Hi all,
I have a bit of a problem and would appreciate any ideas...
A friend offered to video our wedding day plus evening and interviews with guests etc as she was trying to get into film-making, and still (3 years later next month!) I haven't received it - though she did send me one file once which didn't work as it was corrupt. I'm forgetting bits of my day now and have asked her several times for the video but she has been constantly busy since 2006 apparently and at one point told me to 'email her every week to remind her', which I did, but she had several holidays and other things which were more important so she still didn't do it.
She's on Facebook and I am forever seeing on her status about her next plans and things like 'what shall she do today?' which just rubs it in further because I want to suggest something she could do... ! I emailed her yesterday asking if I should still be emailing her every week to which she replied saying no there wasn't much point cos the weather was gorgeous (she lives abroad) and she wasn't going to sit indoors staring at a PC all day so I would have to wait till it was raining or till Winter! At which time I'm sure she'll have something better to do again.
I just don't know what to do or if i'm expecting too much as we weren't paying her for this and she's a friend - obviously if I'd have paid her I'd have had more of a leg to stand on but now I feel I can't keep on too much as I guess it was effectively a favour.
Argh - what would you do?! ?
Thanks if you've got this far! xx