I have just found out that 2 years ago one of my best friends slept with my other best friends boyfriend whilst she was upstairs asleep. Apparently it was following a drunken party but there is no excuse for that .
They are not together anymore and have not been for a year or so but i cant help but feel differently about my friend. i have been told by someone else who was there and caught them at it. i dont know what to do - i dont think I should tell the "girlfriend" as it is long ago now and she is happy with another guy who is much better for her - it would just cause unnecessary upset.
i dont know whether i should talk to "my friend" and ask her what happened. I just dont know how i can carry on as her friend as she has totally changed in my eyes ;-( i feel sick and upset that she isnt who i thought she was.
Do i just leave all alone pretend i dont know and try to regain my trust in her, do i confront her and cut her out of my life or will that mean it will all come out. I really dont knw what to do. If the "girlfriend" ever found out she would be heartbroken that her friend had done this to her. They have been friends for years and are so close.
i wish i hadnt found out but i have but i dont know what to do and for obvious reasons i cant talk to my friends about it.
What do you think i should do???
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