Am i being unreasonable about my hen?

I can understand why you’re upset but we just don’t know what restrictions will be in place later in the year with regard to travel so your friends are probably reluctant to pay for an abroad hen do that may not happen. I had 3 days in the Cotswolds instead of Marbella and it was lovely being with all my friends and we had so much fun. I’m sure whatever you do your friends will make it special for you x

I think with how the travel industry is at the moment it’s so hard.
Obviously currently you have to test before, during and after for certain destinations. Also there’s isolation and restrictions both abroad and at home.

They may not want to risk booking somewhere which would then be cancelled therefore causing disappointment for you all. Also if you have to quarantine after this means that everyone would lose wages for the 10 days or have to use their annual leave to do it. Although you can get the tests cheap enough, the amount you have to do and with the rules changing weekly, it could end up being quite costly.
Have you asked all guests who would be invited on the hen how they feel about going abroad? Maybe some of them have said no and it’s only 1 or 2 of you that would end up going. Maybe your bridesmaid thinks more people coming to a UK one would be better than a small amount abroad.
I travel for work so had similar feelings about a England hen do but actually it was amazing. I still want my Vegas hen but as we still can’t go there, we’re gunna have an abroad one after the wedding and when we can travel.