4 sleeps to go and guests are changing their answers

Don't stress it will be okay and all that matters is that you and your mister have a good day. my sister had the same thing a cousin cancelled like few days before she just said to someone else do you want to come filled their space as long as it wasn't child. some people are so inconsiderate, hope it gets sorted don't let it get you down to much and I hope you have an amazing day.

Sorry to hear that, it's really inconsiderate behaviour
I'm sure you will have a wonderful day without them and as you've rightfully said - their loss!

x

That's rubbish!! I worry about this too.. I have some 'flaky guests' and a minimum number to fill too. Try and bump some evening guests, just be honest say you've been let down at the last minute if they'd like to come along. I'd be honored if someone bumped me I wouldn't care if my name wasnt on the table plan and someone just told me who's seat i was filling.

Such a shame and actually quite rude!! If their goign away on Tuesday whats that got to do with Saturday?! Anyway don't let it bother you - I'd rather ask people to come and fill the space but thats up to you.

I am not inviting my 'flaky' friends and if they ask why I will tell them thats the reason - they will be evening guests only.

Don't stress x

Don't worry about it. I had people drop out on the Wednesday before my friday wedding - I promptly filled their space with people I should have invited instead of them in the first place. Quick DIY alteration job to the table plan, no problem.

And never invite them to anything ever again.?

this. all of this

Try not to get too stressed, it really is their loss. You & OH will have a great day regardless.
People can be really selfish and inconsiderate sometimes and they're the ones who don't deserve to be at your big day anyway x

That is really bad! I've just been going along with the naive assumption that everyone that rsvp's to us (when the time comes) will definitely come but maybe some people will drop out. I will be really annoyed if people cancel at the last minute with some lame excuse! People must realise how much weddings cost per head and that you have to pay in full some time before the wedding and that you don't get it back. Or maybe they genuinely don't.

Try not to worry about it. In the big scheme of things it doesn't matter. You'll have a fab day and you'll forget all about it. Try and fill the spots if you can but if you can't you can't.