around.
I've spoken to my partner and my mother on a few occasions about not inviting him to my wedding, he likes a little too much too drink and become aggressive and start arguements and throw insults normally directed towards me or my partner and children. My partner agrees he should not be invited however my mother is saying if he doesn't go then she won't be going either. She's called me an a***hole on occasions because of this but as she is my only family I want her to be there. I really need some help on what to do. As this is very stressful and upsetting to me. Any advice is appreciate. But am I the a****hole?