Ok, some of you may remember just before Christmas I wrote on OT about problems am having with my brother, (short story:- him running up a huge bill, me going guarntor and ended up with his huge bill - brother has paid a total of £20 and nothing since xmas, lots of to/back with him, now no contact, he's left his girlfriend, don't have an address for him etc and he doesnt ans any txt's etc from me asking for money for the debt)..
So...anyways,as things stand now, am still paying this bill, don't have much contact with said brother, although my mum still sees him/speaks to him etc..
Talking with OH the other day about the wedding and currently we have OH's brother and my x2 brothers as Ushers, OH has said that since am still paying this bill, brother not doing anything to help etc he no longer wants him to be an Usher, seen were paying for the wedding, paying for the suits etc, i kinda agree with him, me and OH have talked that we will not have him as an usher no longer, but will ask my cousin (who is same age n best friends with my other brother) instead, but he will still be invited to the wedding but just as a guest.
Now, am thinking this is ok...cue family, namely my mum is saying it is bang out of order! i asked my brother 1st to be an usher and should still have him as such, he's family etc and it will look odd in the photos that said brother will not be in the same suit as other brother who is an usher! Grrrr
Does anyone think am being out of order no longer having him as my usher????