Hi all,
We are in the process of deciding on final numbers for our guest list
We asked FMIL for a list of family/friends that we may have missed, and got around 40 names for all day (over half the number for the capacity!)
We made the decision to put only family for the meal, and invite the friends to the evening as I have never met them in over 3 years.
When my OH showed this to MIL today she got annoyed, saying she has already invited some verbally and she thought half the guests were 'theirs'
Not sure how to approach this, if we invite everyone it means sacrificing our own friends and having people we do not really know. If we don't Then we could end up upsetting MIL quite a lot?
Help!!