5 weeks to go and

Theres nothing I can say but want you to know how sorry I am. My Mum found out she had Cancer a few months ago and is half way through her treatment now. I take it by the fact they have put you in for surgery that it is treatable? In terms of being strong for others, you really don't need to be. When we first found out about my Mum it made it harder knowing she was trying to be strong for us. Let your family be there for you as they really will want to be.

Massive hugs

Rach xx

Sending you big hugs x x concentrate on yourself. people wont expect you to be strong for them as they will be your strength. fingers crossed the surgery will be all you need. my dad found out he had cancer about 6 weeks before my sisters wedding and he was told that with his cancer dont expect to be walking her down the aisle. He walked her proudly down the aisle. that was 8 years ago, next year he will be walking me down the aisle.

just remember that your friends and family will be with you every step of the way and will give you a shoulder to cry on whenever you need it even if it is early hours of the morning x x

Oh no, I really cant imagine how hard this must be for you. Don't worry about everyone else, just remember that they are there for you and want the best for you. You will have an amazing honeymoon whenever you go. Although it's disappointing now, your health is the main thing and you can go away when you have fully recovered and you will appreciate it all the more. Hugs xx

Just to echo what others have said, focus on yourself and building your strength. I imagine you may be in shock right now, is there anyone you can speak to? I really wish you all the best with this x

Oh no, I am really sorry to hear this. Would you be more comfortable with perhaps postponing your wedding till you can absorb what's going on? Or making your down sizing your wedding to perhaps immediate family and friends?

My friend was in a similar situation but found out approx 6 months before their wedding date. She downsized her wedding from a very grand a fair to just 22 of us to the actual ceremony/meal and then a bigger do at night. It made her realise what was important to her as she'd been under pressure from her parents for a grand wedding (she's an only child). It was a beautiful/emotional day, not that it won't be regardless of size.

Take your time and have a think of what's right for you, don't be pressured by anyone. And don't be afraid to lean on those around you for support.

Thinking of you.

I'm so sorry to hear your devastating news, it's not surprising you feel as you do, I'm sure you're still in shock and trying to take it all in. ** HUGS **.

Maybe you'll not need to cancel your honeymoon , or maybe just delay it, speak to your doctor about it.

Best of Luck for Wednesday.

L x