My sister is 4 years younger than me and is getting married in a year.. I am getting married in 8 weeks. I just want the focus to be on my wedding for now, but she won't leave hers alone, she is constantly talking about hers and its driving me mad. I know she is excited but she is looking at getting her seating plan laminated.. she hasn't even sent the invites out! I need to know if I'm being unreasonable. Is it too much to ask for it to be about me, just this once? When my wedding is over we'll have a whole year to plan and talk about hers.. why now?! Its breaking my heart. ?