Am I overreacting? Grooms new haircut....

Um, a little, yes. Imagine if he told you how to have your hair? It does sound like he has thought about it too.

You'll be surprised how fast his hair will grow in a month, and I very much doubt in 20 years time will think that, it'll probably be the last thing you think of after 'oh, what a great day we had', 'don't we look young', 'how fashions have changed'.

Exactly!

Oh god, what a pain! Nothing much you can do about it now, maybe he'll be extra specially nice to you make it up to you. Are there any unfinished jobs you can get him to do?

To be honest you probably won't even notice it on the day so relax & enjoy the last few days of singledom

It's next week, not next month! If it was next month I wouldn't mind! I think the wedding stress is getting to me!! I think because it was a big change it's a bit of a shock as well. It was almost four inches long because he'd left it so long. Deep breaths, hopefully the nice sunny weather will encourage it to soften. And I've been in tears over everything today.

Ah sorry, misread that for one month. You're entitled to stress out a little more then, but in all honesty there's nothing you can do about it so refocus the stress to something you can do something about!

What Sarah-Kay said

Thanks guys. I think I just needed to let of some steam about it. Am turning into bridezilla! Nooooo! Will go and make up with him now. Things go a bit out of perspective when you feel stressed (I'm sure you all know about wedding stress!) There's just such a lot to worry about! Thankfully his hair grows quickly - he's done something right!

YES!

Sorry, what I am going to say prob sounds a bit harsh, but when I look back in 20 yrs at our photos I (hopefully) will be thinking what a lovely day we had. Does it really matter what he looks like? I'm sure you are not marrying him for his hair.

Really sorry but I think you need to get a grip and focus on the important bits of the day, I think you are in serious danger of turning into Bridezilla.

Ah hair is hair-love is love! When you are old and grey sitting in your rocking chairs holding hands you'll be wishing he had even that tiny little bit of hair!

x

Honestly? It is maybe a little bit mad to be soooo pissed off about it ... hair isn't really what the day is about - his or yours! He's still the man you want to marry for all the right reason, whether his hair is over an inch long or not... don't focus on it, just let it go - its really not worth getting stressed about!

Your photos and memories of the day in 20 years time will be about a whole lot more than the length of your hubbies hair - I hope!!

Good luck next week!

(edited to add in the word 'hair' to stop a sentance from reading VERY badly!!!!)

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Yeh, it's just about over an inch long =P lol. I've come round to it now, just had a really stressful day, and it was a bit of a shock!

To be honest I thought this was a joke post.

I know we all have rants and stuff but really if it bothers you that much that you seriously think that when you looked at the photos all you would focus on is the bad hair + beard then you really need to think about what the day is for. Sorry to be harsh and we all have our bridezilla moments but get a grip woman.

It's just hair, it's not his willy that's been chopped off ?

Definately a case of wedding stresses taking over! ?, this will be a moment you will laugh about when looking through your wedding album ?

Sounds to me as though he's done a nice thing. Quite sweet. I feel a bit sorry for him. Some grooms don't seem to get an awful lot of say in weddings, and the poor bloke's got himself a haircut which he obviously likes and you're stressing! On the day, you'll be too busy staring into his eyes to notice.

Alternatively - there are always hair extensions..... if it's good enough for Peter Andre.....