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soon2bsummers, 21 April, 2009 at 11:28 Posted on Planning 0 52

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  • kacaldwell
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    Thinking of you xx

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  • ooh la la
    Beginner August 2013
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    Oh dear, I had no idea it could be you!

    I have never been in this situation, so can't really offer advice. But what you've done was extremely brave. I hope your children are alright.

    And plllllllllleeease stay around. You're a lovely Hitcher! ?

    Sending you a big, big hug and happy thoughts.

    ? + ? + ❤️

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  • Stazzle
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    Wow, I really am surprised that it's you. You sound really strong though, and have made the right choice by the sound of it.

    We're here if you need to vent any time ?

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    Beginner June 2009
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    I guessed ☹️. You hadn't been around so much, and when you said how old your children were.........

    So, so sorry but you have done the right thing. It might not feel like it now, but it will. It's a really brave thing to do, it's so easy to just plod along and accept how things are. How are you all?

    Do stay around, and don't forget I have you on my FB.

    Shout if you need a chat, been there and got the t-shirt unfortunately.

    Sending you lots of hugs (((((((())))))))

    xxx

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  • Lynseys Designs
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    I'm so sorry Sarah. I did wonder if it was you but didn't want to email as you obviously weren't ready to say who you were.

    If you want to email me to chat I'm happy to listen. I know what it's like slightly from the other side with my h2b having went through a marriage breakup and I also had a relationship break up after 6 years together.

    It's such a horrible saying but time is a great healer and you'll get there day by day.

    Hugs xxx

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  • Braw Wee Chanter
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    So sorry you're going through this but you really have done the right thing. ?

    And don't you dare disappear from here, you're well liked. Don't feel awkward that it's a wedding forum, Ooh La La's been camped out her for ages and she wasn't even engaged! ?

    x

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  • bluewater
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    Oh sarah, i had wondered if it might be you.... i really hope you are ok, you sound as if you are being so strong. you are doing what is right for you and your kids, which is the most important thing - don't forget that. stick around if you feel you can - WBWCS - you are very well liked, and we will miss you. and i'm on your FB if you ever want a chat/rant/whatever xxxxxxxx

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  • ashmegdj
    Beginner August 2009
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    Sarah, I had an awful feeling it might have been you, especially when you posted the kids ages!! I was really hoping it wasn't though.

    You know where I am if you need to chat. Just wish I was physically closer to give you a big hug and an ear to bend. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.

    xxxxx

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    Beginner June 2009
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    You're in shock! That's what my gp told me when my first marriage split up after 13 years. It'll feel like you're on a different planet for a little while, but having the children will help enormously because you have routine and you have to do things for their sake.

    xx

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    Mucho admiration Sarah.

    With two failed marriages behind me.....I've finally found Mr Right.

    After reading your story, I wish I'd have been as brave as you. It may be a lot of hurt at the moment but there's nothing worse than being married to the wrong man for years (and its far harder to get out of too.)

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    Oh sarah im so sorry to hear it was you. I hope you are holding up ok for now. Please don't leave hitched just because of this, you're such a lovely person and i really hope you hang around!

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  • Houdini
    Beginner August 2010
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    So sorry to hear this. Nothing to add or anything really that I can say to make it better but hope you are ok .

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  • moomin8804
    Beginner July 2009
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    I'm really sorry to hear this, don't forget if you need to vent in any way, we're always here to chat!

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  • Lynseys Designs
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    Sarah that's only normal and I'd be worried if you weren't a snotty dribbling mess. You have been very strong because making the decision you have is never going to be easy even when it's clear the relationship isn't going the way it should so just to have taken that first step shows an amazing amount of courage and strength. ? x

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  • shoegal01
    Beginner October 2010
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    Sarah,

    Sorry to hear what you are going through, stay strong.

    Make sure you stick around - you are a great hitcher and i would miss you if you didnt come on here! As well as missing your fav ebay skills!!

    If you need to chat/vent or whatever, were all hear for you

    x

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  • The Sock Chicken
    Beginner August 2010
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    OMG, Sarah, I did think of it possibly being you, but then changed my mind when you posted pictures the other day.

    Still shocked at finding out though.

    Once again, I am so sorry to hear this has happened, in a way even more so, as I have spoke to you on FB etc. Hope you get things sorted out. I'm here like everyone else if you need to talk, and on FB ?

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  • missdeedee
    Beginner April 2010
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    Oh Sarah, I was hoping it wasn't you.

    I cant add anything more than the girls have said. You might not feel like it, but you have been really strong!

    Please remember that we're all here for you xx

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    I thought it might be you but really hoped it wasn't.

    I've nothing more to add to what the others have said but just wanted to reiterate that we are here for you, (you far too talented to leave!), although can completely understand if WP is not a place you want to be right now.

    Thinking of you

    Sx

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  • nicky167
    Beginner September 2009
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    OMG Sarah. I had no idea it was you. I'm so sorry to hear this. Stay strong & positive. Thinking of you and the kiddies. ?

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  • Spring
    Beginner February 2008
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    Sarah i am so so sorry to read this.

    If it's not too difficult then it would be great if you could stick around as i think you're fab.

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  • CBear
    Beginner April 2009
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    Nothing to add on top of what the others have said, just wanted to sa thinking of you.

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  • FIONATS73
    Beginner August 2009
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    Hi Sarah,

    I am so sorry on hearing your news, I have to say you have been so strong to make this decision and that is one thing you have to remember it was for you and your children the decision was made.

    I hope as it will time will heal, please stick around. You have been a brilliant hitcher who I know has helped me with bits and I also know others as well.

    So please stick around or pop in for a chat, vent or a general hello.

    Take care, chin up and look after yourself and the kids ?

    Fi xxxx

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  • delvesje
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    Thinking of you, stay strong. xx

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  • hely08
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    So sorry for you

    sending hugs xxxx

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    Don't you dare think of leaving!

    The kettle is always on here & you can give me a hand anytime xxxx

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    I feel for you Sarah, must be so difficult for you esp as children are involved. Big hugsxxx

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    Beginner August 2009
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    I am so sorry to hear this Sarah.

    I really hope you can stick around. If you need to talk or just vent, please feel free to drop me a line.

    xx

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  • crafty em
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    Sarah,so so sorry to hear this.

    Em x

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  • boogiebelle
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    I'm really sorry to hear this Sarah. Had no idea it was you.

    You're bound to feel pretty crap at the moment but you'll pick up! Just need some time. You are an extremely brave woman and have done the right thing for the sake of your children.

    Thinking of you x

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