8 weeks to go. Stress has now set in.

1) There's nothing you can do about your brother's jaw but hope he gets better soon.

2) You've got a month to do the seating plan, give it a few weeks until you're sure where to sit everyone.

3) Well, it you didn't want them there anyway then that's a blessing. It's annoying to not get RSVP's back but if they've not replied then tell them they've got to the end of the week as you've already said.

4) Don't worry about your weight, I'm sure your dress will look very flattering. I feel the same but I'm not worrying about it as I can't do anything about it now.

5) Don't panic, you've got a few weeks yet to sort it.

Hope it all works out for you

Thanks girls.

To be fair I suspect my brother got into a fight so no sympathy just more annoyed.

I have done some more calculations today which has helped. We have 3 pay days between the 2 of us before the wedding.

I have also made OH make the relevant RSVP calls giving the ultimatum. Its his side.

I need to concentrating on enjoying my make up trial this weekend and last bridal bit shopping next weekend instead. I stress eat so bad. Our office is cake/chocolate heaven. But I sit next to another B2B who can say no, just need to get her will power for the next 8 weeks! x