Hiya. I'm a newbie to hitched. I've been engaged over a year and we've not done any planning or saving up as I was pregnant too, so everything has been spent on little one (and our eldest). It will be the second marriage for both of us. First time around our wedding days were not really what we wanted, just rushed and haphazard.
My eldest is from my previous marriage and quite by coincidence shares her surname with my fiancé and our youngest, whilst I've been reverted back to my maiden name for 6 years now. I feel excluded from the 'family' as I have a different surname. OH said why don't I just change it via deed poll until we can afford to get married. I don't think it's the same though, I need to be married to have it. I'm also pretty edgy because a previous fiancé decided to leave me, so until we have something booked I'm never quite going to believe it.
as money is so tight, would you have a super budget friendly wedding (£45 special at the registry office sort of thing) or would you sit tight and save up for the next few years (very very hard with a family) so we can have a wedding that is more like what we would want? Even finding a £2000 budget would be incredibly difficult for us at the moment. I really appreciate your advice. Thank you.