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Beginner October 2011

Any other brides never been a bridesmaid?

happycamper, 3 February, 2011 at 21:09 Posted on Planning 0 35

Really random question...

Are there any other brides on here who have never been a bridesmaid? Seems like almost everyone I meet says they have been, but I have never been one!

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Latest activity by *JLS*, 4 February, 2011 at 17:04
  • Little Madam
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    Little Madam ·
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    I haven't been an adult bridesmaid no..

    I am the first in our friendship group to get married, but will expect more bridesmaid duties as I go on...

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  • M
    Beginner March 2012
    mrs a to be ·
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    nope never been a bridesmaid. infact never been to a wedding ceremony!
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  • celticgoddess
    Beginner March 2012
    celticgoddess ·
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    Not since i was 18 lol does that count?

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  • E
    Beginner December 2011
    eternallyme ·
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    Nope, never been a bridesmaid!

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  • Philippa_1
    Beginner August 2011
    Philippa_1 ·
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    No i have never being a bridesmaid

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  • Rebecca86
    Beginner July 2012
    Rebecca86 ·
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    Nope never been a bridesmaid !

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  • Doris 5/10
    Beginner May 2013
    Doris 5/10 ·
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    Oct will be my 6th time as a bridesmaid!!

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  • BumbleBrat
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    I declined in 2005 when my Sister got married. Regretted it tons since and none of my close friends are married so haven't ever been one.

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  • sarahb3426
    Beginner June 2012
    sarahb3426 ·
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    Nope, i've never been one either, and most of my friends and family are all married - so guess i'll never be one!

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  • Saisi
    Beginner June 2011
    Saisi ·
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    Never been one EVER, and now I never will be Smiley sad only a Matron of Honour which isn't the same [:'(]

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  • stripeyrache
    Beginner February 2011
    stripeyrache ·
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    Nope! Not even when I was a kiddie, and I really really really wanted to be one!!! Though in adulthood, like Kayl, I am the first of my girlfriends to get married, so it may happen yet.

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  • melissamatthew
    Beginner July 2011
    melissamatthew ·
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    Me neither... But my bridesmaid has been one three times and she is hoping that one day she becomes a bride..!

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  • panda2011
    Beginner September 2011
    panda2011 ·
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    Nope, my sister in law didn't want me & none of my friends have got married while I've known them or are having long engagements. I had only attended my brothers wedding until 3 years ago when I started getting dragged off to RAF weddings.

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  • victoriamarie
    Beginner July 2011
    victoriamarie ·
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    In 27 years I've never been a bridesmaid ☹️

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  • K
    Beginner April 2011
    kparka ·
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    Nope, never been one.... was supposed to be one this year for SIL2B BUT when we decided we would get married (god forbid) in the same year she fell out with me & thought i/we would ruin her wedding (ffs!) so i told her i would step down but if she still wanted me to be one then she only had to say & i would be..... hurts to say it but i was hoping she would say dont be daft & still want me.... NOPE! got replaced faster than i new it!

    so nope still never been bridesmaid!

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  • Katscamel
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    I haven't been one either - maybe we should just all be each others.........

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  • Amour Occasions
    Amour Occasions ·
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    Hi

    I was a child bridesmaid but Ive never been a adult one!

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  • H
    Beginner October 2011
    happycamper ·
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    I'm older than you, and never been one! Never really bothered about it to be honest, as I didn't even really care much about weddings until I started planning my own, and now I think being a bridesmaid could have been valuable training....

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  • Houdini
    Beginner August 2010
    Houdini ·
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    4 times for me, sorry!

    A flower girl for my aunt uncle, twice for my sisters and once for a good friend. I can't see ever being one again though.

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  • Storky
    Beginner May 2011
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    Never [:'(]

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  • Vikster79
    Beginner July 2011
    Vikster79 ·
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    I havnt been a bridesmaid either ☹️

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  • yes2011
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    I haven't been one although I was close to get the job twice...

    Now my maid of honor is one who hasn't been a bridesmaid before either Smiley smile

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  • A
    Beginner April 2011
    arnold2b ·
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    I never have! Hoping i will be my younger sisters one day!

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  • Red Baroness
    Beginner July 2012
    Red Baroness ·
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    Once, and I have the scars to prove it!

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  • *Nursey*
    Beginner May 2012
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    I was a bridesmaid nearly 2 years ago for my SIL. I arranged her hen party but that's about it. I picked my dress as SIL didn't care what style or colour I had, and seemed to be just disinterested. They don't usually have bridesmaids so they "forgot" to tell me what I was doing and I went and sat down with OH and the other guests. So I was just a guest in a pretty dress to be honest

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  • Red Baroness
    Beginner July 2012
    Red Baroness ·
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    Hahaha, you'd have thought so with all the cuts from my dress!

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  • charliebird7
    Beginner March 2012
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    Only once, when I was 3 for my auntie. I don't remember anything about it though. x

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  • Samantha2704
    Beginner July 2011
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    Nope, Not me....
    I'm 22 so i suppose a lot of my friends are still at uni or riding solo enjoying there social lives...

    I've always wanted to be a Bridesmaid but i keep telling myself i was saving myself to become a bride! X

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  • spikeygoodness
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    I was a bridesmaid when I was 4, but I don't really remember it. I've not been an adult bridesmaid though.

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  • 1Lucie
    Beginner May 2011
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    Almosy, i was at bridesmaid when i 3 and im now 26 so i think that almost counts lol

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  • lovelygirl
    Beginner August 2011
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    I have always been too busy and shy so have always declined being my friends bridesmaid, and I was a flowergirl once but can't remember anything about the day

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  • U
    Beginner August 2011
    universa_2k ·
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    Never been a bridesmaid either ☹️

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