Hi there,
In the realisation that our wedding is only 5 months away (June 3rd), my OH and I have only got 3 real issues to sort. I wonder if you could help clear the wood from the trees for us.
1. Suits:
As a gay couple, we will both be wearing suits. Would you go for matching suits? I'd like the same colour, but we both wonder if this will make us look like brothers?! Has anybody any experience of matching suits on grooms?
2. Rings:
Again, we had intended to go for matching rings, but it now appears that I have my heart set on a ring that he cant have sized appropriately. Do I forgo the ring in aid of matching, big dilemma.
3. Cake:
I'm a good baker (modesty), and will be making our cake. I am slightly worried about having time to create the masterpiece we have set our hearts on. As a compromise, I am considering making 'show cakes' using polystyrene fakes, which I can ice and decorate weeks in advance. As a guest, would you feel short changed once you learn that we cut a polystyrene block? With all honesty, we have 7 tiers planned, but with only 100 guests I was going to create 'cutting bars' which would serve all the guests, and can be quickly made and iced in the week of the big day.
Ugh, sorry for the splurge. Underneath it all we are looking forward to it!
Roger.