Anxiety and hosting a wedding at my Fiancé’s parents

Hi all,


I hope you all had a lovely Christmas!! My fiancé and I are thinking of getting married at his parents house. They have a lovely 5 bedroom farmhouse with land and a swimming pool. We can have a marquee and a really casual country wedding! Not forgetting how much money we’d be saving.
However, my anxiety is stopping me from having it there. I didn’t grow up in a household with much money, I’m not a flashy person and I hate talking about wealth. I’m worried about the comments people are going to make and any digs they will make at me once they see his parents house. It’s stupid because the house isn’t even his!! I told my friend that his parents had a pool and she made it such a big deal. They then said ‘you’ve done so well for yourself, can I marry your fiancé’. This upset me and hurt because does that mean that my fiancé hasn’t done well because we don’t have much money as a family? I’m not with my fiancé with money at all, he’s the kindest and best person ever.
I’m just worried that a comment like that on my wedding day would ruin it for me and find it hard to ignore throw away comments
To have your thoughts on what you would do and to reduce my anxiety would really help! Thank you x