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Bloody FB!

Don't know what to suggest to be honest other than *** slap the lot of them!!! That probably won't help though...

The really annoying thing is that they think they're being subtle about it!!!! as if i wont undertand wht thy're on about!!! i hell im proud of doing my photos and showing my body off, ive hated myself for years and am finally beginning to love and accept myself for who i am (although i want bigger boobs lol), i need to slap something!!!

Thats infuriating!! why are some people like that! Let them get on with snidy remarks and just remember how much fun you had doing the shoot!

Rise above it... you looked fabulous and that's all that counts!

Oh i know but its driving me nuts. and i feel bad for my dad aswell as he doesnt exactky have the best of relationships his side of the family

I agree with Mrs C. Just rise above it. If they can see it's bothering you, they'll play up even more. I'd completely ignore it, that's the grown up and dignified thing to do, something which they clearly are not! We know you're fab! x

As long as you and your OH think you look fab that's all that matters. There is plenty of time before your wedding to uninvite people!

Best not to tell people about your photoshoot. What happens in the photographers studio, stays in the photogrpahers studio... ?

I think I'd be crossing them off you guest list. Maybe use FB yourself to say how restricted you are on numbers and how hard it is to choose, but luckily some candidates are making it easier for you to cross them off.

FB is the spawn of the devil!

Thats a shame your family are reacting in that way though! Just ignore them!

How did everyone know about your photoshoot?

I do agree with GeordieBarbie - if I did one it would be just between OH and I, and some of my very closest friends.

It obviously doesn't excuse their behaviour but I do think things like that should perhaps not be shared with family etc.

How do they even know what the photos look like? You havnt put them on facebook have you?!! If you have then to be honest you have to expect people to have all kinds of different reactions to them.

If it were me i would have kept it to myself - i dont think i would want my and my OH's parents/family knowing i had given my OH some naughty photos of myself - bit wierd!

Have they seen any of the pics?

I did a photo session but I don't think like the ones you did and whilst I did tell my parents they have no idea what the pics were like. I may have shown them one pic that is just of my face but I wouldn't tell any other family members or show them anything.

If you have said the pics are playboy type ones then people are unfortunately going to be judgemental. That doesn't excuse them slagging you off but some people are narrow minded and feel that their opinion is worthy of being shared.

Rise above it and just never mention the pics again and they will soon get bored. If you feel that strongly then cull them or speak to them and say your life is your business and they either shut up or bugger off.

xx

I have a very close realtionship with my mum and i tell her everything so she knows, all i pu as my status was "i did my FHM style shoot today and had a brilliant time" or words to that effect, the way they're going on its like ive become a porn star!!!

I would put a bet on it that they are jealous - would never have the courage to do it themselves - so knock others that do.

I have not long had one done and i loved it and i did tell my family and friends, i even put one or two on FB some of the less revealin ones. I had amixed reaction, some said Wow and others didnt approve.

I feel sorry for them that feel that way but dont ever regret or feel bad about doing something like that - you go girl xx

Well in that case they are totally overreacting!

Let them get on with it and gossip!

They have no idea what the photos actually look like so dont let it bother you! Give us a flash of the less risque ones though!!

Here's one lol

these were taken in my bedroom and i hadnt been up long, hence why i look half asleep!!! our tog took these, he's brilliant!

And a couple more ?

Ah thank you, i think they're my best feature. you know what??? i think i might just go and become one LOL ?

Lovely pictures, you should be proud. I really want some done. But my OH would like to be in the room. I'm fine with being naked but he's worried about me. I would like to do it before I have kids and ruin my figure forever so I can show people what I used to look like!

Nothing wrong with those pictures in my eyes, not like they show anything. When you said it was an FHM type photo session I thought it would have had you a lot more exposed and very very sexy.

Maybe I've got you confused with another hitcher who had done 2 sessions?

Just ignore your family. x

I think you look great, and its classy. Ignore the others

Oh there are some naughtier ones!!! these are just a few. OH was with me whilst i was having them done and i have never laughed so much or so hard ion my life!!! between OH and the togs im surprised we got anything done, it was like being in a room of teenagers!

Who do you have as your tog CP?

Paul beard he's based in worcester x

Just being nosey given that we live in the same place!!!! He's done a fab job for you. The photos are great. Think I saw another one on a different thread didn't I and that was really good. I was thinking of asking mine if he'd do something like that and give the prints to my OH as part of his wedding pressie as a surprise.

You have mail allgold!!

Ooh thanks.......

Ok, help me out, how do I get to it????

I have no idea!!!

Haha, brilliant!!