Sorry this is a bit long!
I got engaged just over a year ago and was eager to try on dresses as soon as possible. At the time we were restricted by money due to possible redundancy, so had a fairly small budget. For that reason I never went "proper" dress shopping (didn't want to risk falling in love with a dress I couldn't afford). I went to a discount outlet and a few sample sales but to be honest everything was pretty hideous, and I only ended up trying dresses on to get an idea of what style suited me.
At the last sample sale I again saw nothing I liked. However I spotted a dress on the non-sale rack and asked to try it on. It was 2 sizes too big but once the girl pulled it in at the back I absolutely loved it. Out of curiosity I asked how much the dress was, she said £900 but offered me the sample dress for half price. Anyway I bought it, had it dry cleaned so it was good as new, and last week I had my first fitting.
At the fitting I did not get the same overwhelming feeling as the first time I tried the dress on. Even after the dressmaker pinned it all in I just didn't feel it looked "right". Now I am wondering did I only buy it because it was cheap? Did I only like it because it was the first non-hideous dress I tried on? Or am I just getting wobbles because I am nervous?
Since I bought the dress our financial situation has changed and we are not as restricted with our budget (we're still being savvy but don't have to scrimp over anything now). If I'd waited a few months longer I could have afforded something full price, and now I can't help feeling I have missed out on the chance to try on lots of beautiful dresses.
Another thing that concerns me is that the manufacturer no longer has the dress on it's website. The 2009 collection is on there but my dress has mysteriously vanished. Was it so unpopular they discontinued it?!
I know what everyone is thinking, I must wait til the 2nd fitting to see what the dress looks like when it is actually my size. I know this, I just need a bit of reassurance.
I know what else you are thinking - flash! Well I don't have a pic of me in it yet but this is the manufacturers pic:
http://www.buyer100.net/product.php?productid=27036
And this is a link to what it looks like in the flesh (it's not my actual dress though)
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