App alerts

We've set up the app for myself and partner, I set the app / wedding page up, and we've now started receiving the RSVP's but it's only myself that is receiving the alerts to say someone has responded. Also someone sent a question to us through the app, but only it's only me that can see it in the messages and received the notification. Odd there a setting I'm missing so we both have the same experience, it's kind of nice being told someone has accepted and they're missing out.


TIA