Hi again,
After such lovely helpful advice on my last post, I wondered if I could throw another question out there pretty please!
Does anyone have ANY advice/tips/suggestions on where to hold a wedding of 200-220 guests, with a small budget (8-10k total wedding budget)
We are initially thinking of trying to find some land to hire, then having one big marquee to seat everyone, and smaller marquees and gazebos dotted around (one for kids, one for a bar etc etc) and doing a kind of festival vibe. It will be very very DIY - as I just can't imagine we could do it any other way. Plus we're not very traditional and I can't imagine a big stately home would suit us.
However, trying to find somewhere is proving pretty difficult! Plus, by the time you hire the field, then hire a big marquee, and all the seating, tables, etc etc etc we're talking a fair whack of our budget gone, and that's simply just on a marquee and table/chairs, not even decor, table linen, crockery, food, drink, entertainment and all the other things! Would it just be better to hire a whole venue (that allows BYOB and your own catering)
AAAAAGGGHHHHHH.......it feels pretty stressful already, and we've only got engaged a month ago! We really want to get married 2015, so obviously we're pushing it time wise, but we figure what's the point in waiting, especially as we've got kids, planning on more, you can never afford it anyway and so on.
This is a very rambled message, apologies, but I wondered if anyone else is planning a wedding of this size, or if anyone has suggestions for places in Essex - cheap venues, unusual venues, land hire etc?
Thanks in advance.