I'm more a lurker than a poster but I came on here to share my experience with ladies who might understand more than my unmarried friends seem to :/
We get married 5 weeks today in Church then on to a hotel local to the Church. When we looked at the hotel it's nothing spectacular but is informal, relaxed and ever so friendly - which was what we wanted for the day. Everytime we've gone in the staff have been so welcoming.
The problem arises when putting anything into writing, returning calls or confirming aspects. Ie I had no idea HOW they know where we want the tables, who the DJ is etc etc.
So yesterday, at my wits end, having had my promises broken so many times I ask what the cancellation policy was.
I was in the middle of a huge well known department store when the hotel ring me. They say that it's fine, they'll refund the lot. The manager was shouting at me that he was just back from a holiday, he was doing a 16 hour shift, that he's sorry that my wedding isn't getting enough attention but he thinks that thinks have come to a head and there was no way back.
*CUE EMOTIONAL BREAKDOWN IN PUBLIC*
I was in town whcih I rarely do. I couldn't even finish my shopping. I had to call the OH at work who left and went straight down to see the manager. Who firstly apologised and then spent a couple of hours with the OH actually answering the questions that I had needed answered.
So according to my friends alls well that ends well. But inside I'm a wee bit broken. I had no idea that someone could be so cruel. We'd never find another reception in time and rearranging people would be a nightmare.
So I guess I'm wondering a) Am I being hypersensitive and b)Has anyone had a similar experience that worked out in the end and c ) will I feel better about it given time?
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