1st Bridezilla Moment..........

You were well within your rights to have a Bridezilla moment!! I won't have went nuts as well!! Regardless of when the wedding is they should have done what you asked!! xx

If it meant not being able to get the dresses made in time then you were totally justified in doing that (although I'm glad you were able to chat with them after). Some of bridesmaids (well my sisters) are well on the way to becoming pains in the arses too!

Hope that's the last of your bridezilla moments & that your bridesmaids behave!

I think it's a sister thing Kat.... x

Totally justifiable!!

I would have done the same! Grr if you have been nice enough to ask them to be bm's and (im assuming) paying for the dresses they should be working around you!!

My bm's are dotted around the country so I did what the guys on dont tell the bride do and bought them from coast! (seriously - how much advertising do Debut & Coast get!!))

I think you were right to bring it up with them, I would be annoyed to, only if they knew though, dont go mad...but in there defence were they aware the dresses were being discontinued at christmas? Having never been a bridesmaid, or planned a wedding before I never knew that dresses took so long to make and that the designers discontinued them.

Glad you sorted it out with them though, I know what you feel about being deflated and upset with them, I had a few issues with my maid of honour to start with and felt she really wasnt interested which upset me, but we sorted it out very quickly, so I know how you feel there!!

Definitely justified! I haven't stomped my feet too much... yet!

thank you i was begining to feel i was in the wrong for being annoyed. i'm paying for everything for them dress, shoes, jewellery, hair & make up and i think they all realise now why i was upset. so fingers crossed this will be the one any only bridezilla moment!

oh no i wont go mad its a genuine question moya, i was told in june that the dress was on the discontinued list - when i spoke to the girls i asked if they wouldnt mind going in asap to get measured coz i LOVE these dresses and the style fits/suits all 3. they all seemed really excited and told me they would pop down (its in the centre of town so about a 10-15 min drive for all 3) xx

Totally justified then! Especially since your being so generous!! I am only paying for my bm dresses, they will have to sort all the rest themselves! Im a bride with a budget!

I'm also a bride with a budget so my BM's are purchasing their own dresses, but I will get some Jewellery for them. My sister has even offered to buy my flower girls dresses.

I'm with you!

I'm totally with you on this one - I would be super annoyed if it were me. I just don't understand how people can't see the importance in these types of things - if they knew the dresses were being discontinued and they said they would go and get measured then why didn't they???? I really don't understand that behaviour at all!!

Anyways, at least thats it all done now and the dresses can be ordered.

Oh hen I'm with you on that, quiet right to go all Bridezilla on them. I would have done the same, especially cause you told them in June!!!!

Congrats on your first bridezilla moment lol

That does sound a bit crap of them, especially if they knew it was being discontinued!

Saying that, I was a bridesmaid for my friend about 5 years ago and it wasn't until I was planning my own wedding I realised what a pants bridesmaid I had been, I honestly didn't realise it at the time though ?

Hows thing with you apart from that, everything going ok?

thanks ladies you have made me feel better!

thank you very much my sweet!! ? lets just hope this is the first & last! x

Completely understandable - but then again what I've noticed from my planning most people-BMs included (and in my case OH also included...) will not understand the urgency of getting these things done way ahead of time.

the important thing is you got it done ! just a shame you had to go through unnecessary stress.