Hello all! I'm getting married in summer 2023 so in the early planning stages.
I don't know what to do about bridesmaids! I have at least 5 friends and 4 cousins that I'm close to and would feel awkward choosing some without the others. I also know that some of the friends aren't very "girly" and would hate having to wear a particular dress and help me get ready, or even plan a hen do. I have other friends who I'm not quite as close to but I know would love to help me pick a dress or plan a hen do.
I have 2 additional younger cousins that I plan to have as flower girls.
Is there an alternative where I can still include my special friends in their own ways without having a group of 9 bridesmaids and all the expectations that go with them?