I guessed ☹️. You hadn't been around so much, and when you said how old your children were.........
So, so sorry but you have done the right thing. It might not feel like it now, but it will. It's a really brave thing to do, it's so easy to just plod along and accept how things are. How are you all?
Do stay around, and don't forget I have you on my FB.
Shout if you need a chat, been there and got the t-shirt unfortunately.
I'm so sorry Sarah. I did wonder if it was you but didn't want to email as you obviously weren't ready to say who you were.
If you want to email me to chat I'm happy to listen. I know what it's like slightly from the other side with my h2b having went through a marriage breakup and I also had a relationship break up after 6 years together.
It's such a horrible saying but time is a great healer and you'll get there day by day.
So sorry you're going through this but you really have done the right thing. ?
And don't you dare disappear from here, you're well liked. Don't feel awkward that it's a wedding forum, Ooh La La's been camped out her for ages and she wasn't even engaged! ?
Oh sarah, i had wondered if it might be you.... i really hope you are ok, you sound as if you are being so strong. you are doing what is right for you and your kids, which is the most important thing - don't forget that. stick around if you feel you can - WBWCS - you are very well liked, and we will miss you. and i'm on your FB if you ever want a chat/rant/whatever xxxxxxxx
Sarah, I had an awful feeling it might have been you, especially when you posted the kids ages!! I was really hoping it wasn't though.
You know where I am if you need to chat. Just wish I was physically closer to give you a big hug and an ear to bend. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
You're in shock! That's what my gp told me when my first marriage split up after 13 years. It'll feel like you're on a different planet for a little while, but having the children will help enormously because you have routine and you have to do things for their sake.
With two failed marriages behind me.....I've finally found Mr Right.
After reading your story, I wish I'd have been as brave as you. It may be a lot of hurt at the moment but there's nothing worse than being married to the wrong man for years (and its far harder to get out of too.)
Oh sarah im so sorry to hear it was you. I hope you are holding up ok for now. Please don't leave hitched just because of this, you're such a lovely person and i really hope you hang around!
Sarah that's only normal and I'd be worried if you weren't a snotty dribbling mess. You have been very strong because making the decision you have is never going to be easy even when it's clear the relationship isn't going the way it should so just to have taken that first step shows an amazing amount of courage and strength. ? x
OMG, Sarah, I did think of it possibly being you, but then changed my mind when you posted pictures the other day.
Still shocked at finding out though.
Once again, I am so sorry to hear this has happened, in a way even more so, as I have spoke to you on FB etc. Hope you get things sorted out. I'm here like everyone else if you need to talk, and on FB ?
I thought it might be you but really hoped it wasn't.
I've nothing more to add to what the others have said but just wanted to reiterate that we are here for you, (you far too talented to leave!), although can completely understand if WP is not a place you want to be right now.
I am so sorry on hearing your news, I have to say you have been so strong to make this decision and that is one thing you have to remember it was for you and your children the decision was made.
I hope as it will time will heal, please stick around. You have been a brilliant hitcher who I know has helped me with bits and I also know others as well.
So please stick around or pop in for a chat, vent or a general hello.
Take care, chin up and look after yourself and the kids ?
I'm really sorry to hear this Sarah. Had no idea it was you.
You're bound to feel pretty crap at the moment but you'll pick up! Just need some time. You are an extremely brave woman and have done the right thing for the sake of your children.