A little overwhelmed

Don't panic. I AM was AM the most disorganised bride, I changed my theme 3 times and my dress 3 times !!!

Just make a little list of key things to do for the next month, like Venue, Tog, Florist and Dress - then work your way down. You will be amazed at how it all comes together in the end!!!

I have chosen a dress, I'm going for the fitting next week. I have also found the venue, but just waiting for them to come back to me with food options (it's an ongoing thing...)

What is a tog??!! Sorry......

took me ages to work out that its a phoTOGrapher! lol.

listen you'll be fine! sound like you're actually more organised than you think!!

so what date you thinking of then?? or you waiting to see what the venue comes bk with?

Oh God - thank the Lord No Tog organised.....

We have provisionally booked the venue for December 11th. We have booked the registrar too.

I just wish I was a little further along with it all

We haven't booked anything either (see my post from the other day having a panic!!). I think once you've booked the venue and therefore know the date for definite then your able to book the other main things (eg. the 'tog' ?) so you will feel much more sorted... well thats what I'M telling myself anyway!

Good luck!

Sorry Ruth - TOG is, as Deborah explained, the photographer!

You sound quite organised and you have sorted out two big things already!

TBH, maybe you have my problem... in the past everytime I came on to hitched I would compare my planning stages to the other girls in my month - it used to get me in a state every time because they are all so efficent and had so many ideas, I had no idea what we wanted to call our tables or colour our chairs at the reception etc . I know I'll get there, in my own time, I am just not as organised as some other lovely ladies on here.

Since I have accpeted that I am "Queen of Chaos and all things lastminute.com" I am starting to really enjoy planning now and it really is "all coming together"

I think I am going through stages of thinking I am mega organised, then panic sets in.....and of course money is a real pain.

Hey. I'm another December bride.

Things I have planned/sorted.

Venue, photographer and hotel for where we are staying after.

I *thnk* I have the dress now, but going back in a couple of weeks to decide.

I have given notice to get married, but you're not running late!

I'm starting to look at wedding cars and stationary now.

So you're not behind at all!

Hope that helps ?